prom is on saturday. i am going with my boyfriend. the plan after prom was to go back to my friends house and everyone in our group would sleep over. last night i told my boyfriend the plans and he was like ok thats fine. then a couple seconds later he was like "actually, im going to jake's house after prom we can get alcohol and ride around and stuff". i didn't really feel like arguing so i just said alright. i told my best friend about it today and she was mad and texted him saying "good job youre ditching your girlfriend to get drunk". normally i could care less if he wants to go out with his friends and get drunk or whatever. but its prom night, the only night we have an excuse to sleep in the same house together haha. would it be wrong to tell him not to go to jakes? or should i just let him?
haha i would so be mad about this. the whole time i was reading it i was thinking the same thing when you said "the only night we have an excuse to sleep in the same house together haha."
to be honest, i'd say something to him about it. and i would include the fact that its the only time you can sleep in the same house together. he should be excited about that. just let him know you arnt trying to be controlling, and that it would just be fun because its prom night.
if he still doesn't wanna spend the night with you, i'd let him stay with jake. but i would make sure he knew i was pissed at him.
good luck :D
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so all through elemtry school into middle school i had this crush on a kid, lets call him mike. and i could never ever tell him i liked him, because my best friend, lets call this one jay, adored him. and was upsessed with him. so i never told anyone i liked him. 7th grade he got sent to rehab, and i kinda forgot about him. now, 3 years later, he is back. and i hung out with him, and my new best friend, lets call her shelly. well i started liking him. and then he tells me that he thinks shelly is hot. and then he also told our friend ron and ron told shelly. and shelly started liking him. though she knows i like him. and yesterday they ran away from me and our other friends and dissappeared for 3 hours... and today i walked in on them hooking up. they have known each other for 3 days... and she knows i like him. like is it bad that im mad? like should i be this upset? cause im like furious and disstroyed. im so lost. help?
yes you should be mad!
she shouldn't hook up with someone you have a crush on. its like girl code, well friend code, you just don't do it.
and i could possibly understand if she did it after knowing him for a long time and liking him longer than you,
but she hasn't. she has only known him for three days.
i'm sorry. let her know how you feel, don't hold anything back.
good luck :D
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im 15 yr old guy and think im gay i really like this guy a lot he likes me too we hang around each other a lot does it mean im gay?
if you like him,
as in you daydream about kissing him, hand holding, hugging.. things in that area. you are gay.
and if he likes you too, in that way, hes probably gay too.
so yes, if you have romantic feelings for him, you are.
good luck :D
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okays well im 14 and a female. theres this guy i really like, and im pretty sure he likes me. we talk all the time. and flirt. his friends are telling him to ask me out and my friends are tellin me to ask him out. im thinkin aobut askin him out, but what if he says no. our friendship would be weired. but i think we should give it a chance by going out. i think we would make a good couple. do you think i should take the chance and ask him out??? or wait for him too???
thanks :]
if your in a moment, and you feel like its the perfect time to ask him out, i say go for it.
he might be too scared to do it and sometimes to get things in life you have to go for it.
but if its an awkward moment, and you just bring it out of the blue, it might freak him out and you don't want that. just wait til the timing is right.
good luck :D
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heyy. im 14 and a female. well i have had some boyfriends all my life. and i have had a kiss before. but that was a long time ago. and i would like to know if you could give me any advice on kissing or about makeing out??? just some tips or something so i know alittle more. thanks :]
a simple kiss is easy. a pop kiss rather. you just press your lips against theirs and let go.
a long simple kiss is better though, you hold your lips to theirs longer.
and with making out you do a bunch of long simple kisses and open your mouth slightly,
you can wait for him to put his tongue in your mouth, or put yours in his.
just dont shove it so hard or deep in his mouth where he cant breathe.
do what feels natural. kissing is fun.
if you don't know what to do with your hands, i would suggest grabbing his face or holding his waist. just don't leave your arms hanging limp.
and if its your first time kissing, i would suggest you don't leave your eyes open, it might freak him out, or the view you get might freak you out. lol so beware of that, only do it when you've done it a couple times and you're comfortable with the person.
