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Boyfriend is annoying
My bf never shuts up about his penis. His jokes center around that. He constantly tells everyone it's big. I'm sick of hearing it. I don't know why he does that so much. Is he insecure or just dirty minded 24/7? Are most guys this way?
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This guy's being an idiot. I've never known anyone that bragged about schlong size, and I've know some pretty effed up people.
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most guys are perverts. they think about sex all the time. if it truly is big, he probably isn't insecure and is probably just cocky. but size doesn't ALWAYS matter. if you can work whatcha got, then thats something to brag about lol but he could just be dirty minded too. or both. tell him to shut up about it. and let him know how bad it bothers you. it should stop.
good luck :D
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Sadly, most guys are like that. My ex-boyfriend was like that. All big and bad around his friends, but a totally different person when it was just me and him. Is your b/f like that? Me and my ex still occasionally talk to eachother, but he's still rude and obnoxious around his guy friends...and he still is acting totally different when it is just me and him.
Let him know how you feel and tell him how much it bothers you that he does that. If he's a man and respects you enough to quit the dumb shit, stay by his side and be proud that he 'took it like a man'...And if he lashes out at you, well, you know how it should be. He's not gonna change.
Sorry that I'm so blunt, but i've been there, done that. And if he is not willing to listen to you and stop being immature, then he isn't worth your time. Trust me.
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just tell him it bothers you. next time he makes a joke be like "you know most girls dont find jokes centered around that funny." and if he has a problem with it start talking about your period and tampons and see how he likes it haha
and as far as the most guys thing, you can't really lump guys in the same catagory any more than you can lump girls in the same catagory, and idk how old you and your bf are, but most guys in like hs or teenage years tend to act horny or pretend to be...for no other reason than they think it makes them seem cool and so thats why he might stop if you tell him you think it's not cool...but the first time you say it bothers you make sure its not in front of his friends
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i think this is his way of telling you he want to do a little something something or he could be alittle insecure about it. if you dont laugh at the jokes he might notic that he aint funny and maybe he needs to stop. braging means that your lacking somthing and dont want anybody to know. i think you should tell him this is getting on your last nerve who knows he might say okay i will shut up about it. just try and tell him.
hope i helped
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No. Most guys grow out of it when they realize no one thinks it's funny anymore.
It was probably pretty funny when he was twelve... now it's just a bit sad.
You just need to tell him so, or better yet, just don't laugh at all. He'll get the message. He wants to behave like a twelve year old when he is with his guy friends he is most welcome too, but you don't have to pretend it's the hight of wit.
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well if you haven't seen it yet, he's probably trying to impress youu. he's probably not dirty-minded cause i mean he wouldn't go upto his guyfriends and say "i'm big." -- he's just trying to impress you. don't tell him upfront that it annoys you.. he might get a bit offended. but when he makes a joke again, laugh SEEM like your joking and say, "ohhh shut up about your penis!" and smile.
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Okay, so there are two ways to approach this.
First, you can tell him it annoys you and that you hate it and blah blah blah and see what he says. He might be insecure or just a jacka--... Who know.
The more entertaining way to deal with it is to wait for the joke and then suggest he's tiny... laugh, scoff, nod and make a tiny sign with your hand... etc... It's totally a riot.
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