Ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and we had a baby boy 2months ago... he really wants me to marry him and move in with him i really think im ready and i know i could handle it i jus dont know how to convince my mom that im mature enough
If you are over 18 your mom has nothing to do with it. If you think you are ready then yo should, but i suggest taking it slow. Even though you have been together a year, a baby is a new obstacle in life and you don't know how it will change your relationship quite yet. Hold off on the marriage and just live with him for a while, see where it goes from there.
If you are under 18 you really need to talk to your mom and think it out you are still young and have alot ahead of you.
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Ohkay,
My friend sophie,
she is INLOVE with my brother,
and my brother doesn't like her what so ever,
and shes always on to me how she likes him so much and all of that!!
Its so annoying.
and she wants to know what to do.
ive told her to move on but she just doesn't listen.
Shes fully obsessed, and says hes my life blah blah blah.
What can i tell her.
i mean,
my brother and her are always arguing and stuff.
its like OMG slap me.
Please helP!
Just tell her that your brother doesnt like her. It may seem harsh but it needs to be done unless she wants to find out the hard way. If shes a good friend she will know that your not lying to her.
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Hi, I'm Brittany, im 13 and I'm a girl so, yah....my question is about my boyfriend and his mom. His mother doesn't like me very much and he told her that I don;t like her either....he said that I should meet her but I'm kind of affraid to, if you know what I mean.....but anyways....I don't know what to do, what do you think? Should I meat her or not?
How can you dislike someone you have never met? You need to give her a chance and she needs to give you one too. Meting her is the best thing to do. It will show her who you really are and i'm sure she will change her mind about you.
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I am a teen , and I was dating this boy and like we sat by each other all the time but me and him never really talked, I tried to start a conversation and stuff , it was just going downhill, so after three weeks, i got fed up with it and i broke up with him . He started talking about me behind my back at first but now he is okay with me . The problem is I think I still like this boy sooooo much . But I think he tries to make me jealous like he tells me has a girlfriend , and one time like a month after we broke up , he was all like , do we go out because if we do , i want to break up with you ?! But he knew we didn't go out , and his friends all say he really likes me , and I really like him, so what do i do ? Do I make a move , wait on him , give up on him , just what ?
I think you have to get to know him more, you both seem like your not comfortable with eachother yet. Its not a very good relationship if there is no talking. Try to hang out as just friends and see where it goes from there. If they get better then give it another try. If nothing gets better i would just give up, theres tons of other guys out there.
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So i've been talking to this girl for a while, and I kind of like her but im just getting to know her and her friends. We went finally got a chance to
hang out and we went to the movies last night and i had my arm around her most of the movie but didn't make a move cause it's hard to do in a
movie, plus hanging out with her the first time but...anyway i txted her that night and said what a great time i had and she said "me too :) you
should come over kelseys tomarrow" and i said yeah just lemme know what time and ill go :]. So the next day comes around but she doesnt get back to me, and i heard her friend did have people over
her house, now i'm wondering do you think shes interested? i mean some text conversations we have usually indicate that shes pretty interested lol but i don't get it, any girls have input on this? thanks alot!...im a male btw
I think shes interested but she might not want to take it too fast. Plus she might have thought it would be awkward if you went to her friends house just because you don't know them too well, she wouldn't want you to feel left out. Just keep talking to her and try to make plus to go on a date alone so you can get to know each other better. The movies aren't always that best place to go wen you first hang out cause you cant really talk to the person, take her out to dinner or something.
good luck =]
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Ugghh. I usually like older guys. But omg. There's this freshman! He is absolutely delicious. Hahahha. I'm a JUNIOR. He acts mature, could possibly pass as a sophomore :-D.... at least he's my height! We flirt a lot and I get BUTTERFLIES for a FRESHMAN. He tells my bestfriend how he likes me. Oh, FYI not trying to be "rude" but, we're both pretty "popular" and EVERYONE would know if we went out. Omgoodness. Do you think its wrong or weird or what? Some friends say "age is just a number!" Some roll their eyes. Some say "No! You need a read man!" I don't know what my mom would say! I don't want people to think I'm a pedophile!! Help!! Thanks!!! :-D
I'm not gonna lie i think its kinda awkward when i see freshman and juniors going out at my school. But When it comes down to it if you really like him then you should go for it. You shouldn't care what other people are saying. Age is just a number, if any average person saw you together they wouldn't judge you on how old your boyfriend was, nor would they care probably.
good luck =]
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two years of drama but i'm going to try to make it short.