and if you're kissing the person for awhile like full makeout, try new things like sucking on his bottom lips or sucking on his tongue.
just do what feels right, not things that are awkward to you that you think you should do.
good luck :D
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im 15.f. i have this friend thatt is not close friend but we do trust each other alot...but were not like realli long time known friend we met this year..and became reali good friends.. she has a b.f and and his name is (D) so then this guy named (D) was talkign to me andhe goe simgoing to break up with my g.f tomorrow..and when i found out that (D) is the same guy my friend is dating i was in shock ..i called right away after talking to him and told her everything she stared crying and said shell call me back and i was liek ok...
but now they broke up ad me and him are talking and he keeps asking me to goona date and like what ever and it old him shes my realli good friend and that i cant do tat to her and he goes wil wait an dimlike will wait a long time...and he oes like not long long but enough time..and now i dont no what to do....and please dont say tell her abot it and ask heror something like that because that not the possibilitu i have right now..yea i do liek him and ye ai like my friend to but it wwasnt beacuse of me they broke up ....
so please i dont no what to do......help!!!
i will rate u thanx =)
in my opinion, he seems like a player.
do you really want to date a guy that tells other girls that he is going to dump his girlfriend before even doing it and then immediately starts trying to get with someone else? i doubt it.
plus if you like this girl, i don't think its right to date her ex.
especially not RIGHT after. she'll probably end up thinking you lied about all of it and that you were talking to him this whole time behind her back. i think things will just get ugly if you date him.
but it is your choice, so go with whatever you think is best.
good luck :D
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ok so i went to a dance and i was dancing with guy who i didnt know but he went to my school. and we danced and like he felt me up and fingered me and ws like olding me and holding my hands and just like SOOO amazing
ADD HIM! (:
good luck :D
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My bf never shuts up about his penis. His jokes center around that. He constantly tells everyone it's big. I'm sick of hearing it. I don't know why he does that so much. Is he insecure or just dirty minded 24/7? Are most guys this way?
most guys are perverts. they think about sex all the time. if it truly is big, he probably isn't insecure and is probably just cocky. but size doesn't ALWAYS matter. if you can work whatcha got, then thats something to brag about lol but he could just be dirty minded too. or both. tell him to shut up about it. and let him know how bad it bothers you. it should stop.
good luck :D
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SO theres this great guy who i really like (14/f). Hes amazing and I've liked him forever but my friend has this thing for him and he kinda had a thing for her and they went out for a while. He made out with her and she was his first. Well i really like him and i think i might have a chance. Now heres the difficult part. Theres this great guy who i think of as an amazing friend that i never want to lose as a friend. He comforts me when im scared (hes a big guy and beats up any kid that is mean to me) and i love him. LIKE A BROTHER. nothing more. So he likes me, and i found this out from people. Now i cant even talk to him! I'm too afraid and i don't want him to like me but i don't want to hurt him! So should i tell him i know? or just let him get over me? OR WHAT?! ah i want to try to move on with guy one but guy two is too important and i don't want guy 1 to get over me. what should i do? thanks for reading
since he didn't actually tell you himself that he likes you,
i wouldn't worry about it.
maybe it isn't true, or maybe he just wants to save the friendship to.
and its not your fault you only see him as a brother,
so i would go after the one you actually like.
guy 2 shouldn't get mad because for all he knows, you have no idea that he likes you.
if he ends up saying something to you about it,
explain that you only see him as a friend and that you love him like a brother.
if he truly cares for you, which i'm sure he does,
he'll be okay with it and will eventually get over you.
