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major guy problem
ok so me and this guy have known eachother for almost four years.
we go to different schools so the distance thing is a huge problem, but we text every day.
he has been getting real upset with me bc i hook up with a lot of guys and he said he cant be friends with a slut.
tonight he told me he wanted to end pur friendship and stop talking compelely.
i cant stop thinkign about him, and its really hard not to text him but i know i have to let him be the first one to text.
i love being around him, i think i may actually like him more than friends.
he has already told me he wants more but i always tell him friends is what i want.
im scared to committ, so i think that may be the reason that i dont want to tell him i actually may have feelings for him more than friends.
im so confused on what to do, because i really really want him in my life.
so how can i get him to want to be friends again?!!
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tell him how you feel, explain everything. tell him that you feel bad for making him think you are a slut, and that you don't want him to see you in that way anymore. stop hooking up with alot of guys, if you truly want to save your friendship. make sure he knows how much you value him and that he means way more to you than any stupid and pointless hookup with a random guy. just tell him how you feel, and don't feel stupid or regretful or say sorry for telling him your feelings because there is no reason to feel that way. you should feel proud that you went after something you wanted (: and as for liking him as more than a friend, make sure of what way you really want him, make sure you are 100% sure. and if you like him, tell him. if you don't then don't.
good luck :D
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Well I would stop hooking up with a bunch of guys, cause it shows you can't make choices and your not picky on who you pick to get close to witch cheapens your relationship with him. If you want to be friends again, try to understand what he is going threw he obviously likes you and to watch you throw yourself at other guys must be worse then slow torture, and then you act like you don't care. So maybe you should take a break from all guys and focus on getting your friendship back with this guy, cause he does care about you even if he does deny it.
Also this is a dirty trick...but if you want to get him to talk to you then you could act slightly suicidel, he will hear your call for help and should call. Be like "I am extremely depressed.." or something like that, and that is just to get him to talk to you, cause then he will feel as if he saved you and feel all that more close. Like I said its a dirty trick but I am just putting it out their.
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