16/f
two years ago i liked my best friend. i liked him so bad and the butterflies were so strong i felt like i was going to throw up if i thought about him too much. the day i decided to tell him litterally 20minutes earlier one of my friends told him that she liked him. they were going out for about two months before he started flirting with me. he told me that he didnt get much action with his girlfriend. our flirting turned into a cyber friends with benefits relationship but he would sometimes smack my butt while he had a girlfriend. they went out for 8months and a week after they broke up we hooked up. we didn't kiss but we basically just felt each other up. i went on vacation, came back and he had a new girlfriend. again i was crushed but he only went out with her for about 2weeks. so they broke up and again a week later he's back in my life and i ended up giving him a hand job. his first ex-girlfriend found out and everyone got mad because apparently the guy and this first girl were planning to get back together but i swear i had no idea otherwise i wouldn't have done it! me and the guy lost touch and weren't really friends anymore. so at the end of the summer(2007) they got back together. school started and the guy apologized to me for all the crap that happened and now we're in a cyber friends with benefits relationship....AGAIN. i feel bad about it because now me and his girlfriend are friends again but its so hard to stop. i've tried three times to stop this but i can't. he's only slapped my ass once and i smacked him for it and told him not to touch me. now i like him again but i would never go out with him because he cheats, i know he does. and besides having the cyber thing with me i always see him flirting with girls. i have to end the cycle but the physical attraction always brings us back together. what do i do about this?
He really doesn't seem worth all the trouble. You know that he cheats and its obvious he goes threw girls like crazy! If you ever were to have something with him it doesn't seem like it would be to serious or long lasting. There plenty of other better guys out there, they might jus be hard to find. Its obviously hard to get over someone just like that so it will take time, just try to be less flirty with him and maybe he wont be flirty back. Dont lead him on like you like him if you want to get over him.
good luck =]
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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...
Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.
He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!
I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...
Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad...
haha well im pretty weak so i usually dont win at things like that but i have fun trying anyway haha, but i remember one time me and guy were trying to push eachother off a dock in the water and he was twice the size of me and i got him off fisrt, we just laughed it off and he didnt really care (plus he got me back later)but that wasnt as competitive as you were being.
But you know guys they NEVER want to be second best especially against a girl because were so under estimated. Hes probably just being insecure about it.
if you need anything else feel free to ask :)
Jess
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hey.my name is Amber.i have this problem well i dont know if it is or not but w\e.
ok---.so i lke this dude n he lkes me back,but we rnt goin out yet.but wut botherz me is that one of my best frndz used to go w\ him not to long ago. well she says shes not mad n that she doesnt care at all.but then i have this feelin that she also wants to cuss me out.but heres the thing i dont git if i feel that way n if she rly does wanna do that i dont git it cuz she broke up w\ him itz rly wierd. but can you plz help.=\
thnk uu oh yeh my email is racerchic4390@yahoo.com
Amber♥
Usually when your friends go out with guys and break up the guys are kinda "off limits" to any friends. She might just think it will be weird when you go out with him because since she broke up with him she probably doesnt wanna see him much and she might feel outta place if you are all somwhere together. If she isnt really good friends with him still. I would just talk to her about it more. Even htough she says that she is okay with it she might jus be casying that cause she wants you to do what makes you happy. Have a good long conversation with her about it then its all up to you.