good luck :D
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so me and my boyfriend just broke up around 2 weeks ago. and he asked me back out a couple of times, but i finally said that we should wait for a couple of months so we won't have as many problems as we did before. so then, we waited.. for about like.. 3 days so far, and then we put taken on all of our pages and stuff like that to know that we're single but not interested. and i have a best friend, who's a guy, named matt. and my boyfriend doesn't like it when i hang out with matt and stuff like that, but he didn't say that i couldn't. because i'm single, you know? and last night, matt has a little sister named tiffany who's also my best friend. and i knew both of them my whole life practically. and then we updated my xanga since i haven't updated for a year. and matt typed stuff on it.. and supposedly he teased me and stuff like that. and my boyfriend read it and texted me saying "i don't like it when you hang out with matt when you're at tiffany's house." and then he goes "I don't think i would want to continue on with you anymore.. sorry." and then he said that teasing was flirting, which i'm not sure if it is or not. and then later on he goes, "this is the last straw, i'm deleting you from my life." and he deleted me off of his page and stuff, and then his away message said "practicing with my band. i'm so pumped you wouldn't even know x]" and he texted me saying "your nothing to me now you can go ahead and do whatever the fuck you want. i promise that i'm for reals." and that hurt, because i would want him in my life.. i don't want to be nothing towards him. and i know that time helps me get over him, but i don't want to be depressed about it in the meantime. and hanging out with my friends works at times too, but not all the time.. i hide my sadness.
so please help me? i'm very tired of getting hurt, and i still really like him.
wow. he got insanely jealous. if you miss him, explain the situation and let him know you still care about him even though he "erased you." another option would to just give him his time and space and not doing anything, but it sounds like you really care about him, and if you do, i wouldn't take that route. try talking to him and letting him know how things actually went. even if you don't wanna date him and you just wanna be his friend, you should still let him know how you feel. who knows, he might stop being an asshole and apologize. hopefully he will. if he doesn't, atleast you tried. and one day he'll probably regret it.
good luck :D
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So Ill try to make this as short as I can, but I've liked this guy name Jamie for a while. Like a year and a halff. He liked me back for a while also and we kind of hooked up and were supposed to go on a date. but ever since then it never went any further because he said he thought my "pussy smelt" but just because hes never done things like that with other girls before and he thought it was "weird" so he randomly started ignoring me even though he was always reallyyy nice. Well after a longg time and fights and ignoring etc. we started talking like normal againn, and he even started calling me alot and stuff. But then, randomly on the phone he's like " Oh, well I gtg, well not really but, I want to" so I said okayy? fine byee. After that we were talking a lott on msnn, and he was flirting with me and stuff and being really nice. And I told him I liked him and he said :O I thought you liked sam? (This other guy I liked). So I told him yeah but he keeps calling me and stuff and I liek guys that are hard to get (half as a joke half not)much after that and he stopped talking as much on msn. And when I saw him on the city bus he just smiled? when I said hi.When I asked him about it he said oh sorry I didnt mean to ignore you, I smiled? With my sleeve over my mouth. I dont know if he was joking or what? Do you have any advice on thiss? Or anything you think about it all would help, thanks :).
he kinda sounds like a jerk. no offense, but if i were you, i wouldn't like him as much as you do. he could be a good friend possibly, but i wouldnt go any further than that. hopefully, you'll think the same way i do and find someone else, because it just doesn't seem like it'll work out with him.
but if you really think it will, plain out ask him. cutting to the chase is always the best thing to do.
good luck :D
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for a week now ive been feeling distant from my boyfriend. some days ago on zwinky he met this girl named rose and rose fell for him pretty hard. and ever since then we havent been talking like we usually have. hes like distracted and its even worse now since rose's friend is after him too. and when i try to talk to him about it he laughs it off like its not important. what should i do?
he probably just likes the attention. but besides that, be upfront with him. let him know you notice the distance and that you think its important. make sure he knows you're serious and that it isn't a laughing matter. if he doesn't stop, let him know its not okay. don't let him walk all over you just because some girls that he met off zwinky like him, that doesnt mean he can just forget all about you. you're his girlfriend, you should come first. and if you don't, he doesn't deserve to be your boyfriend.
good luck :D
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Well theres me and this guy and were kinda like best friends but with benefits i think. Hes a year older than me and im not quite sure if i have feelings for him, i think i might though. We have had conversations before like how he said nothing more than friends would work out right now and i asked if it ever would and he said yeah maybe. We talk every night on the phone and hang out every weekend, we have only made out though.
