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Q: ok so ive known this guy for a little more than a month. we met one night when i was out with my friends. we talked almost everynight and last night we finally hung out...well we hooked up and im just afraid he wont call me again..so if he doesnt what should i do?
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If he doesn't call you, don't worry!
Try keeping yourself busy by watching tv, surfing the internet, playing outside (riding a bike, etc..) or have a friend over.
Before you know it, time flies and he'll call!
If he doesn't, try to get a hold of him, call him, text him, if he has a computer, e-mail him!
Just don't worry about it, just think positive :)
-MADLYxINxLOVE
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Q: Is it possible to like 2 or more people the same amount? (Romantic "like")
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Yeah, it's possible to like more than 1-2 people. I would call it something for having a 'thing' for them, you know? ;)
-MADLYxINxLOVE
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Q: I havent had a boyfriend for like 3 months but it seems likes it been forever. I want a boyfriend bad. Is that a bad thing?
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Wanting a boyfriend isn't a bad thing, it's absolutely normal and natural.
But wanting one so bad and just hooking up with guys you barely even know, is a bad thing. (Though, I am not accusing you of doing that.)
But what I would do is try to keep my mind off of getting a boyfriend. Like hanging out with some of my friends, go shopping, talking on the phone (not about guys) all that good single girl stuff. you know?
Sorry I have included more information for what you asked for
But I hope I helped and good luck :)
-Paper_Heartsz
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Q: Hi. If it helps, I'm 15/f. Ok, I think I might be gay or bi. Lately, I have found myself wanting to be with a girl more than with a guy. A few weeks ago I was at the waterpark with a friend, and I checked out almost every pretty girl I saw. Now, honestly, I don't know if it is because I might be gay, or because I find myself wanting to be a lot like them. Also, there is this girl at my school who just graduated. We were friends, and she was also gay. We played softball together for 2 years. I found myself wanting to be with her more and more everyday. I have had this 'crush' on her for as long as we have known each other. First, it started out with her looks, but I as I got to know her, it became stronger. I haven't had a real 'crush' on a guy since then. I don't really find any boys that attractive any more, but I find myself checking out girls more and more often. Also, when I watch movies, I check out the girls more than the guys. It's just like the guys are there, and the girls are there for me. It's hard to explain. I mean, I don't really want a boyfriend. As awkward as this sounds, I WANT A GIRLFRIEND! You know, how usually girls dream of doing sexual things with a hot guy they see in a movie or something? I do that with girls!! Someone please tell me your honest opinion.
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I must say, a lot of young teenage girls are going bi/gay. And I find that absolutley okay.
It seriously isn't what anyone thinks about it, it's what makes you feel, and if your comfortable for what you're doing.
Though, I have to be honest, MOST guys are jerks, and I can see why girls are finding other girls more attractive and a lot prettier.
But if you ever find the girl you would want to be with and feel more yourself with. Then go for it, but just let your family and close friends know what your choice is.
They should understand that you're old enough to make your own decisions of what makes you happy.
Hope I helped and good luck.
Paper_Heartsz
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Q: Hey, may 29, this kid Mark asked me out. I love him so much, and a week later he dumped me. I loved this kid alot.
July 15, this kid Felix asked me out. I said yes, he was cute. I forgot all about Mark. I seemed to love him. I just spoke to Mark, and he seemed to like me again. Gosh, now i like BOTH of them.
The problem is, Felix really likes me, and i feel so bad if i would dump him for Mark. Mark on the other hand dumps every girl after a week or two.
Felix said, he would commit succide if i broke up with him. I know he ment it. Last night he said he had a pocket knife to his throat, because he had no one to live for. But then he relized he loved me. So, he put it down.
HELP! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I CRY ALL THE TIME
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Woah! I think you should just tell both of them that you need space.
"Last night he said he had a pocket knife to his throat" Did you see him do this to himself? Or did he just call you up and told you that. Cause if he did that through phone, and was seriously, you should tell someone about that.
And as if for your ex, Mark, he sounds more like a player, and an immature player, I should add. Dumping every girl he goes out with for 2 weeks.
Hun, I think you should leave both of them. You don't want to put yourself into a position where someone will want to 'commit sucide' because you want to be with someone else/date other people.
Good Luck!
