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hair down there
Do guys like find it a turn off when there is hair down there. My boyfriend wants to finger me but i don't want him to think its gross or something. any advice helps.
14/f
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well i dont no.but i dont think a 14 sould ask these things.
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Shave it. Trust me. All of my friends make fun of girls for years after a guy finding a forest on them. Shave.
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Talk to your boyfriend and see what he likes.
Because, even if most guys like something, your boyfriend might like something different.
Being in a relationship requires communication. So do it.
--Jack
(17/m)
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ive talked to a lot of my guy friends about it and my bf and they all found it more attractive and sexy for girls to shave down there.. but im sure your boyfriend wouldnt mind if you preffered to keep the hair. my bf would still do it and find it sexy if i had hair, he just likes it better without it.
its all up to you though
erinn:)
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Every guy has a different preference when it comes to girls being shaved or not. Honestly, I'd ask his preference. If you're too shy to, just leave it & if he gets grossed out, then obviously he isn't the one for you. A guy who truly loves you won't care if you're shaved or not. :)
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It really differs from guy to guy.
Honestly, women are supposed to have hair down there. However, if you're not comfortable with it, you can trim it and/or shave (waxing hurts) be careful though..your vagina is very sensitive, some find it good to put lotion on after shaving. You don't even have to shave it all if you don't want to. Some girls even do designs..
But! Only do this if you want to. I don't see why guys would find it gross or anything. They have it too. But, you never know.
This may help you out a little:
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Some men answered. That's there opinion though. You can try asking you boyfriend what he prefers? It's up to you. Do what YOU want!
Hope I helped!
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If he thinks it's gross than he shouldn't even be doing this. When it comes to pubic hair it's a matter of what you prefer. Hair or no hair is normal and he should accept and appreciate that. It's up to you how you prefer it to be or look.
It shouldn't be an issue for guys. If you are embarrassed than don't be as it's fine. If he says something that it proves a lack of maturity. If you really feel unsure don't do this right now with him and wait until you feel secure or right. If you feel like grooming it or being rid of it that's an option too. But hair or no hair it's normal and most guys know and accept that. It's up to you to do what you feel best for you and not based on pleasing him.
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Ask him what he perfers all guys are different. If he truely loves you he won't care what you look like and that is what it is about.
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