Im not shure quite what we are and if we will ever be more than friends & idk if i feel comfortable asking him, what should i do ?
before doing anything, discover how your feelings are. if you like him as more than a friend, then you should find out what you are. if you don't, then i would just stop making out with him, unless you're both okay with there being no meaning behind it. if you do like him, and you are scared about asking him straight up, then hint around to another guy liking you, see if hes okay with it. ask him if hes alright with it. or you could just take the easiest approach and ask him. thats what i would do. that way you can say you tried. ask him how he feels about you, and if the makeout sessions were just lacking emotion and if you are just friends that mess around. with whatever answer he gives you, let him know how you feel about it. if you're comfortable with just making out and no feelings being there, then keep doing it. if he tells you that they mean nothing, and you don't feel the same way, let him know how you feel. don't hold things back, it'll just make things worse.
good luck :D
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okay so i saw alot of pictures of people kissing in which the girl kisses the top lip of the guy's, is that what your suppose to do? im never really romantically kissed a guy before so im really unsure. please help, thanks.
lol it can be done, but its not what you have to do. you can kiss either lips, or both.. you just do whatever feels like in the moment.
good luck :D
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13/f
Ok I have a crush on this boy. He talks to me sometimes. We only have one class together though. He asks to borrow stuff and so on but I mean he jokes around with me and he has a nickname for me like a little thing he made up today. He says I'm his "buddy" haha I love it. He talks to a few other girls but I just want something to happen like every other girl. Any help would be appreciated. He used to come leave his friends and come up and talk to me while we are walking to class but now me and my friends walk another way and they don't know I like him. I really don't feel like I want to tell them right now anyways. Please help thanks.
it sounds like he likes you. you should just tell him how you feel, you don't have to be point blank about it, you can just say "i really like being around you." or flirt with him whenever you get a chance and tell him things like "your eyes look so pretty today" or "that shirt makes you look so hot" haha just have fun with it and make sure he knows you like him.
good luck :D
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Last summer i dated this boy. his name was franklin. i know sounds funny but. i really liked him. i met him at my bestfriends house. we went down to this pond by her house and we seen them and just started talking. then after we got to know eachother he asked me out. i obviously said yes. because he was sooo cute and sweet. then when i left my bestfriends house. for about a month me and franklin were talking alot. then out of no where my bestfriend left a message on my cell phone telling me he said it was over. i had no idea why. then i went on his myspace and seen this girl first on his top and her name was."i love franklin" so i added her being all nosey. we were good friends. until she told him i was talking to her. he called me up telling me to stop blah blah blah. and now he hates my guts. i still really really like him. and i see him everyother weekend when i goto my bestfriends house and he smiles at me and talks to me and stuff. but online hes a total asshole to me. and he tells my friends were friends. but idk what to do. i really want him to like me again. even though i really like him way more then a friend. what should i do?
i would not talk to that girl anymore, and i would stay out of that part of his life. but whenever you go to your bestfriend's house, talk to him and ask him if you are friends or not because he is sending you mixed signals. make sure he knows you arn't just joking around and that you want a serious answer. or if you're scared of asking in person, do it on myspace. but i seriously think you should talk to him about it. and if the conversation is going well, you might even want to tell him you have more feelings for him than just friend wise, but that is all up to how you feel on the situation at hand. if the conversation doesn't go well and he is a complete ass about the situation, i would just forget about him. and don't feel stupid for asking if you're friends because it isn't stupid, he's the one being stupid by sending you weird signals. just do what you feel is right.
good luck :D
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Ohkay 14/F
I can't decide if this guy likes me or if hes a player. He always text me and uses like a ton of smilie faces. He talks to my friends about me and tells them how im hot and how he wants to make out in a hot tub with me. He tells me he loves me but then we will have like an awkward silence and he wont text back for a while. Or hed rather talk about me to my friends then text me. Im lost with signals.
in a way it sounds like he is a player. the whole "make out in a hot tub with me" thing and how he'd rather talk about you to your friends than text you. or maybe he just doesn't know how you actually feel about him and he doesn't want to get rejected and maybe he's just faking a player act to hide himself from getting hurt. your best bet is to call him on it, ask him if he really cares about you or if he just wants someone to hook up with. that's the only way you will completely know the truth.
good luck :D
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I am in a bad situation and I need strictly guys help on this one.Okay,so my bff has admitted he is in love with me,like I am in love with him(I am a girl by the way).Well,he told me he doesn't want to risk ruining our friendship by us dating.He told me he doesn't want to hurt me that way.