-Paper_Heartsz
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Q: my friend kayla .. thought it would be a GREAT joke to IM my boyfriend and act like some girl looking to hook up .. and the thing is that kayla has a tendency to make things up .. or to invision things differently when she doenst like the person .. and she really really didnt like how my boyfriend treated me.
well she called me after she 'IMed him' as mandy moody, and he apparently asked her for pictures, her age, grade, and said that he had a girlfriend but wasnt thinking it would last much longer, becuase 'i didnt put out'.
so when i heard this, i got very hurt and very upset. and i tend to make snap decisions and judgements in the heat of hte moment .. so i broke up with him .. now i realize talkin to him would have been a better idea.
the more and more i think about it, the more and more it seems as if kayla maybe did say that just to get me to dump cody .. her own sort of motivation in a way .. because for someone who had such a problem with me not puttin out, he never made any moves .. all the things we did do I INITIATED! .. so i guess my question is .. what should i do .. try and talk to him .. see if i can get him to take me back .. how would be the best way to go about doing that?
guys opinion .. would you take someone who did that back ..?
i mean i wasn't completely happy with how he treated me, but i cant do this anymore. i cry constantly. the only time i dont cry is when i sleep, and then i dream about him. so i wake up and cry more .. i liked this kid for over a year. 7 months of that was trying to get over him. now ive dated him and fell harder, and now i have to give him up. what kills me is i didnt lose him, i let him go ...
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First off, I don't think your friend, Kayla, should have even have been into your relationship business, you know?
Did she even ask you if it was okay to pull a prank on your boyfriend?
If not, then she isn't a good friend. You should talk to him and tell him it was all Kayla talking, and that it really hurt that she told you that 'you didn't put out'
You may never know, he might have never said that, maybe something your friend wanted to tell you to get you two to break up. That is what I'm thinking.
But first, you should talk to your friend, and tell her that it was wrong for what she did, and that your (ex)-boyfriend meant so much to you.
Then, talk to him and tell him that he meant everything to you, and start talking to him as friends. Maybe hang out at the mall, movies, park, your house, his house.
Hope I helped, and good luck!
-Paper_Heartsz
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Q: Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?
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I have had the same problem. Or at least something similar.
I had a crush on this boy for the longest time. I told him I liked him on the last day. Then the next day I told him how i felt about him through the phone. I thought he wouldn't like me back, but things came out great.
You shouldn't be scared to ask her out. Yes, you can get nervous at first. but that's natural. I was nervous to tell him I liked him. But you'll never know. Make this time a memorable.
Girls find it pretty attractive/sweet when guys tell them how they feel about them. How much they like/love them and care for them.
But it never hurts to give it a shot. Trust me, in the end, you won't regret it.
Good luck! :)
-Paper_Heartsz
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Q: I am in 7th grade and i have very small boobs. I mean, and advice on how to make them look bigger or grow faster? Please don't tell me just to be comfortable with myself because, let's face it, i'm not. Boys seem to only like girls with boobs. HELP!
signed,
boobless.
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There isn't much you can't do.
Unless you want to "stuff" your bras. Which people call really slutty, and fake.
But the best thing you can do is wait.
It isn't the best thing to do. But most guys find it more attracting if your boobs are 'real' then having you "stuff" every morning for the rest of your life making them look realistic.
Just wait, don't worry hunny, they'll get there :]
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Q: I am in a serious relationship with a guy. We are only in 8th grade, but i know that he is "the one." I really can't explain it. We love each other and have kissed a lot and made out. Do you think i am ready to let him take off my shirt. He tried once but i didn't think i was ready, but now i think i do. I really want to. Should i go for it? We wont have sex or anything, we will probably be naked around each other.
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You shouldn't do this "just to get it over with"
if you feel like this guy is the right one for you to be 'taking off your shirt' then go for it.
if this guy treats you right, and just wants to go looking down your shirt just because you two kissed/made out, you really shouldn't do it.
Do it, if you REALLY want him too. Don't do it because he is telling you too.
But if you feel it 'is time.' Go for it, sweetie.
Hope I helped =]
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Q: So, as questions like these always begin...
There's this guy, who I very much like, and have liked for quite a while now. Quite a while being around a year or so. Well, at the time I was dating my ex boyfriend of two years, so of course I didn't break up with him like I should have. I'm so smart...
Well, this guy has been sending me mixed signals. I really, honestly think he might like me, but I'm not sure. I've had a major, major crush on him for the longest time, and I've always hoped he'd work up to asking me out. He'd been talking to me for the longest time, then he suddenly stopped. I wondered what was wrong, but then the bomb dropped.
Anyway, today I found out that he's moving.
