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My friend lets say (jesse) jesse smells pretty bad everyday. Like a bad smell as if she doesnt take a bath. How do i tell her she has an odor i dont want to hurt her feelings but i dont want people to talk about her behind her back
seriously.. shes recently had staph too?
does that mean youre not clean? ermm help (link)
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: Definition provided by The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition. Copyright © 2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company. Other important copyright information here.
staphylococcus:
Noun
Inflected forms: pl.staph·y·lo·coc·ci A spherical gram-positive parasitic bacterium of the genus Staphylococcus, usually occurring in grapelike clusters and causing boils, septicemia, and other infections.
Other forms
staph'y·lo·coc'cal or staph'y·lo·coc'cic adj.
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Staph is Staphylococcuss obviously if you read that whole thing. You would understand that, that doesn't have anything to do with it. If you didn't want to hurt her feelings as bad as you might when and if you tell her trust me it'll be 2 times harder on you. She will most likely hear it from others if they are all talking behind her back and then she'll ask or yell and ask you why you didn't tell her. Just say something like "Jesse" look I don't want you getting hurt because your my really good friend so I'm just going to tell you something whether you get mad at me or not. You have an odor problem I'd suggest stronger deoderant or go to a doctor who can get you medicine for it(yes there is medicine out there). Hope I helped.
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well i have this really really good friend in drama club with me..
were tyte
hes a year older than me, but we're still really tyte.
he had a big crush on me last year, but i didnt like him
what sucks is that once i got to know him more.. i really like him now.
were like really good friends with benefits and its obvious that im one of his good friends cuz i was one of the first people he told about wanting to ask the girl he likes out.
i helped him out and im trying to get this girl to go out with him..
But i cant help but wonder.. i know i like my friend.. but why don't i feel jelous.. and im like reminding him every day to ask her out..
why do i not feel jelous at all and why am i so intent on making his other girl work out.. usually girls are trying to sabotauge him in this situation..
is there something thats special and different with us than other typical friends with benefits.. or is this just normal?
i rate all 5s
sorry 4 length
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Just reading this makes me think of what Wes and Johanna had, they were friends with benefits and when they went out they didn't stick to each other like Mel and Dannie >from the Real World< they went out made out with other people got home laughed it up together and didn't care they were still friends with benefits. But now they are dating and happiest ever. Maybe you don't feel jealous because you want him to be happy and shiz because usually when you care about someone that much you tend to get further away from the jealousy and more closer to the being happy part. You never know you and him could end up being together. Maybe he remembers about you saying ask her out today but maybe he doesn't want to. You never know what people think and that's what sucks ass in this world ha, ha. Just keep doing what your doing never know. Hope I helped. Sorry I felt badd* because no one else answered this question.
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i need help i have a friend that i think is being mean. she would say thats she liked the same guyi did like 6 times and she copys me she doesnt beleive me and she knows all my deepest darkest secrets. she says she is my best friend. but im not so sure her name is kerrii need help someone please answer
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Well if I was in your shoes. I'd tell her to grow up and to treat you a lot better and to stop being such a copier in everything you do. I'd also tell her that she needs to stop pretending who she is or was and just be herself. And I'd ask her so if your my best friend answer me this.. Would you go out with the guy I liked ruining our friendship. Tell her its matorial question.. meaning don't answer it aloud. And by ending the conversation with her I'd tell her she needs to act like and be there for me if she wants to be my friend if not then see ya. Hope I helped.
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last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!! (link)
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could mean it haha i bet he did.. all guys try to hide it .. dont wanna* get embaressed lol thats awesome.. same thing happened to me.. ((probably dont care but hell im gonna* tell you anyways)) but it was sadd* because* i didnt even touch him.. no kissin* nothin* i had a boyfriend and me and him were just friends we was hangin* out with... uh other people outside.. and he just got one cause* i sat down beside him haha hes a really good friend of mine.. well hope i helped..
