Member Since: August 5, 2009
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Last Update: August 10, 2009
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Ok my dad died a couple months back and i've been trying to get over it. get back to normal. but now my mom is out looking for another guy and is always talking about. like if we might move, or i'll get step brothers or sisters. im just not ready for it, should i be upset? (link)
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I completely understand where youre coming from because my uncle passed away just a few months ago and he had 2 sons i was very close to and my best friends dad passed away when she was only 13. Even though it might be hard and you might not be ready to move on and pick yourself up again but you should really support your mom because she might need some help moving on and maybe this is the easiest way for her. Its so hard to lose someone you love and I know you will miss him but just because she wants to date doesnt mean she will ever forget him! trust me she NEVER will. maybe this is just what she needs to do to get on with her life. even though it sounds like its too fast or he will be forgotten its just what she needs and wants right now. Everyone wants someone to love and she loved your father but now she needs someone else to take care of her. I really think being upset isnt a good idea for right now. If you are upset inside then maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel and she will tell you how she feels and why she thinks its the right thing for her to do. Im so sorry about your dad btw :(
i really hope i helped. ive helped my friend and cousins through the same thing so inbox me if you want to talk about anything. im always here :)
erinn:)
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What is your favourite type of pizza? (link)
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haha never heard this one before! but my favorite type of pizza is deffinately cheese. Ill eat it with other stuff on it but im staying original :)
erinn:)
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I am 12 and I NEED A JOB! Where does someone this young get a job? How do you get babysitting customers? I dont want to babysit my friend's kids because it feels awkward getting paid by someone you know. HELP
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Send out/pass out flyers to people in your neighborhood or in surrounding neighborhoods telling about yourself and how you would love to get a job. Trust me people are always looking for people to watch their kids when they get in a jam and hopefully after you babysit for people one time they will continue to have you babysit more and reccommend you to their friends!
good luck!
erinn:)
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how do i get a guy ive been goin out with to talk to me again? he just doesnt seem 2 want talk to me anymore. plllss help (link)
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Ive been in the same position as you. You just need to talk to him and tell him how youre feelings and you dont want things to change just because you are going out. Maybe he is just more nervous now because he has you and doesnt want to lose you but to know for sure you deff need to talk to him about it.
erinn:)
btw i hope i helped!
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I have a little bit of acne on my face and I want a good acne wash to get rid of it. I don't want something over-drying or anything though that will cause my face to lose that glow I have :)
Any suggestions? (link)
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clearasil works for me! proactive and clean and clear seemed to dry out my skin but clearasil cleared up the little acne i had and even gave me a little glow.
hope i helped
erinn:)
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It's soo annoying. This guy who I'm friends wit, on friday, said he'd text me on Sunday. So, I was waiting for a text..and got nothing. I hate always having to text first. Why do guys do that!?!?! (link)
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Its the worst feeling isnt it!? Ive been there and sometimes i still feel this way with my boyfriend. Like you hold your phone 24/7 and everytime it vibrates you get your hopes up :(
Ive learned that guys dont find it as important as we do. Its deffinately not fair and hurts and annoys us but they dont mean it. Infact they dont even think anything of it. They think everythings fine and you wont care as much as we all do.
If I were you I would deffinately not text first this time and make him text you if he wants to talk. When you dont text he will probably get worried and text you finally. If you bring it up with him he might start to think youre too clingy. My boyfriends always like "I cant text you 24/7" and he gets annoyed and doesnt understand it hurts my feelings.
Good Luck and I hope he texts you!
Erinn:)
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We are expecting our first child and need baby name help. My husband and I have chosen not to find out the sex of our baby until he/she has been born. We have some names we like, but we aren't 100% sure on any of them. We thought maybe someone could suggest some that they really enjoy and let us know what they thought about some of ours.
Baby names we like so far...
Baby boy names:
Michael David
John Patrick
James Paul
David Austin
Baby girl names:
Grace Anne
Madison Faith
Anna-Claire
Elisa Grace
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
We like sweet, old-fashioned names, and traditional names mainly.
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congrats on your first baby! im only 14 so im not quite there yet but i love picking out names for my future children! here are some of my favorites :)
Alice Marie
Jack Thomas
Emma Rose
Emily Nicole
Alyssa Rose
Audrey Madison
Kristin Grace
Brian William
Cameron John
Cayden Matthew
Christopher David
Congratulations again!
erinn:)
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19/female. my best friend is 18/m
i have a lot of love for my best friend!
we've been friends for like 6 years now.
i have a crush on him too =p
but anyways! how can i tell him that i like, love him. i'm not IN love with him, but i love him as my best friend!?
i don't want to just say like "i love you" because that will probably come off wrong to him.
i hope you guys understand! (link)
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Well since you have a crush on him if you want to tell him your feelings it might be better if you started with i like you haha to keep things less serious at first.. but if you want to say i love you and mean it as just a friendship then make sure to say "i love you, youre my best friend:)"
i deffinately understand because ive been in the same position. i have a habbit of liking my best friends :)
well good luck!