Yeah, it really struck me. He's not moving too far away, only about an hour away, but still. Argh! So now, I teeter on the fence between telling him how I feel and not. Should I? I'm so confused.
A girl in my class is having a pool party on Saturday, but should I tell him tomorrow or should I tell him Saturday? Should I even tell him at all?
Any thoughtful answers would be appreciated.
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I have a little story to tell, if you don't mind:
Yesterday (the 25th) was my last day of school. I have had a crush on this kid, since the beginning of April. No one ever knew. But at the last day of school, I told him I like him.
Trust me, you would want to tell him before he moves, even on the last minute.
You would feel so proud of yourself afterwards.
=)
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Q: Does anyone know why every time a guy and a girl are friends, one always ends up falling for the other ..but they dont like them back?! That happened to me twice and i just want to go out with my best friend soo bad and he dosent like me like that..Soo yeah why does this always happen?
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There isn't really an answer to this question.
It's what other people act to one another.
It doesn't happen all the time. But sometimes people just fall for their friendship. But it depends on how the person treats them for what makes them like them.
But there isn't a right or wrong answer to this.
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Q: This weekend I'm going on a date with my best friend (haha, I know) and he's taking me to center city, philadelphia and we're seeing a show, eating at a nice (expensive)place, and going shopping around town. I need some tips on what to wear, how to present myself, but MAINLY the proper etiquette for eating a nice place, and the show... I don't need dating tips, I just need to learn how to act like a PROPER YOUNG LADY, because I was never taught manners, and my friend is totally brought up well and he's very very proper. Thank you!
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This subject said "Websites needed"
But I'm not sure if these are the BEST sites.
But I actually think they're pretty good.
Espically for someone who has never been taught manners before.
http://www.krakow-info.com/tips7.htm
http://www.lhj.com/home/Manners.html
http://www.pioneerthinking.com/ara-etiquette.html
http://www.tabletalk.org/tipsonmanners.htm
http://jobsearch.about.com/cs/interviews/a/interviewdining.htm
That's all I basically found that are really good, and easy to learn.
Hope I helped.
Good Luck!
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Q: ((14/f)) and the boy ((17/m))
k, so i met this kid at the beginning of the school year. and basically we've been in love ever since.
but we aint going out because of my mom
she hates him, and shes never even met him.. and she thinks that he just wants sex, cuz she assumes thats what every guy older then me wants. but ivee already told him that im not having sex, because i think im too young, and he understands completely. and i know he doesnt want sex, because its been 9 months and hes still here.
and we both really want to go out,
btu the problem:
my mom
and our school.
our school talks way too much crap
any suggestions on what i should do?
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Get your mom to meet this guy.
Tell him he is the one that can treat you right. Unlike some other guys.
Tell her that 'sex' isn't the ONLY thing that goes in his mine 24/7. Basically tell her that he cares for you, his grades, and school.
Not telling you to lie or anything. But if he does think those three are important to him. Make sure to tell your mom.
Once she gets to know him a bit better. Having 'private' talks with him. Then soon everything would be fine.
Invite him over for dinner. Or just to hang out at your place. Your mom would end up letting you date him, after all, if she finally meets the guy you think is right for you, she would understand.
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Q: me and my boyfriend broke up this morning online because he "just wanted to be friends." i want to say something to him really sweet that will make him love me again. i know i can't make him love me but i just want to let out my feelings and to let him know i still love him. if anyone could kinda write a few sentences that i can send to him to let him know i still love him, that would be great. no poems or songs though please. im 13/f. thanks. automatic ones if you say that i can't make him love me because i KNOW i cant.
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There isn't anything we can say, nor I.
This isn't our (Ex)-boyfriend that we are talking about here.
We don't know how you feel about this whole break up, and for what you went through. but as what we read.
You should just type down everything that YOU felt about him wanting to be "just friends"
it's your feelings and ex-boyfriend. you should let him know that you still love him in your own words, instead of taking someone else's stuff, and saying that you made it all up.
i know i sound rude, but that would be the best thing to do.
just listen to your heart.
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Q: These days i feel left out.. my friends all either like someone or have a boyfriend or girlfriend and i dont have one and dont anyone either.. i have no idea what to do to keep my mind off of things like that. i was thinking of like having some friends over for like a girls only party to take our mind off of guys and even though we will probably talk about them i just dont know what to do. What should i do? If i were to have some people over what are some party ideas or things to do?
thanks
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I know how it feels. Almost all of my friends have had boyfriends or liked guys that they probably could get.