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I'm going out with this guy that my friends just absolutely hate! One of my friends even threatened to stab him in the neck with her pocket knife during church! I don't want to break up with the guy because he's absolutely perfect to me. What should I do?
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uh say hell with your friend.. ((but still be her friend)) but just tell her how it is.. be like look i know you dont aprove of me and my boyfriend goin* out but who the hell asked for you opinion you need to grow up.. hes my troubles not yours so no need to worry you can handle him and she doesnt ... so what not.. just tell her that you still wanna* be her friend ((duh)) and be like its just that you need to stop threatening my boyfriend if ya* dont like him dont say shit to him ...
hope i helped
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(fourteen//female) ive been friends with a guy, Chad (also fourteen), for a bit over 2 years. in 7th grade i helped him get to know my friend b/c he liked her and they went out in 8th grade and brokeup about a week ago. anyway, since july, we havent spoken much. he changed A LOT. i didnt really agree with some of the girls he wanted to get involved with && he seemed to understand. now he likes this other girl and he is hiding it from me even tho i told him i would be supportive of whatever he wants to do. (i found evidence...he asked a question on here about it and everyone knows about it). he acts different too...i dont know whats up? we are/were close && could talk about anything but now we dont talk and when we do its light conversation. no, i dont like him and no, i didnt kiss him lol. id really like to rekindle the friendship we had. any advice is great! (link)
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Well like you said you've known him for 2 years now and I think 2 years is enough to know someone. If you think he's acting different tell him you know him well enough that he is just trying to fit in (probably) and you don't like how he acts towards you or around you, and you would like to be able to talk to him like you used to be able too about anything, everything. Also ask him why he thinks he has to act that way and -if he blows you off with a smartass answer or just straight up blows you off just leave him be for a while-. He'll come back and try to start up a conversation with you or try to apologize if he ever was your friend. Hope I helped. I don't think I really did.. Sorry.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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I have a friend her names Sara my other friend who is really anoying!Is haten on us cuz me and sara are really tight.So how do i get Alicia to go away and ive already tried telling her to.What cannnnn iiiii ddddoooooo.I'll be sooo thankfull if you answer this question.Thanks! (link)
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I wouldn't be so harsh on "Alicia" she probably thinks your kidding sometimes when you do tell her to please go away. I would just sit her down with Sara and tell her exactly what bothers you about her and that you would like it if she didn't always have to hang out with you and Sara. I understand where you are coming from I used to have a friend just like that her name was Rachel just because me and my best friend Ashley were like never away from each other. We finally weren't friends after I told her to step off because she was dissing Ashley. But anyways I really would suggest you sitting down with all three of them and talking to Alicia and tell her that it bothers you that she has to be there all the time annoying the heck out of you and Sarah and getting jealous or bitchy just because you are hanging out with her.
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ok this is gonna be kinda long
In the middle of last year my BFF got a boyfriend and i was soo happy for her. But then she stopped hanging out with me. She ate lunch with him,all she talked about was her boyfriend. But then she got new friends and didnt even notice me. At dance she didnt want to talk to me either. So i told her how i felt and she said thats not true!! So then i said i dont want to be friends if u arent going to be a friend. so then her boyfriend said F*** YOU to me online:(
I told my friends and they informed my ex-bff. So she dumped him and her were friends again. The 2days lata she went back out with him. And she started doing the same thing that she did before. On the last day of school she dumped him. We are friends now but all she ever talks about is her ex-bf and she still doesnt talk to me at dance. Ok so here is my question: Should i still be her friend or forget about her?