erinn:)
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my boyfriend and i's one year annivarsary is ina week and im not sure what to get him. i have $70 left to spend. i was thinking about getting him a guitar but i cant find a cheap yet good one. shud i get him that or somethin else? he does concerts and is amazing at many different instruments so i dont wana get him a beginners one. i also wanted to customize it, like write on it or draw since he loves my art but what shud i write? we're both 15 nearly 16 (link)
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Craigs list is where i got my guitar.. its way less expensive than getting one from any store you can get one that hasnt been used and for an inexpensive price. just press your state and city and pick music from the categories then type guitar. its very easy to do and you can get it sent right to you. http://www.craigslist.org/about/sites
also it would be so cute to decorate it by writing i love you all over it with cute designs. im sure he would love it! or you write a poem to write on the back and be creative!
congrats on your anniversary btw :)
erinn:)
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my boyfriend sent me a text saying, "btw really random but you have the sofest lipes ever created"
... hahaa so is that good ? (link)
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thats such a nice compliment! id love it if my boyfriend texted me saying that :) youre so lucky that your boyfriends so sweet.
erinn:)
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Sorry in advance if this is a bit long.
16/f
I was with a boy for 7 months. Our relationship was great. We loved each other. However, he told me that he felt like he couldn't make me happy and I deserved better and dumped me. He broke my heart, however eventually I moved on and got over it. 5 Months pass by and he decides to re enter my life! Wanting to give things another try. I lost my virginity to this guy, therefore I feel so attached to him. I take him back and give him another try.
The 2 months we're together is awful. He didn't treat me nicely and refused to tell me he loved me. I told him we should end it. Another 2 months goes by.. and guess who decides to enter my life AGAIN! I was firm with him and told him I couldn't do this again. However, like an idiot I give in.
He told me things i've never heard him say before and that he really did love me blah blah blah.
We hang out again.. and he decides we should be "together" He told me he wants to take it slow to avoid hurting me again. Every time we hangout it gets sexual and we've been "together" now for 2 weeks. He doesn't text me too much. I wonder if
anything will change. My mind is so confused and
I just feel so attached to this kid. Any suggestions of what I should do? (link)
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I was in your same position just a few months ago. i kept letting this guy who treated me like shit (excuse me haha) control my life and come back over and over even though he was never good to me. We had 8 months together where i thought he was the best but he changed. Guys change so easily and fast. He ended up breaking up with me over voicemail after all that time! i was crushed and of course as soon as he came crawling back to me i let him right back in because i was still in love with him. he ended up breaking up with me every couple days then we would take a break for awhile and then get back together and he would do it again after a few days of getting what he wants. He NEVER treated me the way I should be treated or any girl should ever be treated. I let him come back on and off for 3 years to use me for my body just because i hoped that maybe we would be more than that :( i finally got strong and now im with the most amazing guy in the world that im crazy about and love and he treats me like im sent down from heaven haha. hes so good to me:)
Trust me DONT GIVE IN TO THIS GUY! he wants one thing and he will continue to lead you on until he gets it. i know it will be hard for you cuz it killed me but we are strong! it takes some time to get used to but you can do it! falling into his traps can ruin your self esteem and it takes awhile to regain it.. you deserve someone sooooo much better! someone that would never ever mean to hurt you and wont break your heart!you will find him :) he's out there trust me and hes deff not the right one for you! any guy for you should text you all the time and always make an effort to talk to you. Drop this kid and dont take him back. he needs to be taught a lesson. YOU CAN DO IT :)
i really hope you take this advice cuz ive been through it and if someone had told me this it would have made everything so much easier.
good luck!
erinn:)
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Do guys like find it a turn off when there is hair down there. My boyfriend wants to finger me but i don't want him to think its gross or something. any advice helps.
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ive talked to a lot of my guy friends about it and my bf and they all found it more attractive and sexy for girls to shave down there.. but im sure your boyfriend wouldnt mind if you preffered to keep the hair. my bf would still do it and find it sexy if i had hair, he just likes it better without it.
its all up to you though
erinn:)
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i have had my puppy dolphin for 5 years and she has made me itch only sometimes when she licks me but i figured it was just from eating grass outside. then i went on vacation for 4 days, come back, and she doesnt lick me but i still itch. she just sat in my lap and i got all red and blotchy! i am not allergic to dogs and there is no reason why i should be itchy! what the heck is the problem? (link)
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allergies can develop over time so even if you werent allergic before you could have developed and allergy.. my boyfriend wasnt allergic to cats so he got one but 3 years later he started getting watery ice and hives when he touched his cat and he went to the doctors and they told him the same thing.. he had developed an allergy.
you could go get tested or just take medicine after you touch your dog and see if it helps.
erinn:)
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What does the quote,
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer mean ? (link)
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to me it means like keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer so they wont hurt you.. if youre nice to them they wont have a reason to screw things up for you so its better not to show you have grudges with people.. it will make life a hell of a lot easier haha trust me. this is what i do and its been working lately :)
hope i helped
erinn:)
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