Ohkay,
My friend sophie,
she is INLOVE with my brother,
and my brother doesn't like her what so ever,
and shes always on to me how she likes him so much and all of that!!
Its so annoying.
and she wants to know what to do.
ive told her to move on but she just doesn't listen.
Shes fully obsessed, and says hes my life blah blah blah.
What can i tell her.
i mean,
my brother and her are always arguing and stuff.
its like OMG slap me.
sammx0x answered Monday August 18 2008, 9:53 am: Sticky situation.
Friend vs. Sibling . . .
Well obviously to start out with you need to sit sophie down and give her the tough love chat.
Explain to her that your brother isn't into her and when they argue, he's not flirting. Explain also that you love them both but the constant back and forth is getting a bit ridiculous. She'll move on, it's just a crush.
If this chat doesn't work, sohpie's an extremely dense character to crack and will eventually see the light, until then just ride it out. [ sammx0x's advice column | Ask sammx0x A Question ]
orangebutterfly answered Monday August 18 2008, 8:33 am: If you don't like reason your freind likeing your borther try to explain to her that. if she and your brother be together and that if something ever happend it runie you guys feelings. and maybe let it be between them. Tell her fine you have crush on my borther but seroly ther other fishes in the sea.. and explain it bothers you. ask her when she see him she see you to. not in a u know way I just mean that it be hard things can work out. [ orangebutterfly's advice column | Ask orangebutterfly A Question ]
dulce8nina answered Monday August 18 2008, 4:35 am: ok. shes your friend & you might not wanna hurt her feelings but the best thing to do is tell her what your brother said. Tell her he's just not attracted to her like that & if that dosent work ask your brother 2 talk 2 her and let her know from his own mouth.
-in a way if they are always arguing maybe your brother does kind of like her & hes just not telling you. i know i used to HATE my boyfriend with a passion i couldent stand him & my brother would ask me if i liked him & i'd be like ewww hell no f* dat lol but after some time i finally admitted it & weve been 2gether for a yr.
ask him it wont hurt && wich ever the situation is your friend will STOP bugging YOU! :D
goodluck! [ dulce8nina's advice column | Ask dulce8nina A Question ]
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