Jess
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okay so ive been going out with this guy for two months and i love him so much and i know he loves me too. the other night i was talking to him and he said " i love you so much and i think we could take our relationship further" ive never done anything with him, and im not ready to do anything with him, but i really love him. what should i have said to that?
the truth. if you love him as much as you say then you shiould be able to be honest about what you feel without thinking he might not like you as much cause of it. He should understand if your not ready. 2 months isnt that long anyway.
jess
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you know how guys always call their girlfriend "my girl"?
well what would girls call their boyfriends,besides "my guy" because thats dumb
my man, or my boy, or baby boy.
jess
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okay so i like this kid, and he likes me back. and we've talked and stuff and hes planning to ask me out. hes experienced and has had like 15 girlfriends, yeah i know its crazy. and i havent even had one. when we go to the movies, i know hes gona make the first move and try and make out with me but honestly i have no idea how. i know people say it comes naturally. but seriously, i need help. like what if he calls me a bad kisser or somehting? that would totally suck. please help
haha i felt the same way when i knew my first kiss was comming. It really does come naturally, you just have to close your eyes, and when you kissing just kinda massage your tongue with his. Dont get to nervous about it and think about it to much. Plus i dont think he will tell you your a bad kisser to you face unless hes really low.
Jess
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14/m whenever im somewhere and girls i do not know see me that are my age, they seem to be embarrassed and wont look me in the eye. I see them looking at me when im not looking at them and they wont face me. i went over to my friends house and she had two of her friends i had never met before. They were eating when i walked in and the two new girls looked really embarrassed and wouldnt look at me. then when they get to know me there not embarrassed anymore. does this happen to all people when they have never met before??? im not doing anything or looking at them strangely.
They probably just think you are cute. When girls see guys they are attracted to they don't like to make a foll of themself or anything and they don't want to look at you to much and seem like there staring or being obsessive. They might just be nervous talking to you because looking someone in the eye can be kind of awkward sometimes.
jess
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I havent seen my boyfriend in 2 weeks and hes comming home and we are gonna spend the weekend together. I love him very much, I am also a virgin, and I think I am going to lose my virginity this weekend. What else can I do to show him how much I really missed him?
Just a note you don't have to have sex with him just to say you miss him. but if you really feel your ready then its whatever floats your boat. Maybe take him out to dinner or cook him dinner yourself. Just have a night of you guys watch a cute movie that both of you will like.
jess
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Okay one night I was hanging with my best friends
Val and Kristen, We were making fun of the boys that we've dated and you know having fun and yeahh drinking a little..:) Then Rae came over and started hanging and was like omgosh you guys dont know do you! And then told us about Eric&Alisha... two people that have been going out sence the beginging of the 7th grade and now there going into ninth. So that's a longg while. They broke up because Eric was being mean to Gene little brother.. dumb I know and how heart-broken Eric is.. And ive liked him for soo long I wanted to call him. Rachel gave me the number and when he finally picked up the phone he was like if I needed your pitty I would ask for and how if he wanted me to have his number he would've given it too me. Which I can understand i have random people calling me all the time. So I just basicly hung up on him.. and we've been friends for a long time and i knew that the only reason he said that was becuase his mother has a porblem with my WHOLE family (longg story) and thats why he never gave me his number. So all that happened like 5 maybe 6 days ago, and yesturday his mom called me crying saying that she needs me help to get him up and outa bed cuz he only gets out've his room for food and bathroom so because I love him I went over and his mom was cool with me, I talked to Eric like a normal person saying he can't be sorry for himself because he deserves SO much better,, and he got all upset saying no ones gunna like him the same and I said that I love him and he was like but thats you. your Katie... and I got so pissed because he said more i dont think I can say on this website and i was like you know what here take it. And i gave him the little peice of paper rae gave me with him number on it and i said I hope I forget your number and make sure to forget mine, you just lost someone that thought the World of you and when you relise you made a mistake, its too late. Alishas a B****! and you do deserve better, but until you relise how great you are dont even think of me. And left. And ofcoarse through all of that I was crying and right now im over Kristens and he's ben calling my cell, so I shut it off and I dont know how he got Kristens home number and cell but he wont stop calling her either.
