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I need "LIFE" help
Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!
Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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You are totally not a looser. In life you will have probably only like 3 good friends that will always be there for you. People have no right to do what they do to you for no reason.You are not a looser the people who are mean to you are loosers. Dont ever let people make you feel like crap. IM me at BreenzyWeenzy7
~Brina~
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Dont run away running away deff. isnt going to solve your problems.But not trying to be mean, you do need help.Think back have you ever done anything mean to any of those people who is doing this stuff to you, or to any of their friends if you have then theyre paying you back for it but this way is totally mean and id kick their asses. Anyways, talk to a counselor and your parents it sounds like you need to go to a different school and get a fresh start but thats running away from your problems which you dont want to do but if its totally neccassary then do it. If you cant do that then only thing you can do is stand up for yourself they say something mean say something back like ok w.e or everything your saying doesnt offend me ( even if it really does) and then pretty soon they'll catch on that its not bothering you and they'll leave you alone. Their only doing that because they know your not doing anything about it. People dont like hanging out with "wimps". GOod luCk!
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Im sure that someone would miss you. No one is completely hated by everyone.. trust me. Im not gonna say dont let them get to you because its very hard not to do that. If you really wanted to just fit in you could always adapt to how the "cool kids" act and their styles..but thats not always the answer. If i had details this would be easier to answer. But dont run away or do anything to harm yourself. Things will get better eventually, they always do. If you would like to get back to me with details i would love to help you some more. I Hope things get better for you.
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You shouldn't run away. Life can't be THAT bad.. can it?? well, if it is, just try your best to find other people who to be friends with. Outcast's should stick together. and i'm not saying you're an outcast, maybe you're just misunderstood, but.. just find some other lonely people who neeed a friend.. and be their friend. hopefully, they won't let you down.
heck, i'll be your friend. IM me.. oxcloolessx0.. just don't run away, k?? whatever you're running away from is not gonna be fixed by leaving it.
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dont listen to what anyone says cuz im sure your not a loser and dont listen to spike w/e the rest of his thing is cuz suicide is a bad thing that you should not do ! im hated by a lot of kids in my skool that pick no me for being werid and different i also lost five friends in one month so when ever you are getin pick on just tell everyone to f**k of and die . or when ever they pass by you just ignor them and there mean ways cuz if there that cool they wont like being ignored even by the people who they hate ( believe me it works cuz since everyone except for a few people hate me i do that and they dont like it and i have goten more peolpe to notice me and kno im not some ass that they kick around ) - hope i have helped -
**** soul666 ****
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i have felt exactly like you many times, i've felt out of place and like no one cared, and i may be able to help you. here i go. ok, well how do you expect to ever solve any problems if you just want to run away from them? i never run away from my problems anymore, i just deal with them, and each time i've faced a problem and solved it my life has gotten better and better. i tried killing myself many times, i ran away from home once because my mom lied to me and said she was going to go rent movies and pick me up some soup and juice because i was sick, and instead she went to her EX boyfriends house, and wouldn't answer her phone! i was so mad, but running away did not do me any good, it just got cops looking for me and a lot of yelling. so instead of running away, the next time i waited for her to come home and told her how worried i was, and how much i had cried while wanting and needing her to come home. she finally stopped, and started spending time with me. then i started facing all of my problems that way, being braver, being stronger. so don't be a coward like the old me and run away, and hurt people and yourself, but instead be like the new me, and be brave and strong. please don't run away, there are people that care about you, you just don't see them because you're too busy focusing on the people that don't care. you only see what you want to see, so want to see people who care. i really hope i helped. if your problems persist, feel welcome to email me. my email address is on my advice column. good luck.
Sierra(arlo)
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Well you just asked me this.. and i have the same answer but ask xox surfgirl xox
hope i helped
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What makes these kids so cool? What do they have that you do not. Guess what as soon as you leave the school..by graduating or getting a job...all of this ends.
