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so,, im 16 and i have had sex with 8 guys.. does that mean im a hoe?? or that i love sex too much? also. what is the best way to have sex that will feel the greatest?? make me orgasm faster?? (link)



slutty would be more like it


So me and my boyfriend had sex for our second time and the first time was just a week before. The first time didn't go to well cause it wouldn't "stay in." The second time was much better but I am so paranoid about getting pregnant now. Even though he didn't even pre cum, he didn't cum, and the condom was fullly on and didn't break, I just always get nervous. Lately I have always wanted to eat. And it's not from nervousness, I just am hungry. i am active with school and volleyball but I wanted know if you guys think I could be pregnant? My periods suppose to start in a week and a half. How long on average does it take for the penis have to be inside the vagina to cause a pregnancy? (link)


More than likely you feel hungry because you are do to get your period in a week, I exsperienced the same thing it is not uncommon. Pregnancy symtoms vary on different people but because he didn't ejaculate and you used a condom you are probably not pregnant. Also, there is NO time limit for the penis to be in the vagina to become pregnant. It could be in there for a split second and you could become pregnant. I would wait for your period if your period isn't always accurate than wait about a week and a half. If it still doesn't come around than take a pregnancy test as within 2 weeks of sexual contact you should get a more accurate answer.


Ok so like the other day my boyfriend fingered me and it felt like amazing o.o and like i wanna return the favor but idk exactly what i should do. its not like we have the time or anything to like get lubricates. so like what am i supposed to do i'm really clueless. like i've kinda massaged the bulge in his pants before but i've never gone into his pants. I could really use some advice? i mean wouldnt it hurt it i just put my hand in his pants and started rubbing it without sometype of lubricate? also any tips on what would really feel good to him would be appreciated as well. (link)


I'm not a guy but I heard giving a handjob without lubricant can be painful. Guys are sensitive down there and the lubricant is what helps make it more pleasurable. I've giving handjobs without lubricant and all I hear or get is a jump or an ow! so I don't recommend it.


guys, how do you feel about a girl who is on the pill and does not want to use a condom. Girls and guys, is that weird for a girl to not want to use a condom? and if you dont mind saying..doesnt it feel better ? (link)


I'm not a guy either but I think it is smarter to use a condom with the pill. Some guys say it is more pleasurable without a condom but the risk for pregnancy is a lot higher.


Hi Advicenators.
I'm 15 years old. I've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months now. We have a slight on and off relationship, but it's been good for a few months now. We are both virgins.
We are in love. There is no doubt about that.
We are 100% open with each other sexually, we have done everything but penetration sex. if something embarrassing happens, it's totally okay, we continue and laugh it off.
Recently, we both really started wanting sex. But I'm TERRIFIED of a condom breaking, and me getting pregnant. Please help me. I'm just so scared. But I really am ready for sex. I can't get on birth control by the way. Any advice (link)

Okay here it goes...


You SHOULD be terrified, Why? because there is NO such thing as safe sex. I advise you to think long and hard about having sex with your boyfriend. The main question you should think about is "It worth having sex with your boyfriend for a few hours and having risking the chance of having a baby forever? then to continue to be safe and not have sex at all"

Babies are NOT cheap, A bottle of formula to last one week is about 25 dollars.. Then the diapers antoher 20 dollars, crib, high chair, car seat, clothes, play pen, etc. You are looking at A LOT of money.

If you want to be 100% safe than maybe you should stick to fooling around. I hate too tell you but not even the pull out metheod always work as sometimes that is why people end up pregnant also.


ok im a 16 and femaile...my bf is 15... im about a week and a half late for my period....we have been having unprotected sex but we didnt do it half as much as we usually do but im late and iv had stomach issues lately but i donno im freaking out could i be pregnant or is it my stomach problems screwing with it? im never 100% regular. i know the stomach issues arent caused by pregnancxy...iv had them for a couple months... i was tested last month and it came back negative but is it possible that this month i got knocked up? please help i dont really know what to do and dont have anyone here to talk to.... thanks..
**Sleepiesheep** (link)


It's possible you could be pregnant but then again you said your periods are never regular so therefore I would wait another week and see if it shows up. Also, It wouldn't hurt too take a test.


