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Hi. i'M ASHLEiGH.

i HAVE A W0NDERFUL B0YFRiEND 0F 0VER 0NE YEAR. ♥

i L0VE HiM T0 DEATH! ♥

HE'S 7 YEARS 0LDER THAN ME TH0UGH.

HE JUST TURNED 21.

S0 YES, i AM 14. N0, I'M N0T JAiL BAiT.

i'M H0MESCH00LED, iTS ACTUALLY PRETTY C00L.

i HAVE 0VER 20 PiERCiNGS.

i WAS RECENTLY DiAGN0SED WiTH DYSLEXiA. WHiCH JUST MEANS i READ STUFF BACKW0RDS.

i AM BiP0LAR, AND ADHD, S0 i'M SCREWED.

i'M A Y0UTUBE FREAK.

YES, iN MY PiCTURE i HAVE MAKE-UP 0N MY CHEST.

i DYE MY HAiR A L0T.

ACTUALLY T00 MUCH..

iN THE PAST FEW M0NTHS i HAVE F0UND 0UT i HAVE LiTTLE T0 N0 ST0MACH ACiD, AND i CAN N0T EAT S0LiD F00D ANYM0RE. WHiCH CAME FR0M BEiNG ANAREXiC/BELiMiC.

S0 i'M PRETTY MUCH 0N AN ALL LiQUiD DiET F0R THE NEXT TW0 YEARS.

i D0N'T GiVE THE BEST ADViCE iN THE W0RLD, AND i ADMiT iT, S0ME 0F iT SUCKS, BUT AT LEAST i TRYED.

FEEDBACK iS ALWAYS APPRECiATED T0 HELP ME iMPR0VE. :D

i'M N0T G0iNG T0 GiVE A SUCK UP ANSWER JUST T0 GET A G00D RATiNG, SURE i CARE AB0UT MY RATiNG, BUT GETTiNG 0UT G00D ADViCE iS M0RE iMP0RTANT.








[ADDED: JAN 9, 06. I'VE BEEN SICK WITH STREP FOR OVER 3 WEEKS, AND GOT HOSPITALIZED LAST WENDSDAY. I HAVE NO IDEA WHEN I'M GONNA BE ABLE TO GET ONLINE AGAIN, CAUSE MY LAPTOP IS DYING FAST. SO PRAY THAT I GET WELL SOON.]


{JAN 23, 06. HEY. I JUST GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL MONDAY. I HAD A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND STUFF. ANYWAYS, I'M BETTER NOW. SO I'M BACK!}

advice

im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet is that bad?

Nope, thats not at all a bad thing. :]
Consider yourself lucky.
Although you should have your period by the time you are 16, if you don't. Then that would be when you should start to worry.

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My bf is really sweet but extreamly shy when we are alone. Would it be too slutty of me if i made the first move and put my hand in his pants the next time were alone?

Hi. Sorry its taken me forever and a day to answer you. But, guys really love it when you do that. Its not in any way slutty unless you just like randomly do it. Do it when the time is right. Good Luck! :]

Oh, Hope you had a good Christmas. [I spent mine in the hospital where I had been since Friday.]

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hi im 14 f and my bf is pressuring me into having sex but again not married ad it totally against my beliefs and i cant let him get to me wat shud i do?

You need to talk to him. Tell him about your beliefs and that you want to wait until marriage. If he understands, then hes a great guy and really loves you. If he doesn't understand, gets mad, and keeps pressuring you, then he doesn't love you and only wants to fuck you. And you don't deserve a guy like that.

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how do you know when you like someone enough to actually have sex with them

You will be able to feel it.
Irs hard to explain, you just know.

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this is a rather odd question to ask, but anyway...

me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex, and were going to use condoms, but i would like to know which one is best kind? because i don't want it to break or anything.

Trojan. They hardly ever break.
My boyfriend uses Trojan Magnum- Twisted. They are super thick, but feel really good. I highly recommend them. He can't use LifeStyles [they are to small] but I've heard they break easy.

Anyways, buy Trojan and I promise it won't break. :] Good Luck!