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Well I would say to talk to her about how you feel, but you already informed everybody that you did and she told you that it's not true. I think you shouldn't be her friend because just think that was one boyfriend when she finds somebody else it's going to happen again, and again, and again. And that's not even the end of it. So not to be rude to her and all but yeah I'd just say screw it and find some other friend there's many out there ha, ha. So true.. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do? (link)
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I don't think he'd reject you I mean he kissed you on your 15th birthday. Hopefully, he doesn't just want to be friends with benefits but I highly doubt that. I think you should give it a shot and tell him how you feel and ask him if he slightly feels the same way. If he rejects you just say I understand where you are coming from. That you might not want to go out with me because you may think it's awkward or you don't want to screw up our friendship, because me as well would rather have a friendship than nothing. Hope I helped. Good luck!
Buh bye,
ShanN*
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ok....... I am a femaile and i have a gay friend. We have been friends for soooo long now that we became best friends. well the problem is that i donr feel comfortable around him anymore. and im not sure that i want to be friends with him anymore. But i dont want to hurt him cuz i went throught alot of crap last year and he was always there for me and helping me through everything. i love him for that. But he is like always all over me now and now he doesnt talk to me much but i guess that could be because its the summer. i live in oklahoma and we went to texas with our church and we were walking to together and i got sick from riding all the rides at six flags and he got soooooooooooooo mad at me cause i didnt want to ride and big rides for awhile to settle my stomach. wat would this mean? is he getting tired of me? i need help. i will rate high for good answers (link)
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I think you should rethink this. If you don't want to be friends with him tell him something like "Look I just don't feel comfortable around you being all over me and it just bugs me that you get upset at me for the weirdest things." Your a great guy and all but I am just confused of what I think about you. Your other problem is trying to find out if he is getting tired of you well I wouldn't say he is, just because of that doesn't mean that... your just jumping to conclusions. I think he likes you a lot, because of what you said about him always being there for you last year. I'd want a friend like that other than most of the friends I have now, ya know? One because the friends I have now think they can come as they please and be there as they please. I'm sorry but if you want to be one of my friends then your going to have to always be there for me no matter bad or good. Hope I helped.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Im confused: someone who absolutely meant so much to me, my best friend (a girl. im a girl too) started to be a little (so for being harsh) but a jerk.. we would have plans made for a week and then a day before she would cancle and go out and do something with this other girl (lets name her "freeda" :-D... it even got to where if me and her had plans to go to the movies she would invite "freeda" without telling me (even though I thought it was just goign to be us) Its starting to get annoying and i dont know what to do? (link)
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Just be straight with her. I'd tell your best friend that you don't appreciate her inviting some other girl while you are still thinking of having a good time with just you and her. And that if she wants to do that just exclude me out of it. Tell her it bother's you feeling not that appreciative around her and that you mean just you and her when you say you and her. Hope I helped! Hope she listens to what you got to say if you do talk to her. (Or you could just start doing the same thing to her.)
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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ok theres this girl that i know they only problem is i haven't talked to her for 4 years and idk what to say to her and idk if she remembers me
and i really want to talk to her b/c she was the first girl i ever kissed (link)
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That's very sweet. I think you should go up to her and ask her how's she been. She'll answer and you be like sorry I haven't talked to you in so long. I have been thinking of coming up to you for a long while as well and that you were the first girl I kissed and all I thought I'd be generous and come up to you and ask you how life's been treating you. (Girl's like sweet shit like that.) Haha, if you don't want to say that, then just go up to her and ask her how's she's been. I know that you might feel awkard being the first girl you kissed and all and haven't been talking for about 4 years. I understand that. But um still, I hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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About two years ago, I met a wonderful boy. We flirted and had fun together all summer. Eventually we dated or "went out" as everyone calls it. No one thought it would last. But it did. For a whole year. And through that year, I did something I never thought I could do. I gave my heart to someone and trusted them not to brake it. I became infatuated with a single soul and I fell in love harder than i ever thought I could. I let myself love without worrying about what would happen when it ended. I changed. I learned, I lived, I loved.
