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boyfriend issues
for a week now ive been feeling distant from my boyfriend. some days ago on zwinky he met this girl named rose and rose fell for him pretty hard. and ever since then we havent been talking like we usually have. hes like distracted and its even worse now since rose's friend is after him too. and when i try to talk to him about it he laughs it off like its not important. what should i do?
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he probably just likes the attention. but besides that, be upfront with him. let him know you notice the distance and that you think its important. make sure he knows you're serious and that it isn't a laughing matter. if he doesn't stop, let him know its not okay. don't let him walk all over you just because some girls that he met off zwinky like him, that doesnt mean he can just forget all about you. you're his girlfriend, you should come first. and if you don't, he doesn't deserve to be your boyfriend.
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Sounds like the vanity monster has taken a bite out of him. I may be wrong..but he is likely reveling in all this new attention that he is getting from other girls. Add your attention to it to boot!, and he's on cloud nine when it comes to his current ego level.
Maybe it's time to stand back a bit..and allow him to see that "the grass isn't always greener on the other side". If you really care about him, then don't hold on too tight, he may just cut and run.
Hold your head up high, but let him know how you feel- for instance, that if you have a commitment (ie. he's YOUR boyfriend) you won't tolerate cheating: when I say cheating, that truly includes the fact that he should have more intimacy-and I AM NOT referring to sex, see my page for the definition of intimacy-..he should have more intimacy with you than with the other girls. Hopefully, once the "shine" wears off he'll realize that he's messed up by letting you down.
It's a corny saying..but, oh so true: "If you love something, set it free, if it comes back to you: it's yours. If it doesn't: it never was."
And don't forget.."what's good for the goose, is good for the gander."
Don't play games, but don't sit on your hands either. "Live, love, laugh, and be Happy"!
Hugs,
Jasmine
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Well THEY are falling for him, until you know for sure don't assume something is going on. You need to talk to him before you go ahead and assume. You two may be growing apart though. Not just because of those 2 girls. In order to anything across to him, you need to communicate with him and ask why have you guys been so distant and what not. Work things out and hope everything works out for the best for you.
- Lacey -
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