To me they get pleasure out of kicking you around..for they must REALLY hate themselves or their life. Super psycho's...hitting is for 3 year old's
Don't run away if your family will not help you find someone to talk to.
But again...these kids are the losers...in a few years they will be in prison and you will be the one making fun of them
I know it is hard..seems like your life is today is all it will be. But once you are out of that atmosphere...and able to be you. You will at least find your place.
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Running away won't solve anything unless you've got somewhere to go, such as an Aunt who'd be willing to take you in. Even then it doesn't solve anything because bullying just follows you like a bad smell. You just have to find some way through it and tell yourself that one day it'll be over. School doesn't last forever.
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Don't listen to them ugly ass kids. I think you shouldn't run away from your problems because they will get worser. You need to talk to your parents about that they will help. Please do NOT run away.
Hope i helped, bye
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Yes, i've been in this position before. If people don't like u for u then fuck them. They just pick on you for what they are missing. don't worry about what other people say. just do what they did at columbine when they got pissed off. Just kidding. DO NOT DO THAT I REPEAT DO NOT DO THAT. there is not much i can tell u than to keep trying and try to solve the problems.
hope i helped
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omg everyone feels that way, but for me things get better just calm down and think abut the gud things
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FYI ur not the only 1 who feels like that. i feel like that all the time even tho i have a few popular friends . but dont run away. chances r even if u think no one would miss u they would!!!!!probally ALOT and who cares if the popular kids dont like u. SCREW THEM.they think they r popular cuz they might have more money then most people or dress better or live in a better house. if u wanna tlk or n e thing u can im me on:
Kgirlp3piper or
XPuNkRoCkErXx666
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OK everyone is telling you not to run away and i agreelike every other person that cares about you would.School is over soon you wont have to put up with them.If they keep hitting you ask them why and if that doesnt work for you then insoult them and if your not that kinda person you should just tell all of this to someone you trust.I would say a councilor or teacher specialy your parents but if you don't think that will help then you should try either way you dont know until you try.If theses kids keep messing with you like fighting you fight back cause if you don't they wont learn to respect.if they kick you kick back.insoult them until they see what they are doing.im not saying to go up to them and start something. im saying not to put up with that cause everyone has promblems and i dont think you need a kid your own age beating up on you.but running away wont make anything better actualy worst 1st cause your parents will be very worried 2nd the kids will think they won and your a loser either way and 3rd you shouldnt let them take the best of you.cause i know you must be a really cool person and they arnt giving you a chance to show that.your not alone in this cause im also going through the same thing.
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WOW ok u sound just like i do, i almost always feel like that, well not almost always, just always...trust me i know how you feel, i just moved and have lik no friends and a sucky life and cry like everyday...but you know what i think about, my mom and dad i love then so much and i think if i left them they would be so sad and in the long run, so would i...i know how you feel, my so-called best friend was my friend for like 4 yrs and the only reason sh was friends with me is cuz i always took her on my vacations and my parents considered her like a 2nd daughter so they always got her so much stuff anf when they stopped, sh stopped being my friend...i have never had a real friend...people always use me for stuff, or arent even nice to me at all so i do know how it feels...
if u ever wanna chat my SN is: SuNkIsTsArAh1427
i do really know how it feels and i know its hard not to think that there isnt anyone out there for u but people do love you and need you around...hope this helps and if ur feeling down or anything...u can IM me...becuz i am feeling the exact same way, i dont know why im still here....
