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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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17 yr old male im gay and the last few months ive become really close to a guy we hang out a lot together and i like him a lot and i think he likes me im a bit nervous about making a move in case he freaks out i am worried what people might think or a might get picked on because im gay should i go ahead and see if he likes me?

Go ahead! Don't care what people think, its your happiness and life that matters! See if he likes you.
Good luck!
Hope I helped!

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Hey, I'm 17 and I'm a junior. Everybody at my school thinks I'm hot. I play baseball and football so I'm also the jock. I really like this one girl but it seems like she hates me or is really shy? I dont know what to do to get her to notice me? What should i do?

You can try to be friends with her first of all. Get to know her, ask her what she did over the weekend. Let her know that you are intrested in only her. Jocks usually are extremely popular with other girls, this what may be turning her off to you. Let her know that you care about her and only her. In time, she may come to like you. If not, she's not worth it.
Good luck!
Hope I helped!

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i was about to have sex k but i couldnt get a boner so she thinks that i just rejected her

ok what's your question? Boners happen when a boy is 'excited' to be with the girl.

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i am 14. my boyfriend (also 14) has felt me up. we've made out. and i've given him a handjob.

a) opinion: am i too young for this?
b) opinion: should i slow things down?

we aren't going to have sex or anything.. i just don't know if we're already moving too fast compared to other kids my age. i can't very well ask other kids my age. it would just sound so odd: "hey, have YOU given your boyfriend a handjob!?"

i don't know.
amateur experts: help me out!

thanks a zillion [:

Personally, 14 is wayyyyy too young. You've got your whole life ahead of you. You don't want to be stuck with one guy your whole life. Yes, you need to slow it down. You need to wait. You wanted my opinion, there you go babe. Hope I helped!

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Okay. ive just been recently having sex with my boyfriend and it feels really good. but i dont know how to know if ive reached my climax or an orgasm.

i dont know what its like, maybe ive had one already.
tell me how i will know.

oh and when he eats me out it feels sooo good and like i get into like this weird but good feeling to the point where i cant handle the feeling of him doing it anymore and i make him stop is that a orgasm?

thanks in advance!

You will know if you have one. Its kinda like a muscle spasm. Hope I helped!

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how will you know if you lose the baby? by the feeling or what?

Well its not 100 percent by feel. I'd suggest going to a doctor and checking it out there. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok i am like 14 and i am not shy around boys at all ive kissed boys and stuff and i have had them sleep over and didnt do anything...and i am like nervous to make out cause i dont think i know how? so how do you? and i have a new bf! HELP

You just need more practice. The good thing about making out is that there is no one right way. Practice how you think is right. Hope I helped!

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I know its illegal if one person is above 18 and the other one is below but is it illegal if you're both 18? My parents said it was but then why do they sell condoms to kids if that's promoting illegal activity?

You are legal at 18 so I think not. Hope helped!

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What are some ways to make a guy cum other than handjobs, blowjobs, and sex? Me and my boyfriend aren't ready for blowjobs or sex yet, but we want to find another way for him to cum besides from handjobs. Thanks.

Just play with his dick, maybe squeeze it a little everynight untill he cums. Mastrubate wit him too. Hope I helped!

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Hi. I want to ask you something.
When you are looking after a convenience store, I walk in and start lookin at porn adult megazines. What would you say to me?

ok its interesting becuz i used to do that when my parents weren't with me. I think its natural to be curious but i wouldn't make a habit out of it. Don't like buy any and stash them under the bed becuz chances are, your parents will find them.
Hope I helped babe!

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i have tried to pleasure myself before and play with my vagina but it never feels right and i always think im doing it wrong. how do girls pleasure themselfs?

im not really scared, i just dont know how to do everything .

-like how are you suppose to give a hand job to a guy?

-what do they do when they finger you?

-when you make out, do you use tounge alott, or just a little at a time? and do only one of yall use your tounges, or do both of yall?

-everyone says you suck to give hickeys, but ive tried adn it didnt work. what are good ways to give a hickey?

sorry these are weird questions, but i need to know!

You are not wrong. Lots of girls finger themselves. I have a few friends who think its wierd that you would want to but whatever. Just do what feels right.
When they finger you, its supposed to make you moan and feel good, like you would finger yourself.
When you makeout, you use you toungue a lot. I would suggest having a tic tac before your kiss.
Yes, you do suck to give hickeys. The sucking brings the blood up to the surface, causing it to turn red.

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okay im 14 years old and im having sex with my boyfriend i dont want ne lecture about im too young i have been with this guy for 6 years and i wanna hint to my mom that i need put on birth control...she has said shes gonna take me but she never does what can i say to hint her to take me...nothing involving the sex thing..i mean could i say my period is jumping around the month or sumthing like that plzzz help me lotsa love

kaitlyn

Well if you're serious about this, tell her straight out, "Mom, I need you to take me today to the pharmacy." Ditch your mom at the pharmacy and get some. Hide them under something and pay for them later. I'm not here to lecture you love, we just wanna help. Hope I helped!