Well,that isn't really my problem.My major problem is,I found out his cousin has a major crush on me.Well,I like his cousin,too.Mabey not as deeply as I LOVE my bff,but this is a good crush,and his cousin is sincere and sweet,and my age.My bff is two years younger than me(turning 15 in June) and his cousin is only four months older than me.
I want to date his cousin,but I am scared that if I do,considering they are room-mates now,that I'll upset my bff and ruin all chances with him.What should I do?Should I try dating his cousin?Or should I just hold back my feelings and wait the possible years until my bff is ready?
[xxxSimply,Becca]
this is basically how my situation went,
my bestfriend was in love with me but i just thought he has a small crush. and for the longest time i thought i was in love with him. but anyways, his brother and i had a class together because we were the same age and we started dating, and its been five months since then, and we are still together, and i really love him but sometimes i regret how i ruined my friendship with his brother. we still talk and all, but it just isn't the same as how it use to be because of all the complications. and my boyfriend still gets jealous every now and then that i can tell his brother certain things that i just can't tell him.
now back to you. your situation could end up nothing like mine, i'm just saying, they are similar. if you truly love your bff, then i wouldn't date his cousin. but if you think your love is not strong for your bff, and that your crush on his cousin is a lot stronger, then date him. if he is really your bff you will stay friends, but idk if anything greater than that will ever happen.
just make sure you know how your feelings are before you jump into a relationship with either.
but if you are IN LOVE with your bff, then tell him. but if you arn't... theres no reason why you can't date his cousin.
good luck :D
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ok so me and this guy have known eachother for almost four years.
we go to different schools so the distance thing is a huge problem, but we text every day.
he has been getting real upset with me bc i hook up with a lot of guys and he said he cant be friends with a slut.
tonight he told me he wanted to end pur friendship and stop talking compelely.
i cant stop thinkign about him, and its really hard not to text him but i know i have to let him be the first one to text.
i love being around him, i think i may actually like him more than friends.
he has already told me he wants more but i always tell him friends is what i want.
im scared to committ, so i think that may be the reason that i dont want to tell him i actually may have feelings for him more than friends.
im so confused on what to do, because i really really want him in my life.
so how can i get him to want to be friends again?!!
tell him how you feel, explain everything. tell him that you feel bad for making him think you are a slut, and that you don't want him to see you in that way anymore. stop hooking up with alot of guys, if you truly want to save your friendship. make sure he knows how much you value him and that he means way more to you than any stupid and pointless hookup with a random guy. just tell him how you feel, and don't feel stupid or regretful or say sorry for telling him your feelings because there is no reason to feel that way. you should feel proud that you went after something you wanted (: and as for liking him as more than a friend, make sure of what way you really want him, make sure you are 100% sure. and if you like him, tell him. if you don't then don't.
good luck :D
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so i went out with this guy, let's call him D. so i went out with him a while ago. i did some really bad stuff to him. [[i got some guys to call him and be like "ur girlfriend's a good kisser. etc]] so like. we still hang alot. but he's my ex. so like now. im going out with this guy, lets call him. JG. so. i broke up with him yesterday. becuase he was being a dickhead. so now im going out with another guy. lett's call him, J, i still like D. but like, he likes me as a friend. i wanna telll him i like him. but im not sure of what he's gonna do. how he's gonna react. i don't wanna mess up our friendship. i really don't. what do i do
like. what do i do about my ex. [[D]]
i really do like him. alot.
well since D is the one you really care about, first start showing that by not worrying about the other guys. break up with your boyfriend if you really don't care about him. this will show D that when you tell him how you feel that you mean it. if you really want him back, nothing is standing in your way of telling him. so tell him! make sure he knows you mean it and that you are not just kidding around. also let him know that its okay if he doesn't feel the same and that you can still be friends, because the only thing that really matters is that you still hang on to him, even if it is just being friends.
good luck :D
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