But I try not to think about getting a boyfriend. Even though I want someone to care about me, and someone I could have deep, strong feelings about.
I just think about my education, my family, and friends.
Because sometimes when you have a boyfriend in the picture, it kind of makes your life a little busy, and more confusing.
But for what's good for you. Focus on that eduacation, tests, grades, and most importantly your friends and family =]
Hope I helped.
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Q: Ok, so there is this guy that I really like and he knows that I like him and about 5 or 6 months ago I asked him out and he said that he would think about it and he never gave me an answer. Recently he told his friends that i was ugly and he would never go out with me. So now I want to get over him. How can I do that?
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Guys are such jerks these days.
But you know summer is coming up. So you might get over him pretty easily now.
But to get to see other guys without this guy you liked for a while out of your mind. You should hang out with some friends.
-Mall
-Beach
-Park
-Theme Park
-Skate Park
you know. get a chance to go out there and find some other guy that won't be such a jerk like the guy you mentioned.
Hope I helped. =]
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Q: ugh. My boyfriend hasn't been talking to me lately. He called me this morning,but he never even says he loves me anymore and he always seems to be going somewhere or doing something. Do you think there is another girl in his life ? What should I do ?
14/f
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He probably is too busy for a relationship at the moment.
But if you start to think that there is another girl in his life, you should tell him how you feel, and that it's bugging you knowing that he doesn't want to talk to you as often as you two talked before.
You two are probably growing apart. The best thing to do is just try to talk more on the phone, e-mails, letters, school, face-to-face.
Hope I helped. =]
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Q: For some reason everytime my ex boyfriend is around I make sure I'm all over my current boyfriend. Why is this??
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Simple. You just want to get him jealous, that you can get other guys then just him. And that you are happy that you now have someone to care and love you.
And for this reason for you and your ex's break-up, you want to show that you found someone that treats you better.
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Q: Not one boy has ever liked me or even said I'm pretty. I think I'm average but I just feel like I have no appeal to boys. What can I do to make myself prettier? Like what are the "in" styles for hair and clothes, and what's some good make-up to wear?
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You should accept yourself the way you are.
There is some guy out there waiting for you.
Maybe wear a bit of make-up (not to much.)
Do something different to your style.
Chat with some guys in hallways, or guys that sit around you.
Get to know eachother. I mean, it's not the looks that should count the most. I should be the personality.
Hope I helped =]
& Good Luck!
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Q: There's a girl that I like. We go to different schools but live about 10 minutes away from each other. She has a boyfriend but we went out once and I found out that she likes me. She even told me. The time we went out was 2 weeks ago (last weekend she was busy and this weekend I am), and I don't know if I'm wasting my time because I think she won't break up with her boyfriend. They've been going out for 9 months, and she told me that he makes her cry almost every night but she just won't break up with him. What do I do..?
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There's nothing really you could do, but be a friend and talk to her.
Tell her that he isn't worth her tears. And any guy who is, wouldn't make her cry. (Got that froma quote, if it sounded familiar to you.)
You can't really tell her that 'she deserves better.' that just basically tells her that your just want them to break up.
But the best thing you can do is be a friend. And make her smile/laugh.
Hope I helped =]
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bio
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Basics.
They call me alex
I live with one older brother and two little sisters.
I'm taken and in the 9th grade.
I am my own person. I don't try to copy other or try to fit in the crowd.
I like being weird. People tell me that sometimes, but it's okay.
I could care less who thinks of me as what.
I act like a kid sometimes. But sometimes I have those times where I want to be a treated as a young adult.
Music.
Music is life. Without it, my world would be blue.
I can't really stick to one type of music. Like some people I know.
I listen to basically anything that has meaning, or something I can dance too. Or just love the song.
I love listening to music from rock, heavy metal, death metal, rap, r&b, techno.
School.
I'm in high school.
I have the most awesome friends in the world. Yes, I know your jealous.
I don't believe in popularity or labels.
Popularity. No one is popular. Everyone is the same. Alright? OK!
Labels. Kids, get a life. Don't label, if you don't like it, they don't either.
I hate it when people just basically backstab you, I have a lot of those suckers walking around my school.
I most DEF. hate it when people change just to fit in a crowd, for another guy, or just to get attention.
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PLEASE rate me and give me some feedback; that way I can improve my advice :)
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Florida Occupation: making you laugh :) Age: 14 Member Since: December 27, 2005 Answers: 95 Last Update: August 7, 2007 Visitors: 9201
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