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omg i totally knw how u feel no dont runaway and ya u knw wht kids r soo frickin mean!! IM me on my sn ditzybrunett341 cuz looks lik u need to tlk to someone kk!! thts my sn for aol kk soo IM me and ill tlk to u!!xoxo
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First off you said it yourself, it isn't that people don't like you they just are avoiding you out of peer pressure. Remember this, school doesn't last forever and the only constant in life is change. But that change begins within you. You are trying to hard my friend. You are wanting to be accepted by a group of people unworthy of your friendship. I am sure that you are not the only one at that school that feels that way. First, dump all of these so-called friends. Second, become your own friend. You have to like yourself, love yourself in order for anyone else to get in and like or love you. Have you ever met someone that hated themself so much that it consumed them? That will happen to you if you do not take action now. Running away will take you away from a situation but you can't run away from yourself. Believe me, we have all tried it and it just doesn't work. Start by finding something that really interests you. I mean something that you have real passion for. Maybe photography, art, music, drama, sports, astronomy. Anything that you really care about, that intrigues you and that you can put a lot of time into. Then find out where you can go (within school or outside) that you can be with people that share this interest with you. People that you have a common bond with in this thing that you have so much passion for. Start making your friends there. When you have an outlet that you are so strongly passionate about and you have friends within this outlet then other things in life become less important. You find that you have something to look forward to. In time when everyone sees that you don't care and that you have a wonderful life that satisfies you outside of them they will start to wonder and try to find out what it is that has you so consumed. You see people like this think that the world revolves around them and when you become consumed with something that has nothing to do with them then they will want to know why because you will be rocking their existence, making them feel and seem less important. That is when you look them in the eye and say, "Did you actually think that I thought that you were my friend? You are no ones friends. I moved on, I suggest that you do the same." You are not a loser, you are a human being with feelings that are outside the understanding of narcicistic shallow people. Go and find people like yourself and have a wonderful life outside the games and egos that you have been surrounded with for too long. Let me know how things go and best of luck to you. :)
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Do not run away! You sound like a really sweet guy that would never do anything to hurt anyone. And I DO know what you are going through believe it or not I feel like no one likes me either. It feels like everyone is paired up with someone in the halls and I am an odd ball. You are not a loser and you HAVE to remember theres always good on the other side. Try praying before you start your day. It does soo much for me. And on my advice column I have that song "I'm Just a Kid" cuz it relates to my life too. And you don't need to hang out with the "cool" people cuz they are backstabbing liars and they are NOT cool at all and you DO NOT need people like that. Make friends with the people who are not known well at school. Thats what I do and I'm still living today aren't I? You just have to remember NEVER give up on yourself.
G/L
xo0x adriana
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umm first off, can i just say welcome to being a teenager????
everyone feels like this at some point in time. like honestly, thats my favorite song because i feel like its about me. i honestly do. i feel like that song fits my life so perfectly. no one understands you or anyone else for that matter because no one understands them. see, everyone loves that song so much because everyone feels like it applies to them as much as it applies to the next guy.
Everyone feels like they just want to run away. i know i do. some times i just want to curl up and die.
but there are just things in life that are too good to die. for me its a person and baseball. as stupid as it sounds, its true. theres one person, and the boston Red Sox. what i'd do with out them, i have no idea. Find your thing to hold onto, and you will grow up out of this wanting to be dead thing.
umm, i'm not putting you down, i'm just telling you that its perfectly normal how you feel.
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Yes i do
i know how you fell
I just asked like the same question so i might not be the best one to ask but ask my friend Rach91967 she's awsome
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hey sum plp are just like that but u should never doubt ure self u cant run away from ure problems forevevr just do ure best in scholl n grdauate u will show all of them b/c most of dem are just dumb you shouldn`t runaway thats the answer but just sit n talk to ure parents bout it maybe they can trnsfer u to a diffrent school or something but if u need someone to talk to just holla at me okay?hope i helped!
Belma
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aww! im so sorrie...first of all even tho u are offended make it look like u arent and ignore them wen they say mean shit eventualli they'll get the point you dont care and they'll stop! i mean there a buncha loserz! stand up for urself! think positvily and not negativily..(not the worlds greatest speller here)..if u need sum more advice leave one n my inbox! and remember theyre big ass losers for doin sumthin so mean like that!
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