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why am i not jelous?
well i have this really really good friend in drama club with me..
were tyte
hes a year older than me, but we're still really tyte.
he had a big crush on me last year, but i didnt like him
what sucks is that once i got to know him more.. i really like him now.
were like really good friends with benefits and its obvious that im one of his good friends cuz i was one of the first people he told about wanting to ask the girl he likes out.
i helped him out and im trying to get this girl to go out with him..
But i cant help but wonder.. i know i like my friend.. but why don't i feel jelous.. and im like reminding him every day to ask her out..
why do i not feel jelous at all and why am i so intent on making his other girl work out.. usually girls are trying to sabotauge him in this situation..
is there something thats special and different with us than other typical friends with benefits.. or is this just normal?
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what i think is going on is your jealous deep down. it just hasnt surfaced quite yet. what i think is, like i did, you will try to get them together. and once it works you will be unhappy and you will feel like you cant even be friends with him. youll feel like your feelings wont matter to him cause you like him but he has someone else. my ex and i broke up a month ago and i still cared about him but he thought i cheated. he didnt care at all. when people asked if i still loved him i said hell no. i was lying so badly. then i found out that my friend likes him a lot. and she has even before we dated. which was a real long time ago. she says they talk all of the time. but he tells other people that they dont. so i dont know. but my point is that i try still to get them together knowing that i cant have him back without hurting her and my new bf. so what you have to do is tell him that you care about him. im sure his feelings havent changed for you. so just try it adn tell me how it goes. k . hotrod
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Because you care about him so much and all you do is want to see him happy. If he goes out with this girl then you might start to feel jealous.
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Just reading this makes me think of what Wes and Johanna had, they were friends with benefits and when they went out they didn't stick to each other like Mel and Dannie >from the Real World< they went out made out with other people got home laughed it up together and didn't care they were still friends with benefits. But now they are dating and happiest ever. Maybe you don't feel jealous because you want him to be happy and shiz because usually when you care about someone that much you tend to get further away from the jealousy and more closer to the being happy part. You never know you and him could end up being together. Maybe he remembers about you saying ask her out today but maybe he doesn't want to. You never know what people think and that's what sucks ass in this world ha, ha. Just keep doing what your doing never know. Hope I helped. Sorry I felt badd* because no one else answered this question.
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