It all ended this year at the beginning. It hit me hard in the worst possible way. We stopped talking and when we get close, its awkward. Now, a year later - I'm still madly in love with him. And everyone said "it's his loss." But since that day, I've smiled less, laughed less, and everytime I see him, I want to run up and hug him thinking everything is the same. I changed all over again. And... I spend everyday thinking and imagining the day my baby comes back to me. So no, it's not just his loss... it's mine too.
I miss him and I will aiways love him.
Do you have any tips on how to get him back. I'm so down on myself and I just need a boost. If you can help, I would appreciate it.
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Well to be honest, almost every question I gave advice to was coming from my past experiences. But I think the least I could do is make you feel better about yourself. I've been through that too. My first love was with a guy named "Paul" I thought he was the only guy I would be with. But I found out he was just a liar and a cheater so I broke up with him twice. And for almost a year after that I still felt that I loved him. But then I met someone new and we started talking and right now we are doing great almost a year for me and him and wow what an interesting, amazing year it has been. Just remember if he wants you he'll come back but if he doesn't come back he's not worth it, but still. I just say to myself when a guy does something wrong that hurts me, that guys suck ass and chicks rock. Just remember your more important than anybody else around you. I would think about that and try to talk to that guy and if he rejects you just look back on the good times and move on, I know it's easier to type it than to actually do it (I've been there too). But I would try talking to him and telling him you still love him and have strong feelings for him and how you feel. It sounds like you have strong feelings for him just by me reading what you said. I might not understand that well about your situation but I know that I would talk to him. Just think he may want you he's just like you and afraid to show it or tell it. Hope I helped.. Good luck I hope you'll be ok if your not ask me for some more help if you want. ( Oh yeah tell him you love him, and that you will always love him and you only want to be with him. And that he's the one that changed your life and changed who you are.)
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Ok I have this friend who is always calling me names like stupid and if I say something to her like o thats real smart(jokeing) shell hit me.I know she is kidding but everytime I tell her to stop she never does.How can I get her to stop calling me names and hitting me? (link)
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Tell her to knock it off. If she doesn't then just say back off and walk away. I know it's not that easy to do but trust me it will be worth it. Or you can say something like yeah your a great friend you always hit me when I joke around, or you can ask her why does she enjoy to abuse you mentally and physically. Well hope I helped! Good luck with that friend situation.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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Male 16
This is a complicated situation heres the story.
My friend started going out with a girl who hooked me up with one of her friends its been about 3 months and then my gf dumped me but thats not the problem the problem is me and my friends girl have become good friends but now shes starting to really like me and i cant go out with my friends ex unless it was alright with him (if she dumped him for me) and i dont wanna lose a friend so i need to know if theres is anyone to become just friends with my mates girl without hurting her feelings and without ruining hers and my m8s relationship
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Um yes there is. All you got to do is just say look I'm a great friend and I know this because I don't go out with my bestfriends ex girlfriend. (Trust me chicks are the same way we tell our friends to not go out with our ex's or something) Sometimes it works out sometimes it doesnt. But yeah if you really like her. (Telling you this because you didn't make that clear if you liked her or not) Then I think you should tell your bestfriend that you have feelings for his ex and see how he takes it. I'm just like you I don't want to lose any friends because of a boyfriend or whatever. If he totally loses it then just tell the girl that you would just rather be friends. If she doesn't take it well screw it. Hope I helped! Even though I'm pretty sure I didn't sorry.
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i have a lot of guy friends and less girl freinds and its been like that for like my whole life and im like not the tomboy type and im like girly as everyone saya. i have girl freinds like a lot but i have more guys. what does taht mean? sometimes i think taht girls dont liek me cuz im like too boyish but everyone says im not? then wat does that mean?
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Well I have more guy friends than I will ever have girls. It's perfectly fine you might not realize it but the chicks probably think your not the kind of person to be hanging out with. Because most girls our age are so immature and think that if you hang out with mostly guys your a slut, bitch, whore, or what not. That's just because they are jealous. It's ok to have guys as friends let's just say less drama. Ohhh yes a lot less and more fun! Well Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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