(14, female) i always have a really hard time explaining this...so anyways, in between my boobs there like this little dent type thing. it dips in a little instead of just going straight down. i cant wear the "triangle top" bikinis. its called a concave chest. i know boys that have it but usually no girls have it. Whenever i have a boyfriend im so nervous about them letting them touch my boobs, or taking my shirt off for them cuz im like what would they think!? what would boys think? i mean, what should i do?
All boobs, my dear, are different. Every single girl has a problem with them. Some have one two seizes smaller than the other. Others droop and others are perky - some are far too small/big, or you get spots on them. In fact, they're just a bother if you ask me - the thing is, these are typical girls, every girl, like you or me. And boys just love boobs - they see a breast and they're in seventh heaven already. No one picks ourselves apart like ourselves. Boys are happy with any type of breast and they don't look for detail. Besides, even if a boy were to notice they wouldn't be deterred. When you notice imperfections on people you don't mind, do you? Your friend has a huge spot, you're not going to stop liking her because of it. And besides, a huge spot would be far less attractive than a concave chest ... after all, you wouldn't want to touch it, ne?
I worried about the same thing as you but my boyfriend doesn't seem to care a jot (although I don't have a concave chest theres alot wrong with the girls and also I have mild scoliosis meaning I'm straight on one side and curved on the other). He loves me for who I am and all my attributes are just an added bonus. Even if someone were to say something, it would only be joking.
Trust me, you're fine the way you are. Boys are probably far more worried with thinking they're too small down there or too hairy or whatnot after seeing your breasts, than you are about your dent :)
TheAnnie answered Saturday April 5 2008, 2:55 pm: you are too young to think about these things. forget about them. it might fix itself in the future but ignore it for now. [ TheAnnie's advice column | Ask TheAnnie A Question ]
LM answered Saturday April 5 2008, 2:37 am: Honestly, they'll be so excited over the fact that you just took your shirt off to notice that your chest has a dent. They won't be noticing tiny details like that very much, anyways... [ LM's advice column | Ask LM A Question ]
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