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I'm 13/f. But my boyfriend was 16.

1. My step father had started sayig saying That if me and him had sex then that would be statitory rape, consensual or not.
Is it possible for him to get into trouble for having sex with me?

2. My parents put a restraing order against him. Once I'm not a minor anymore is it possible for that restraining order to count like would he get in trouble for being with me again?

--Sid

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 21. That would be statitory rape..but hasn't really affected us.

The legal age is 18. So if he was 18 and older, and had sex with you, that would get him into trouble since your under 18. So your step dad is wronge.

I don't think its possible for him to get into trouble, but it could be. I could help you more if you posted the state you live in...

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17/f

ok. So I lost my viriginity today. We used a condom, and he's been tested so I know he's clean. When it happened it hurt a lot, but it's normal, right? I also didn't start bleeding until about an hour after it happened. It stopped, but my stomach still hurts.

So basically here's my question:
How long will it take until sex stops hurting?

I can def. see us doing it again in the future, maybe as soon as next week. Will it still hurt? I had fun anyway with the fooling around we did, but I'd like to enjoy it as much as he has, lol.

Thanks in advance!
-L

As most people had said, you will be sore for a few weeks. I hurt for 3-4 weeks, probably had to do with his size and my smallness.

It will hurt the first few times, but after I'd say maybe 4-5 times you should be enjoying it as much as he is! :]

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Alright well my bf and I had dry sex and I had only my underwear on and he only had his boxers on. He didn't ejaculate on me, then after that he jacked off and he lost a lot of sperm, then later on we had dry sex again except everything on me was off and he only had his boxers on. Then I wan't to stop and he said he didn't ejaculate at all on me or anything and his dick wasn't even inside of me. But he got a little cum where his dick was and I was really wet. Do you think that was my cum? Do you think there is any way possible I could be pregnant?
A lot of people that I told had told me it's really doubtful..

The person below me about sperm dieing as soon as it hits air is wronge. Cause I got banned a few weeks ago for saying that.


Anyways, if your boyfriend didn't ejaculate then you shouldn't be worried. However, I have been told that pre-cum can get you pregnant. And chanced are, if hes dick was wet, that was his pre-cum. But if he never went inside of you, you have very, very little chance of being pregnant. So, you shouldn't be worried. :]

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what is a cunt??

Its an insult. I call people that all the time :X It means vagina.

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hey i had sex for the first time a week ago we used a condom but im still having pains wat is it?

I'm not a doctor, so I can't really tell you what it is.

Although the first time I had sex, I had the same problem. I hurt for a good week. So, I don't think anythings wronge. You might wanna try seeing a doctor though if it still hurts after a few weeks.

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Hey, Im a guy, still a virgin and i was wondering how reliable a condom is. Is it a recommended Idea to double up. I know the chances are like 2-3 in 100 but would doubling up make it like.001 percent chance. Thanks answers are appreciated

NEVER I repeat, NEVER double up. Using 2 condoms at the same time, cause extra friction that causes them to break easier.

If you use a condom the way you are supposed too, and put it on correctly and such, you don't have to worry about a thing.

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i'll make this short, how do i break my cell phone, like to the piont of no revival?

Throw it in a hot tub. Thats what I did with somebodys before. :] It won't ever work again.

Or run over it with a car.

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so about 2 weeks ago i gave my bf a hangjob and i got cum on my finger but i wiped it off and washed it off only a lil and 40 mins later i masterbated but i got my period 4 days later. and now its after my period but i still kinda have cramps is that a sign of pregnancy?

Hi. Sperm dies as soon as it hits air. So really you shouldn't be worried about anything. :]

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ok i have a question. I heard if you dont get ur cherry popped during sex then you cant have kids. Is that true? And another thing. I also heard if you dont get ur cherry popped you are still a virgin. Is that true?

If you have sex, then you are no longer a virgin.
Cherry popped or not.
End of Story.

And thats not true about not having kids either. So whoever told you this seriously needs to do some research or something.

