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this guy from a cruise
i am ann and im a girl and i am 15 years old.i went on a cruise this last spring vacation and i had soo much fun hanging with this one guy named sam. i didn't think anything more of him then a friend. then like near the end of the cruise i started to feel like we had a real connection. but still nothing REALLY big, and plus he was younger then me and i felt like he was a little bit pervish, all he pretty much though about was sex. then i saw another guy, and we talked and stuff and the last night i never got his e-mail address, so sam, who was one of my best friends by that time, said he would give it to me. so when i got home and i was on the computer i saw that sam was online. so i talked to him and asked him about the e-mail he said he would get me. he said he had to ask his friend to get it for him. turns out that i never really asked for it after that bc all i wanted to do was talk to sam. i though i really liked him too, i mean we got to the point where saying "i love u" like friends, was normal. and i was trusting him with alll my secrets. then after we have been talking for a while, it seems like hes not interested in talking to me as much as he was b4. like instead on him usually starting the convo i have to. i try and start conversations with him, but it doesn't work and i see how different we are now. i dont know what to do. i kinda do really like him. oh yea and he lives like 6-7 hours away from me. what should i do?
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ok i have been in your same situation before.
i know how you feel.
and the truth is he's mad or frustrated bc you live so far away so he is trying to move on bc he likes you (well from what i can tell).
but you just need to move on and yeahh its hard but just find another guy you like and yeah.
but i mean what ever is meant to be will happen so just live your life. But i mean the sometimes the people you want the most in your lives don't always fit. well i hope that helped a little bit but im sure everyone is telling you to move on, but there right. sorry i hope everything works out ann !
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your just losing the connection you had...try getting together and see if you can bring it back...you haven't seen each other in a while and you just need to tell him how you felt then and how you feel now and see what happens
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You are probably just growing apart since you haven't seen each other in a while. When you talk to him ask if somethings up. Maybe he likes you but is kinda confused cause you live so far away it might now work. Tell him that you really miss the way things use to be and that you were best friends and told each other everything. Let him know how you feel. Maybe even set up a time you can see each other and hang out and talk. i hope it all works out.
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