Question Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 11:55 pm
So i've been talking to this girl for a while, and I kind of like her but im just getting to know her and her friends. We went finally got a chance to
hang out and we went to the movies last night and i had my arm around her most of the movie but didn't make a move cause it's hard to do in a
movie, plus hanging out with her the first time but...anyway i txted her that night and said what a great time i had and she said "me too :) you
should come over kelseys tomarrow" and i said yeah just lemme know what time and ill go :]. So the next day comes around but she doesnt get back to me, and i heard her friend did have people over
her house, now i'm wondering do you think shes interested? i mean some text conversations we have usually indicate that shes pretty interested lol but i don't get it, any girls have input on this? thanks alot!...im a male btw
fabulous11 answered Sunday January 27 2008, 3:52 pm: I think shes interested but she might not want to take it too fast. Plus she might have thought it would be awkward if you went to her friends house just because you don't know them too well, she wouldn't want you to feel left out. Just keep talking to her and try to make plus to go on a date alone so you can get to know each other better. The movies aren't always that best place to go wen you first hang out cause you cant really talk to the person, take her out to dinner or something.
good luck =]
XoXoXoXo77 answered Sunday January 27 2008, 10:36 am: okay if she wasnt interested at all she wouldnt be letting you put her arm around you in the movies, let alone go to the movies with you at all. there could be a lot of reasons why she didnt invite you to kelseys the next day. maybe they just had girls over. maybe she really likes you and she didnt feel like making the effort that night to flirt with you, look cute, etc. i dont know if you understand that or not, its kinda a girl thing. sometimes we dont feel like seeing the guy we like when we're not looking/ acting our best. maybe her friend told her she couldnt invite anyone else. i would wait a few days and see if she talks to you/ texts you. dont text her. you'll seem too desperate. <3goodluck [ XoXoXoXo77's advice column | Ask XoXoXoXo77 A Question ]
orphans answered Sunday January 27 2008, 9:31 am: If she didn't like you, she wouldn't be texting you or going to the movies with you...like, it just wouldn't happen haha. But she is probably just a bit confused, like she doens't know if she should take the next step and invite you because she doesn't know how you feel or where she stands.
The truth is: girls give mixed signals. yepp, we do. so don't be discouraged, it's just in some of our natures.
And maybe kelsey told her that she couldn't invite anyone, so she was embarrassed to call you/text you and tell you that you couldn't come to kelsey's house, because yeah, that is just plain awakward to have to do that.
So, my suggestion is that you keep talking to her, maybe even playfully mention to her [nothing heavy and serious] about the situation...
Good luckk, I'm pretty sure she's into you. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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