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ok im 13and i rly likee this guy that is 21 and i rly want to have sex w/him,but i don't know how to make a move on him b/c of the fact he is21

Hey. I kinda know where you are coming from since my boyfriend is 21 and I'm 14. Just make sure you really love him and he likes you more than just sex.
Anyways, the easiest things to do is just unzip his zipper..or yours. Whichever.
Or just like kiss his neck and whisper in his ear what you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you.
Just simple things, grab his hand and put it "down there"
Those are the easiest things.
I don't usually make the first move, but when I do thats usually what I do.

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Me & my boyfriend just had sex, we are very serious so this wasnt the first time... but for some reason my labia minors.. the samller lips are i guess swollen? they are sore and ones big and its unconfortable to walk... has anyone ever had this? or no what to do?

Im really scared cuz i saw something on tv about a woman whos labia was like tearing off and its just playing in my mind somethings gonna happen like that!! please hlep and lessen my worries.

Hey. I don't know what the person before is thinking, but that is in no way true. Its not a STD or any other crazy thing.

I had the same problem for about a week after I lost my virginity. Also, a lot of my friends say they have to. So its normal.

All it is, is you had it a little to rough for your first time. That and you were most likely tight, and your boyfriend had a big dick.

But honestly, you shouldn't worry about it, because me and a lot of other girls had the problem. No need to worry. It will get better in a couple of weeks.

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ok so i turned 16 in august and my boyfriend is about to turn 18 in december...so will that make us...like illegal?

Hi.
Since the legal age of consent is 16, then no you two are not illegal.
If you were under 16 and he was over 16 then yes, you would be illegal.
Take me for example:
My boyfriend is 21 and I am 14.
Since I'm under 16 and he is way over 18, we are illegal.
Although it is not illegal as long as you don't have sex.
But just make sure you are comfortable with him and all, everything is okay.
But no, you are not illegal.
=]

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i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance

I wanna start out and say that, don't go and have sex just because everyone else is. Waiting to have sex shows you have good morals. Me on the other hand always said I would wait until marriage. That was before I met my boyfriend. We have been together for over a year, and hes 21. 7 years older than me. I lost my virginity to him when I was 12, so he was 19. I know that sounds wronge, but yeah. But, I loved him and it was my idea to have sex. He actually didn't want to because it was well one, illegal, and he loved me more than just being a female with a vagina. Anyways, on with your question...I really don't feel like giving you the story, cause its like impossible for me to tell a story, and leave out the details. So, I'm just gonna tell you what you need to know. Your first time hurts, even when he has a small penis. My boyfriend, has like a 3rd arm. It hurt. But I have heard that everyones first time hurts and penis size doesn't matter. The second time hurts too, it takes a couple of times before you really can get used to the feeling and it not hurt. Don't do anything that you are pressured into, you want your first time to be special for you and just not a fast fuck job. Lose it to somebody you have been with for a long time, and know you want to spend the rest of your life with, or at least be with for a really long time. As you know, use a condom. Just make sure that you are relaxed, it shouldn't hurt that bad if you are relaxed. I hope I helped!

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Why has my parents got baby oil next to their bed...my friends keep saying all this stuff and its just floating around in my brain. I need straight answer its not like i can ask my parents

I'm pretty sure its for when your dad gives your mom a back massage. Thats what my boyfriend uses. Thats what most men use when they give their wife/girlfriend a massage. =]

Hope I helped!

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My girlfriend and I make a lot of contact without taking the proper precautions and the past month has been the same. She is still a virgin. My concern is when we make contact without the use of a condom and I may pre-ejaculate what is the likelihood of her becoming pregnant?

I don't get why everyone is saying don't have sex and to use a condom and blah blah blah. Obviously they didn't read where you said, "She is still a vigin"

Dumbasses. Anyways, heres the deal, from what I know. If the penis, does not come into contact with a vagina, there is no chance of pregnacy. If you ejaculate and your penis is no where near being inside of your girl, she can't get pregnant. Sperm dies as soon as it hits air, so unless you are inside of her there is no chance at all that she could become pregnant. =]

Hope I helped. =]

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