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getting back together..
my boyfriend and i just broke up after 9 months, i broke up with him.
well before i dated my boyfriend my ex and i dated for 8 months and i broke up with him to, and he was devestated and i know he really loved me and he was heartbroken for months and i told him it was because i just wasn't feeling it anymore but i was.. i left him because i was scared to get my heartbroken because i honestly loved him and ive had my heart broken before that and i couldn't stand to have it happen again and so i guess i broke up with him before he could brake up with me, but i don't know why because i know he loved me and wouldn't have broken up with me, we never had one fight the whole 8 months we dated well now im single and so is he and we've been talking again and i want to be with him so bad but i dont know if he would ever date me because of what i did and i told him it was because of other reason why i did it and not because i was scared i mean i was 16 and in love and it like.. just scared me because i was so young im 17 now almost 18 and i dont know i feel like im ready to love again it sounds corny i know but its just how i feel, how do i talk to him about this? im afraid to say i want him back because i dont know how hes going to react and i dont know, does anyone have any advice?
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I think you should think about the other guy you broke up with. The nine month one. What about him? You did the same thing to someone else. My guess is the first guy will see a pattern and not date you again.
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I think that if it's still eating away at you and you still have feelings for the boy, you need to tell him. I think you need to tell him the TRUTH, and not make up reasons as to why you broke up with him.
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
-Laura (17-f)
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I think you have nothing to lose by telling him how you really feel. I mean heart break is absolutely horrible.. don't get me wrong. It's the worst pain.
However, you can't let it stop you from ever loving the boy you had a great relationship with again. Time as helped heal you and maybe it's time to give it another try. If this boy is as wonderful as you said (I'm sure he is) then he will find a way to try and understand where you are coming from. "It's better to have said something than to have said nothing at all" You will have far more regrets if you don't tell him how you really feel and why you broke up with him.
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