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Freindship
my two bestfriends hate me for no reason! they think i talk about them when i dont nd ive told them a million times that i dont talk about them. i still want to be freinds with them, what should i do? please help!
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well try talking to them and see what happens and then if that dosent work MoVe On :D
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put them on the spot. ask them exactly what you said, when you said it, and where you were. they wont be able to answer you, and if they say "so n so told me blah blah blah" be like ok when did they hear it? hopefully theyll realize that its bull. and if they dont, theyre not worth ur time anyway! xoxxo
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Well i don't think they are your bestfriends if they hate you.if they keep insisting that you talk crap about them then why donm't you just give it time and they will come around because after a while they will feel stupid for accusing you of talking about them if you didn't.I hope i helped GOOD LUCK!
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I'm sure that your best friends don't hate you. Maybe they're just mad about something you did but don't realize. Set them straight and tell them that you don't and won't ever talk about them. And try to find out what makes them think that. Maybe someone has told them that. Just ask them and see what's up. If they don't believe or trust you, then they're probably not true friends.
[Hope I helped]
*Emmy Boo
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Sounds to me like your friends have some trust issues. Have you given them a reason not to trust you? If you havent, then you really need to have a chat with them. Say to them,"It really bothers me that you dont believe me when I tell you I dont talk about you. What can I do to make you trust me?" If that doesnt work, then maybe its time to find some more trusting friends. Goodluck sweetie!
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ask them why they think you talk about them. maybe someone else is telling them that you are, if they still dont believe you...maybe they're not very good friends after all. hope i helped. good luck.
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Talk to them in person ... and ask them why they hate you all of sudden, tell them you'd never do something to hurt them .. and if they still refuse to listen, make sure you never say somethin sour to them because then they'll be like.."omg she really does talk shyt!"...so just stay nice to them...and tell them.."I thought we were bestfriends, I guess I was wrong" ... girl maybe their just jealous of you...you never know?
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my suggestion is to let them cool off for awhile i bet when they are ready to talk to you they will ... but if they constantly keep accusin' u of something that you didn't do then ... then i think u should move on and find new friends!!
*BeSs*
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