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15/f
i have been inlove with the same kid, for the past year. i can't get over him. and like its causing me not to have many boyfriends, because i turn them away. how do i fix this? i want to stop thinking about him, but i cant. and people always bring him up to me, like oh he talks about you, or oh he said this about you. and i dont know why they say that and its like random people. and its just uhhh. how do i fix this?
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Well you need to go after him then. If you like him so much get to know him. (if you don't talk to him much) then just start with little conversations and built up from their. But if you really want to move on you just have to clear your mind of him. go out with other guys even if you don't feel like you want to. If you start dating other people then hopefully you will find someone better and you will just forget about him.
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well if you like him you shoudl bring it to his atention. you might have so talk to him more hang around him (dont be too clingy) if you dont want to like him just think of his flaws. all of them this may be hard but think about what you like in guys, and what he doesn't have. for example someone who likes you and is open about it. It could be that he likes you and he is shy. you never know. another way of getting over him is looking for someone else, you dont have to have a major crush on them, just kinda of be "scouting" when you go places like beach for example instead of wishing he was there look around for what already there hah. =)
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