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ok so there is this guy at my school that i really like. he is so amazing and i went out with him once before. we whent out for about 1 month. once during thanks giving we were on the phone for 3 hours strait but than shortly after he broke up with me because he wanted to go out with one of his friends. they eventually broke up and we became firends again. Well then i decided to ask him out but he said no and made up a really dumb reason. he said that he was having a bad day and that he still would of said no. but i don't think he is telling me the truth. I think that my cuzin and him are going out and keeping it a secret from me. My cuzin won't even talk to me and i don't know why. how do i get over this guy? (link)
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I just got over a girl after a year of trying. I avoided her and didn't talk to her. Try to think of weird things he does as annoying instead of thinking of them as cute or unique. It works, it just takes a while. And make the CONSCIOUS choice to not like him. Eventually, you won't like him anymore.
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my boyfriend and i just broke up after 9 months, i broke up with him.
well before i dated my boyfriend my ex and i dated for 8 months and i broke up with him to, and he was devestated and i know he really loved me and he was heartbroken for months and i told him it was because i just wasn't feeling it anymore but i was.. i left him because i was scared to get my heartbroken because i honestly loved him and ive had my heart broken before that and i couldn't stand to have it happen again and so i guess i broke up with him before he could brake up with me, but i don't know why because i know he loved me and wouldn't have broken up with me, we never had one fight the whole 8 months we dated well now im single and so is he and we've been talking again and i want to be with him so bad but i dont know if he would ever date me because of what i did and i told him it was because of other reason why i did it and not because i was scared i mean i was 16 and in love and it like.. just scared me because i was so young im 17 now almost 18 and i dont know i feel like im ready to love again it sounds corny i know but its just how i feel, how do i talk to him about this? im afraid to say i want him back because i dont know how hes going to react and i dont know, does anyone have any advice? (link)
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I think you should think about the other guy you broke up with. The nine month one. What about him? You did the same thing to someone else. My guess is the first guy will see a pattern and not date you again.
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Sorry in advance if this is a bit long.
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I was with a boy for 7 months. Our relationship was great. We loved each other. However, he told me that he felt like he couldn't make me happy and I deserved better and dumped me. He broke my heart, however eventually I moved on and got over it. 5 Months pass by and he decides to re enter my life! Wanting to give things another try. I lost my virginity to this guy, therefore I feel so attached to him. I take him back and give him another try.
The 2 months we're together is awful. He didn't treat me nicely and refused to tell me he loved me. I told him we should end it. Another 2 months goes by.. and guess who decides to enter my life AGAIN! I was firm with him and told him I couldn't do this again. However, like an idiot I give in.
He told me things i've never heard him say before and that he really did love me blah blah blah.
We hang out again.. and he decides we should be "together" He told me he wants to take it slow to avoid hurting me again. Every time we hangout it gets sexual and we've been "together" now for 2 weeks. He doesn't text me too much. I wonder if
anything will change. My mind is so confused and
I just feel so attached to this kid. Any suggestions of what I should do? (link)
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Every single one of my friends who are girls have this problem and I know you won't listen to these answers. You should dump him and never talk to him. But you won't. Every time he comes calling you'll be there. I have the same problem with a girl. But she doesn't come calling anymore. That's the solution
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Do guys like find it a turn off when there is hair down there. My boyfriend wants to finger me but i don't want him to think its gross or something. any advice helps.
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Shave it. Trust me. All of my friends make fun of girls for years after a guy finding a forest on them. Shave.
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I have this male coworker and I'm female. He seems like a pretty friendly guy. During my training I was told that I wasn't ever suppose to touch another employee as it could be taken as sexual harassment--even if it was just a little touch that meant nothing to me. I guess I understand that. A meaningless touch from me could make somebody else feel uncomfortable if they thought more of it.
Anyway, my coworker keeps rubbing on my shoulder as he passes me in the hallways and such. (You know, "Hi! How you doin' today?" while touching the shoulder, passingly.) I wouldn't mind because I know he's just being nice and friendly but he had the same training that I did about this, I'm sure. He should be well aware of the rules. The touching doesn't bother me but I don't want somebody else to take the matter to extremes or something. I KNOW he doesn't mean anything by it but I don't want him to get in trouble for his friendly gestures. I'm positive that he's doing this to other coworkers (male and female) as he passes them in the halls because I've seen him a couple of times.
What should I do? (link)
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The people that trained you were just being anal so they don't have any chance of getting involved if there was a sexual harrassment charge. He won't get into any trouble.
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I need help controlling my erections! I know it sounds stupid at first but it's so embarrassing. Well, I was at the beach today and there were tons of HOT chicks wearing tiny bikinis, including my girlfriend. It's really noticeable if I get, for lack of a better word, hard. How can I control these erections? I don't want to be pitching a tent all the time out at the beach, especially when my girlfriend is with me! I love her a lot and I don't want to embarrass her by showing my hard-ons to the world. I think it's worse when my girlfriend is with me because I start thinking about sex with her.
How can I control this problem? (link)
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I used to have the same problem. But it would be a little different. I would fall asleep in school, then wake up, and have a massive hard-on. I felt like everyone could see it. They probably could. The best solution, in my opinion, is to quit masturbating. I mean it. Quit for two or three weeks and see how that works. It helped me.
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