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Ouch!
17/f
ok. So I lost my viriginity today. We used a condom, and he's been tested so I know he's clean. When it happened it hurt a lot, but it's normal, right? I also didn't start bleeding until about an hour after it happened. It stopped, but my stomach still hurts.
So basically here's my question:
How long will it take until sex stops hurting?
I can def. see us doing it again in the future, maybe as soon as next week. Will it still hurt? I had fun anyway with the fooling around we did, but I'd like to enjoy it as much as he has, lol.
Thanks in advance!
-L
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Hello, L:
First of all, it's great that you thought about condoms.
It's not unusual to have sexual intercourse hurt and cause bleeding the first time.
When I first read your note, I thought that perhaps it hurts you because you weren't lubricated enough. Do you enjoy touching him? Do you enjoy his touching you? Do you enjoy giving/receiving oral sex? More often than not, those activities will create arousal and you'll be able to better enjoy intercourse.
Enjoy!
Cavatica
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As most people had said, you will be sore for a few weeks. I hurt for 3-4 weeks, probably had to do with his size and my smallness.
It will hurt the first few times, but after I'd say maybe 4-5 times you should be enjoying it as much as he is! :]
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You'll probably stay sore for about a week depending on how bad it hurt you and how little you are.
And most likely it'll hurt the second time too, but def. not as bad as the first time did.
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it depends on the girl, but it usually takes about 3-4 times to not feel at least some discomfort. personally i enjoyed it my first time, the pain went away really fast for me. as for the second time.. that was hell.. but i braved through it! haha i promise it WILL get better. it's normal for it to hurt; your hymen is breaking, and the whole bleeding thing is definitely normal too and might happen for the first few times.
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since it was your first time having sex then yes it is normal for it to hurt coz he broke your hymen (or in other words "popped your cherry") well it really depends on the size of the penis of the guy you're having sex with like you could have sex with this guy but then you can have sex with someone who has a bigger penis and that could hurt so either way it could hurt but if you just have sex with him then it should hurt after maybe after like the 3 times you all have sex
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