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my boyfriend??
okay so ive been going out with this guy for two months and i love him so much and i know he loves me too. the other night i was talking to him and he said " i love you so much and i think we could take our relationship further" ive never done anything with him, and im not ready to do anything with him, but i really love him. what should i have said to that?
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Honestly- if you don't want to do anything further with him- just be honest. Relationships should be based on trust and communication, not assumptions. If you're in communication with him- he'll know that you're not ready- and hopefully he'll respect that. You've only been going out for 2 months- its still a little early to have sex, if that is what he is implying. He maybe just wants to get in your pants? You never know that could be a possibility.. although I could be wrong. Just be honest with him- and if he doesn't respect that- he's not right for you.
--Jack
(15/m)
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Tell him that you just aren't comfortable with going any further just yet.
OR, just take the big leap with him.
But in my opinion? Wait a little while longer.
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Be honest with him. If you love each other the way you say you do, you should be able to be open with one another. Just explain to him that you aren't quite ready for that. Never do something you aren't sure of. Explain this to him, and I'm sure you'll be fine =]
- Laura.
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"I really like you, but I am not ready to do anything with you."
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the truth. if you love him as much as you say then you shiould be able to be honest about what you feel without thinking he might not like you as much cause of it. He should understand if your not ready. 2 months isnt that long anyway.
jess<3
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