If you aren't pregnant I think it would be a wise idea to start using condoms or maybe see if you can get some sort of birth control...Better to be safe than sorry


I have a 17yr old brother and we are relly close we talk about anything im 15yr old girl and lately hes been acting a bit strange havent seen a lot of him and the other we started talking and he told me that he is gay he's been with a guy for a few months and he was worried about what i thought about it i was a little surprised but i said it didnt matter if your gay your gay i told him id support him hes a bit worried about telling people about it especially our parents
but i said he should come out and he shouldnt be worried about what other people think shouldnt he do so? (link)

It is not always easy for someone to admit that they are gay exspecially towards their parents..

It is very nice of you to be understanding towards the situation but sometimes our parents on the other hand have a different outlook on how their children approach the real world. I think when your brother is ready he will tell your parents, He may be holding back because he is afraid to be put down or rejected. I don't think he should feel pressured into doing something he isn't ready to do. In the meantime you can support him of his choice and just let him be happy


So, my girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and saw each other for the first time in a long time this weekend. We had sex, and usually I am very stern about wearing a condom, but we didn't have one, and we were both being stupid. Obviously I pulled out, but I know that is still not a great idea. This was this weekend (saturday night, sunday morning) and now it is monday, and we got into a fight. She said she is feeling all hormonal, and freaking out. I am trying to calm her down and tell her that its too early to be feeling anything due to pregnancy. Also, she is supposed to be getting her period soon, so it could be that as well. Either way, I just need reassurance for myself. (link)


It has only been three days, If she is exspecting her period in a few days more than likely that is why she is moody as most woman tend to have mood swings around that time. It's perfectly normal


I also found this on Wiki..

How Soon Pregnancy Symptoms Start
The onset and degree of pregnancy symptoms will vary within women. Many women experience them within days of conception, others take a few weeks before pregnancy symptoms kick in and a lucky few feel no discomfort at all. The early pregnancy symptoms listed on this page generally can be felt once implantation occurs (8-10 days from ovulation) and will lessen after the first trimester.



Way to early to tell, Wait and see if she gets her period. She also may want to wait 2 weeks before taking a test for an effective answer. However, Like I said it's probably just mood swings due to an exspected period.


should i have sex?i am in love and we have kissed,and we love each other like mad.he is crazy,and all my used friends to nag me aboutdumping him,but now they want us to sex!i would love to,but all my friends nag and are putting preasure on me too!help!from;desprate house wife(to true!) ps im21and a gorgeousgirl! (link)


Okay lets get this straight..


Not only do you sound concieted but any sane 21 year old should know enough that love isn't just about looks and listening to what your friends say. Unless you are a full blown blonde..I don't think you should start a family just yet because you don't sound close to being ready as to what the person below me said it takes a lot more than someone who thinks highly of herself to support another.


can a woman contract hiv or aids from a man just by the penis going inside of the vagina, and nothing at all comes out of it? (link)


If you used a condom than there is a lower chance but either way yes it is very possible.


so i have this white stuff coming out of my vagina, is it a good thing or a bad? like it smells really bad. if im in class and i open my legs to sit or something then you smell it. i went on birth control and when you first get it, the girl goes inside your vagina and sees if you have anything wrong, but she said that i dont have anyhting wrong with me but idk how to get rid of the white stuff && the smell..

HELP!
(: (link)


It could be a yeast infection or a discharge. However if the gyocologist said there is nothing wrong then it could be just a discharge. Shower often and try baby powder


If a girl has sex with a guy who has hiv/aids, and he uses a condom and does not even ejaculate at all, can she still contract the disease? (link)

It's not likely but there is always a chance, The condom could break it could have a hole in it etc. Remember there is no such thing as complete protection.


Yes


how do you do it? I mean what are you exactly supposed to do with your tongue? And what does it taste like....Detail would be very appreciated, and tips too (link)


This seems to be a really popular question as I will give you the best answer I can possibly give you!


