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My boyfriend and his mother.
Hi, I'm Brittany, im 13 and I'm a girl so, yah....my question is about my boyfriend and his mom. His mother doesn't like me very much and he told her that I don;t like her either....he said that I should meet her but I'm kind of affraid to, if you know what I mean.....but anyways....I don't know what to do, what do you think? Should I meat her or not?
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Yes, i would go meet her and be very polite so she can see what kind of sweet girl you are. :). Then she might think that you are perfect for her son. Hope this helps!
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How can you dislike someone you have never met? You need to give her a chance and she needs to give you one too. Meting her is the best thing to do. It will show her who you really are and i'm sure she will change her mind about you.
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Hey Brittany! I think you should straighten that bond with your bf's mom and you by meeting her. Don't lie about yourself to make the mother like you for who you really aren't. Just like your boyfriend, he likes you because of your personality and stuff. I bet the mother will too. So, go on and be true and meet her, girl! :D
Thanks for your time on reading my advice!
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It's not going to help the situation if you avoid it, so meet with his mom and act nice. Just bite your tongue and everything will be alright.
So I'm a little confused, are you saying that you've never met her before in your entire life? Because if so, how do you know that you don't like her?
When you meet her, wear nice clothes (like church clothes), smile, be polite, and try to make a good impression. Is there a reason why his mom doesn't like you? If so, try to change her mind. If you approach the situation this way, nothing bad can come from it.
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Hi Brittany,
If I was you, I wouldn't be too happy about your boyfriend telling his Mom that you don't like her either! Either way, I would meet her. Treat her with respect and call her Miss/Mrs (Smith) or ma'am. Always be polite and attentive, that will show her that your not just another teen girlfriend and a nicely mannered young girl!
I wish you the best of luck!
Lindsay
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A boyfriend's mother can be very intimidating and I totally feel where you are coming from. My current boyfriend's mother is very very protective of him and hardly ever likes his girlfriends and I broke his heart once upon a time so when we started going out again I was terrified about meeting her. But it was really something that couldn't be avoided, if she hasn't met you then I really doubt that she hates you. Mothers just love their kids and never think people are good enough, but once they meet you, if you are confident and sweet and yourself then they get to know you and begin to like you.
I think you should definatly meet her and show her that you really care about her son and that you are a good person. Remember to be poised, confident, and polite.
Hope I Helped.
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ya meet her by not meeting her is showing your a coward and its this relataionship will not work out if your not going to be strong and face your fears she shouldnt be scarys because one she cant touch you two if she yells at you for a stupid reason she isnt your parent so fuck them is what i say show you arnt scared and they will respect you. she doesnt like you most likely because you dating her son its weird some people are like that but w.e hope i helped
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