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My bestfriend and her boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now. Problem is: he says he likes me! And I'm kind of into him too! I don't know what to do, thats like my bestfriend. I sure don't want to ruin our friendship but oh my goodness I am really into this boy! (link)
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Whatever you do don't make any quick actions. for one think about what is more important a boy that you can have a fling with for a while or a friendship that could possibly last longer. I was in the same place you were before and I was stupid enough to choose him and it DIDNT work out. anyways if you get with him wut makes u think he wont do what he is doing to your bestfriends to you.
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I just made a new friend from volleyball at school, my best friend is jealous because now i also hang out with my new friend. she says i ignore her but never do...sometime it feels like she's the one ignoring me like shes mad at me. We even had a fight just yesterday but i dont think the problem is solved because she still acts different around me.
Its like She can have other friends but i cant
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Have you tried letting her know how you feel without making her feel like she's the one in the wrong? Let her know how you feel and when yall talk try to not argue just talk things out and if she has something to say then to do it cause if she holding anything back then nothing will be resolved.
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I really need advice rite now. I have been going out with This guy for about 8 months (on and off) and I really love him. But all that I end up getting out pf this relationship is MORE drama and Hurt. I really like him but sometimes it seems like it wasnt meant to be. Ever since I met him and His buddies ITs all been He** and drama and HatE. I haven't cried sooo much in the last 5 years than I have these several months with him. He already cheated on me twice...and there is also this girl that likes him and He has Liked her Forever and I'm scared that he will go out wit her....she is such a bit** too...is it because I'm jelous of her...of what she can have or do?? i really dont know..MY LIFE IS jUST ALL Drama and I want it all to go away. please help me..
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If you want to get away from all this drama then why don't you try getting rid of him because it seems he's the one with the issues.You might think you don't want to throw away 8 months but sooner or later it will end and the longer you wait the more it will hurt.Don't put yourself in a tough situation and there is many other guys out there with less problems.I hope I helped but introduce yourself to new people and a different crowd maybe something good will come of it.GOOD LUCK!
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i think im a really good advice-giver on here. my rating a 4.62. well when my friends come to me for advice i dont really know what to tell them. but when random people ask me advice i no right away a 'solution'. can someone please tell me if this is normal and what i can do to start helpin my friends? (link)
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Well this might be becauce if you tell random people you only know the problem thats it.But if your friends ask for advice you already know the type of person they are and a little more then the problem so that affects what you tell them.You can't change this but you can try to give advice to your friends.Good luck with this all.
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My BFF got me a gift for Valentine's Day and I think it was 20 to 25 dollars!! I am also getting her a gift, but I believe it's 7 to ten bucks. Is that wrong that I'm spending less on her??
(Also, the thing I'm getting her is something she really wants, but do you think I should get more?) (link)
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Don't worry bout the price between friendship money should never be a factor.If she really wants it the gift your getting her then great but you shouldn't worry bout the money.Anywayz it's gonna be Valentines day soon enjoy it don't even think bout money.Good luck i hope i helped.
ps. but if you do want to get her something else then even better.
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Hi. I have a problem here. My cousin is really nice and he is friends with my boyfriend and his friends. My boy friend dosent do drugs but some of his friends do. I cant just stop his friends from doing drugs because some of them i dont evan care about. My cousin hangs out with them alot and im sure he dose drugs because i asked some of his friends and they say he dose. They all tell me not to tell anyone. My mom is really good friends with his mom (my aunt). Im not going to tell on him but what should i do to make him stop? I dont want advice that says talk it over with your cousin or just go tell on him cuz thats not what im going to do. (link)
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I think you should show him a picture of what it can do to you.I tried drugs before but when I went to a Drug Free Rally I saw many pictures about the causes and effects and that changed my whole idea about drugs.I hope I helped.talking to him and showing him you care about his health is really something you should do.GOod Luck!
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Aight well i have this friend and she used to like this guy named jeff. Well jeff asked her out but recently just told her he liked me more and bragged about me and soo forth. Well she said no and broke jeff's heart. Well now jeff is madly in love with me and he wants to go out with me. And now my friend is starting to like jeff a little more also. I really want to go out with jeff, but is it okay that i go out with someone my best friend has previsouly liked i don't know but i really want jeff.... But again i don't want to end our relationship...