Like I've said in all the other questions, If you like the smell of a fish market or the taste of fish knock yourself out because that is what you are more than likely going to get yourself into. Not all girls smell that bad but we also don't smell like peaches and creame. If you want to eat her out make sure she takes a shower first as it will help the smell from being as foul.


If you do eat her out, Focusing on the clit is usually a bonus as it will get her to react the way you want her too.


Okay so the other night my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time. She is a bit younger than me, and it was her first time ever. After a little ways into it she started crying so I asked her what was wrong. She then informed me that I reminded her of her dad... what the hell do I do now?? (link)


Wow..


I would talk to her, It sounds like she might have a history with her father that you might not know about. She could of been sexually abused. Exsplain to her that you love and care about her and that you are not her father you are her boyfriend and you would never do anything to hurt her. It sounds like she has some emotional issues and some unresolved feelings as well as anger.

If I am right and she does have a history with her father I would try and see if you could help her get some counseling as I said she could have some unresolved issues that she never spoke about. Don't blame yourself, Just try talking to her.


I am having an affair with a wonderful man and the sex is the best I've ever had. We both agree it's as if our bodies were made for each other. There is no issue with getting him hard - the minute we're in the same room together I can tell how "excited" he becomes! Our issue is that he can go for hours without losing his erection and I cum over and over again. While this may sound amazing, it's frustrating because we wear out and the only way he has an orgasm is by masturbating himself. He said it's been like this with every woman. He's not on medication and is healthy. How can I stimulate him to cum inside me? What's wrong? (link)


Okay


So basically you are telling us that you are having an affair and you want advice on how to pleasure this man that is NOT your husband?

Please grow a brain


hi! i am a male of 20 and i have a very nice girlfriend who is very satisfying in sex and otherwise too. she knows that males love to have oral sex and i d too and so she does ti for me. but i have never done the same for her , if u know what i mean , means i have never given her some tongue action down there. although i want to do it but i am afraid how would it feel like.. i am afraid that it might make me feel a bit gross means i dont know how would it taste like and all. its not anything related to hygein. she has it very clean and nicely shaved up but still i dont know what to do... any helps... (link)


You could try to buy some flavored lubricant but even that isn't also so tasty. If you love the smell of a fish market or the taste of fish than knock yourself out because that is what most woman smell like. If she showers before you attempt to do oral sex on her than the smell shouldn't be as foul. If you do perform oral sex on her the best tip I can give you is focus on the clit


is being a tease a bad thing? cause i think its fun to tease my boyfriend...like ill tease him for awhile, but i always end up doing it. but i think the teasing part is the funnest lol...so guys and girls opinions pleasee :) (link)


Depends,

If you are teasing guys in general depending on how much you do it than it could give off the wrong impression. It is okay to tease a little bit here and there just keep in mind not to overdo it.

If you are teasing your boyfriend than I say it's fine, Afterall he is with you and you two are a couple but then again some guys tend to eventually get annoyed at times. Again, just don't overdo it.


how should i feel? i sleppt with this boy that i thought was going somewhere, as in i thought a relationship was going to start up. i jumped into this too quickly and now i regret it. im ready to move on from him and am starting to feel like an idiot. ive already slept with him. shouldnt have done that. what do i tell myself to move on from this unfortunate event? (link)



We all do things we regret, There is really nothing you can do to completley erase it from your memory. It is over and done with, Trust me I've been in that boat before but all you really can do is try and forget about it and focus on yourself. You have learned from your mistake


Everyone seems to have a problem with age I dont see why its just the some person being born a different time. What do you think? (link)


If you are talking about age in general, It's not that big of a deal. However, If you are talking about a relationship with someone it is a big deal because it is illegal and not appropriate.


Do guys like find it a turn off when there is hair down there. My boyfriend wants to finger me but i don't want him to think its gross or something. any advice helps.
14/f (link)

Ask him what he perfers all guys are different. If he truely loves you he won't care what you look like and that is what it is about.




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