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ok.. so today.. my boyfriend broke up with me (after 17 amazing months of making out)
before he broke up with me.. he told me that i made him gay.. and that he now has a boyfriend that he's been seeing for a little less than half of our relationship..
He told me that he loves him and is going to get married to him.. and now i feel like crap
I mean.. all we did was make out.. and he says I sucked and he turned gay...
then to prove he was gay.. because i thought he was kidding- he showed me a picture of his boyfriend on a gay porn website.. then he showed me that he was on the website too..
I still thought he was kidding- so i went to give him a kiss- and he said "sorry- I'm really gay, Kayleigh.. i'll show you my boyfriend and i'll make out with him".. so he showed me his boyfriend (who was sitting about 20 feet behind us) and they made out for like 5 minutes..

so now i don't know what to do.. i feel like crap because I turned my Ex-boyfriend gay.. and now i've got his parents on my back yelling at me because he's gay now...

WHAT SHOULD I DO?? I need help!

I thought about suicide.. but i'm not sure?
am I going crazy? am I really that bad of a kisser? please help!

~Turned-My-Ex-Gay

Well technically, you can't turn someone gay in that short a time. Its something your born with and its not wrong to be gay. The best thing to do is to let him be happy. As for the parents, if they love him, they'll accept him for who he is. Hope I helped!

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Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!!

Well you probably didn't get pregnant because you had sex for like 1 minute but I would check it out because you didn't use a condem.

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Im really really scared about getting my perdiod i have no idea when its comming like no idea. Im scared one of my friends will find out or i will be the last one. My crush is in like all my classes. And the nurse had pads and tampons and stuff but Im scared when im gon aget it

Just be aware of your body and always have a few pads handy! If you start to get a cramp, go check in the bathroom if there's blood. DO NOT ignore this.

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I went to my high schools last football game for the season and there i was hanging out wiht my friends ((Guys)) and after half time my friend (ganna give u letters meber guys) E ask me if i wanted to talk a walk and i said yes. We went down to the beach because its right by my school and we were laughing and giggling and stuff... and we kissed(ALOT) there would be no problem with this if i didn't have a b/f and he didn't have a g/f... well that was last friday and today in school my friend Sarah ((a girl)) asked me if i wanted to go out to the movies this afternoon with me her E and my boy J i said yess but after ins tudy hall E asked me if i could make up a lie or something because he didn't want to go because he couldn't see me with J he said it made him to sad.

I feel so BaD! Help what should i do...I love my b/f but how can i make it easier for me to hang out wiht him with out making it feel weird between us??? please!! help me!

**Nikki**

E sounds selfish! He's your friend and he is making you cheat on your b/f. I dont think thats a good friend. Tell J about E, tell him that you do not like E as more then a friend and that you would hate to see E get in between you 2. (i wouldnt tell him about u 2 making out). explain to J that E does not mean what J means to you. And tell E that its just not right for him to break up you 2.

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my best frend is a girl and she is way hot shes 2 years yyounger than me which is ok. not my problem my problem is i am felling lust for her sister which is 6 year years younger than me being like 7 am i sicck or is it ok help email for more info cause there are other facts im not gonna say on this
sammygamy@hotmail.com

wow. No, I don't think there is anything sick about it... maybe it's normal guy behavior... I guess it has to do with puberty? =o I have no idea, but I really doubt it's 'sick'. But you should start looking for girls your age, rather than someone who's a little wayy to young. If you were 18 and she was 6 years younger, you could be a pedophile =P

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whats the fastest way to get rid of a white head(like a pimple)

You don't want to pop it because it'll leave an ugly scar behind. Wash your face at least 3 times a day to clean out your pores and that should do it.

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okay so my boyfriend && i have been going out for 9 months now... he's a great boyfriend .. he has his days but i guess my dad doesnt think he respects me *thats just my dad trying to be protective* but anyways he wants me to give him head.. ive told him that im not ready bc i am only 14 but like he keeps on trying to get me to do it- i know that if he respects me he will understand but a part of me wants to && feels its the right time... number 1 i dont know how.. && number 2 i dont know if i should. am i too young and what would you do.. no smart ass comments either please keep them to yourself but i rate high

In my opinion, you are too young. You did the right thing in saying you're not ready. If he still doesn't get the message, dump him because he's not worth your time. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

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okay, so this guy i am "together with" which means we are pretty much going out without the label. anyway, he says he likes me alot, but doesnt think we would be able to have a relationship because he doesnt think i would want him to finger me, or i wont give him head. and the truth is, i just think it would be akward.. but ive gone out with him before.. and i really want a relationship with him.. he doesnt want to have sex with me.. just do everything else. but ive never given anyone head, and ive never been fingered.. im 14.. and i didnt think i should be doing that stuff.. what should i do?

Most girls your age are willing to try that because they are curious about sexuality and their bodies. First of all, good job! Not many girls would have the courage to say no. I would wait for someone better to come along that won't force you into this stuff. Trust me, he's out there. Hope I helped!

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