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Question Posted Tuesday October 12 2004, 9:17 pm

Ok. Well ive gone out with this guy right? Lets call him James. But that was two years ago when me and james were in the 8th grade and he didnt take relationships seriously therefore never kept a girlfriend for more than 3 weeks. So anyways now me and James are best friends, but we like each other again. I dont know if I should go out with him though because I do not want to ruin our friendship. My question is for all you guys who went through this and did go out after being best friends, when/if you guys broke up, did you stay friends? or did it change?

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babiigurl076 answered Thursday October 14 2004, 8:14 pm:
I've been through this a few times, and yes I stayed friends with them..just not as close of friends. Just make sure you can trust this guy, and talk to him& make sure he knows about the risk of the friendship changing afterwards. It really all depends on how strong the friendship is between you two, and how well it will hold you two together. Be careful, and GOODLUCK!

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AquamarineRose answered Thursday October 14 2004, 4:18 pm:
I went out with my best guy friend....it lasted 2 months...2 weeks...and 4 days.Are we still friends?Yeah it took a good few weeks after the break up though until we actually had more then hey,how was your weekend conversations.But to this day we are still friends...at times it does get a bit akward,but it's better than losing one of my best friends.

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karlyndarlin05 answered Wednesday October 13 2004, 7:12 pm:
ok this happens alot, when/if you break up then things might be bad in the beginning, but like all kids you will get over it, and so will he, so i dont think you shoudl worry about and yes you should go out w. him if you both like each other, bcuz, hey you might be missing out on a great thing!!!

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MissIiVannaH answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 10:12 pm:
we stayed friends we even became better friends and became more aware of one anothers feelings more.well that was in our case hopfuly it will work out with u. :)

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XoKGoX answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 9:54 pm:
I have a VERY VERY close guy friend named ryan! me and him went out then broke up and we stayed close and even got closer! friendly flirt turned to "friendlier flirt" and we decided to go back out again. It didnt last very long because things got weird because we were really good friends. But after we broke up things went back to b4 and we are still EXTREMELY tight! im not sayin you 2 will only go out for 3 dayz like i did, but if u have a good friendship, then it should outlast a break-up!! :)

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Irishchick24 answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 9:23 pm:
I have done this with 2 of my friends..I did go back out with both of them..and both of the out comes were good..me and both of the guys are still really good friends..it might be different with you..hoped this helped if not sorry!

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