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He's just a boy you might like him today and tomorrow find him annoying.Your bestfriend has been there for you and after if you choose to date this boy and then break up she might still be there I think you shouldn't choose a guy over your bestfriend but if you really like him see how it goes cause your bestfriend will get over it sooner or later. trust me I've been there done that.Well good luck and I hope everything works out.
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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!) (link)
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They have been dating for about a year so that means she sees something in him you and your friends dont.If he is really that bad why dont you try to prove that to her without like really pointing it out to her and give her time cause she might be confused.hope i helped good luck!
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Hey Hunz! This is strawberriilova92!!
My neighbor not really a friend, but not an enemy, an aquantaince!! *Dev* has been cutting herself...and she always writes these horrid, absolutely, horrid, gruesome, poems about killing herself!! It really scares me because I've seen her cuts! And I have told her to get help, but she won't listen. Today at school she said she was gunna cut herself deep and not stop the bleeding so she can bleed to DEATH!! Or take a bottle of pills, or some other self-mutalating way to kill herself!! I'm really scared I've known her since I was in diapers..is there anyway I can stop her before it's too late?? Sorry about length!!
PS--SHE HAS NEVER CUT HERSELF DEEPLY
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Well if she writes those poems she is expressing herself.Talk to her and ask he how all that started happening why is she doing that to herself.where it all began yu know wut i mean.try to tell her how much you care about her and dont want to see her hurt and stuff like that let her know how you feel.and tell an adult your mom her mom .i hope i helped good luck!
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Everyone said I'm immature for my age. I don't think i'm THAT immature .. it's just like the way I act. I act the way I do to amuse people, and people think im like soo funny and everything .. I don't wanna stop being how I am because being funny is what I do, but I still want people to stop callen me immature.
What should I do? Please help!
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be humorous in certain times not all the time cause after a while it will get boring if you know what i mean.but dont change because someone tells you to.but dont become all serious all the time cause that isn't very good cause people have to have fun sometime rite?Well good luck and i hope it works out.:)
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Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!
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A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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OK everyone is telling you not to run away and i agreelike every other person that cares about you would.School is over soon you wont have to put up with them.If they keep hitting you ask them why and if that doesnt work for you then insoult them and if your not that kinda person you should just tell all of this to someone you trust.I would say a councilor or teacher specialy your parents but if you don't think that will help then you should try either way you dont know until you try.If theses kids keep messing with you like fighting you fight back cause if you don't they wont learn to respect.if they kick you kick back.insoult them until they see what they are doing.im not saying to go up to them and start something. im saying not to put up with that cause everyone has promblems and i dont think you need a kid your own age beating up on you.but running away wont make anything better actualy worst 1st cause your parents will be very worried 2nd the kids will think they won and your a loser either way and 3rd you shouldnt let them take the best of you.cause i know you must be a really cool person and they arnt giving you a chance to show that.your not alone in this cause im also going through the same thing.
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my two bestfriends hate me for no reason! they think i talk about them when i dont nd ive told them a million times that i dont talk about them. i still want to be freinds with them, what should i do? please help! (link)
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Well i don't think they are your bestfriends if they hate you.if they keep insisting that you talk crap about them then why donm't you just give it time and they will come around because after a while they will feel stupid for accusing you of talking about them if you didn't.I hope i helped GOOD LUCK!
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Ok. Well ive gone out with this guy right? Lets call him James. But that was two years ago when me and james were in the 8th grade and he didnt take relationships seriously therefore never kept a girlfriend for more than 3 weeks. So anyways now me and James are best friends, but we like each other again. I dont know if I should go out with him though because I do not want to ruin our friendship. My question is for all you guys who went through this and did go out after being best friends, when/if you guys broke up, did you stay friends? or did it change? (link)
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we stayed friends we even became better friends and became more aware of one anothers feelings more.well that was in our case hopfuly it will work out with u. :)
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My best friend & I have known eachother forever and tell eachother everything. She has always been against smoking - she thinks it's stupid and it smells horrible. The thing is, all her other friends smoke, but me. Recently, she has started to herself! She has actually given into the peer pressure and she never has before. I used to be so proud of her for standing up for what she believed and not smoking. Now, she's changing and smoking all the time just like her friends. How do I talk to her about this? I'm so disappointed in her but I'd do anything to get my old, brave best friend back. (link)
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well remind her of the times she went on about not smoking and so on.Tell her how u feel in most cases that works.OR u can tell her all the bad things about smokeing and the disgusting things and hopfuly she will change u mind.I'm not trying to be mean but she seems to be a hypocrite(sorry if i spelled that wrong) but she is how can you talk bad about it then do it.Well i suggest you to talk to her.GOOD LUCK!