I'm not ready to talk to him..
What Do I Do?
ASAP Please........
You will have to deal with him sooner or later. Plus do you really wanna loose someone that means so much to you? I know that its hard to see someone you love in pain, and then have him say some bad things to you, but right now you kinda have to be there for him. Him being mad doesn't exactly give him the right to be mean but you kinda have to understand what hes going threw. Right now he needs friends more then ever. You need to call him or go visit him and work it all, just get everything out. hope that helps.
Jess
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i am ann and im a girl and i am 15 years old.i went on a cruise this last spring vacation and i had soo much fun hanging with this one guy named sam. i didn't think anything more of him then a friend. then like near the end of the cruise i started to feel like we had a real connection. but still nothing REALLY big, and plus he was younger then me and i felt like he was a little bit pervish, all he pretty much though about was sex. then i saw another guy, and we talked and stuff and the last night i never got his e-mail address, so sam, who was one of my best friends by that time, said he would give it to me. so when i got home and i was on the computer i saw that sam was online. so i talked to him and asked him about the e-mail he said he would get me. he said he had to ask his friend to get it for him. turns out that i never really asked for it after that bc all i wanted to do was talk to sam. i though i really liked him too, i mean we got to the point where saying "i love u" like friends, was normal. and i was trusting him with alll my secrets. then after we have been talking for a while, it seems like hes not interested in talking to me as much as he was b4. like instead on him usually starting the convo i have to. i try and start conversations with him, but it doesn't work and i see how different we are now. i dont know what to do. i kinda do really like him. oh yea and he lives like 6-7 hours away from me. what should i do?
You are probably just growing apart since you haven't seen each other in a while. When you talk to him ask if somethings up. Maybe he likes you but is kinda confused cause you live so far away it might now work. Tell him that you really miss the way things use to be and that you were best friends and told each other everything. Let him know how you feel. Maybe even set up a time you can see each other and hang out and talk. i hope it all works out.
jess
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15/f
i have been inlove with the same kid, for the past year. i can't get over him. and like its causing me not to have many boyfriends, because i turn them away. how do i fix this? i want to stop thinking about him, but i cant. and people always bring him up to me, like oh he talks about you, or oh he said this about you. and i dont know why they say that and its like random people. and its just uhhh. how do i fix this?
Well you need to go after him then. If you like him so much get to know him. (if you don't talk to him much) then just start with little conversations and built up from their. But if you really want to move on you just have to clear your mind of him. go out with other guys even if you don't feel like you want to. If you start dating other people then hopefully you will find someone better and you will just forget about him.
jess
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I have a friend and we used 2 go out. He now has a new gf but keeps asking me to go to te movies with him. Would it b wrong to go 2 the movies with him? would it b better 2 ask his gf first?
No it should be fine, unless the new girlfriend is a jealous type. But you guys are friends and even if he has a girlfriend you should still be able to hang out. You shouldn't have to do what his girlfriend says. but if you really feel uncomfortable about it you could go to his girlfriend and just say that you and him are still really good friends so you still wanna hang out without her getting suspicious.
Jess
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So lately my ex and I have been talking a lot, and I like him again. Some of the things he does, seem like he is flirting. He mocks me in a playful way, and if i don't call or talk to him for awhile, he's always the one to call me first. The thing that makes me believe that he doesn't like me is, he doesn't care about anything, his attitude is so like whatever. And he's very boring at times. But there's this one thing he says, and i told him it was cute, and now he always does it, so I feel like he does it because he knows I think it's cute. Is he flirting or not?
Yea he definitely seems like hes flirting. Maybe you should give it another try. Everyone deserves a second chance. Maybe sometimes it seems like he doesn't care about you because he thinks you don't like him like that so he kinda holds back his feelings. Be flirtty back and see what happens.
Jess
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If you ask someone out, and they say no, what do you do next?
you just kinda have to say alright, or okay and walk away, theres not much to do.
jess
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