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Well, Sometimes my friends can be really full of themselves. They can be stuck up and annoying. I love them to death but it bugs me so much. Actually sometimes I like to hang out with my my boyfriend and his guy friends more, but i still need my GIRLYS! please help me figure out a way to not be like them (stuck up ect.) and deal with them without breaking our friendship.
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well you can just NOT be stuck up and when they say something that bothers you tell them with out being so mean and many girls have that problem and its normal soon enough they will hopfuly change but they are your friends and if they do change you might miss there old selfs.
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There is this one kid who goes to my school and his name is Jamie. He's been at my school since second grade and I have always just thought he was kind of an annoying and weird kid. He used to like me and he still flirts with me but I have always sort of acted like I hated him (because i thought i did). Anyway I figured out that all this time I have liked him. It seems like a good thing (because he might still like me) but there is a problem...He's moving to Hong Kong in January! He's kind of a geek in my grade but he thinks he's really popular and stuff and I was going to tell him right away that I like him but then I decided that it would be really weird if he didn't still like me too and then he would tell everyone that I like him and then I would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my life at school. So after that I thought that maybe I would tell him on his last day of school but I'm not sure if that is the right thing to do....Please help me...SOON! (link)
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If he liked you once i bet he still does and if he doesnt i know the feeling will come back and you shouldn't worry about what other people think of you as long as your happy and he isn't hurting you in any way but i dont think you should wait any longer tell him how you feel i bet he feels the same way.
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Okay my friend is kind of lets say gothic... everyone picks on him at school and sometimes they get down right cruel. He has rocks, footballs, popcans(full),anything they can find thrown at him. He is also now afraid the go to school because of everything that goes on. Well anyways I was talking to him tonight and he told me that he almost lit a house on fire and he is thinking about homicide.. to the kids that are mean to him.. should I tell someone so no one is hurt... but then wouldn't he get mad at me.. I dont want him to get sent away cuz all his mom has left is him.. but wouldnt it be wrong not to tell anyone and have someone get killed.. plz help and fast before he does anything stupid.. thanks (link)
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umm im sorrry but there is something seriously wrong with ur friend but i dont really blame him 4 feeling that way but that is still to harsh.TALK TO HIM to get him over that crazy idea show him that people do care about him.dont tell ppl well the kids that he planz to hurt cause they will get all scared but do tell a councilor but before any of that HIM MOM cause she has the right to know to what is going on.but still to him over and over until he thinks throughly to wut desicion he is doing that will afect the rest of him life.I hope i helped and im sorry ur in this position.
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All my "friends" are ganging up on me. They are making me choose them or the guy i love... what do i do? please i really need help (link)
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okay who have you known longer.has this boy ever hurt u emotionaly and when u 2 do brake up whos going to be there for giving support.think about those thing but i dont think u should choose because they are all important ppl to you i bet.i hope i helped :)
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Ok I really like this guy and he likes me to and weve liked eachother for a while and I dont know what to do about IT now hes saying im really hott and stuff he makes me feel good bout myself because I think im ugly (like most girls at my school think there ugly to) its just a normal thing and we will be on the phone and hell be like I love u la la la and stuff what should I do and how to I deal with this? (link)
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WEll he likes u and u like him ask him out.and if u cant then get into the subject and most likely he will but this is obvious he like u and u like him so hook up thats all i gotta say i hope it works out.:)
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Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops? (link)
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I know how u feel thats the same thing with my friend but her bf goes to our school and i cant believe he hasn't said anything but in ur case i would just tell her and if she doesnt listen well it be cause she will soon get wut she deserve. "what goes around comes around" so ya dont put much attention or tell her would u like ur bf to do that to u then she will have to think about it and hopefuly change her acts.well hope i helped.
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