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okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 years off and on. Just recentley we found out that we were FOURTH COUSINS! it really bothered us both. we broke up cause of it, and im so upset, cause i really wanted our relationship to grow, and i wanted us to be together. he wants us to be together also. but i jus tell him no, cause i dont want my family to know. and it wood just be too secretive, ya know? but i really want to be with him. i honestley do love this boy. is that nasty? whats your opinion on this situation? what would you do?

Okay you guys are fourth cousins....count that, FOUR. There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating him! I mean, for God's sake woman, he's your fourth cousin! Royale families used to marry their brothers and sisters and even their Parents! So yeah, If you love him, So be it! Carpe Diem-Seize the moment
-Abra

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I do not know where to start but to make the long story short i hate my self and my life I am 25 years old i am not capable of having any kind of relationship cause I am the person you want call when u r having bad times however I am never there when u r having good time. Moreover,I finished law faculty but hate it so never practiced.I have done my master degree on something else, event management, but hate it as well. Right now I do not know what I want to in my life. So I have start to think best thing to is commit suicide....do you know the easiest and quickest way to do it.

Life is too short. Don't waste it with hate. Love thyself before you love others>>Find something you like about yourself, and rethink your situation.

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This guy is flirting with me, and I don't know how to take it! Does he like me or just want something else...I mean he's a great guy, but idk! Should I talk to him About it or what?!?! I really like him and i love the way he flirts! But again, IDK!!! What do i do?

Ok chill. He wouldn't flirt if he didn't like you. I don't know the guy personally, but all I can tell you is that alot of guys flirt for the wrong reason...they DO want something a little more. I'd talk to him and figure out his intentions if I were you...And I hope that he isn't one of those guys.
-Abra

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is it dangerous to eat that white frost/ice that your freezer makes when it needs defrosting.
I do it like once or twice every day...?
thanx

ummmm that frost contains particles of everything that has been in your frezzer. EVERYTHING. the fish, the ice cream, the french fries and yes even that gross asparagus that your mom has been holding onto for when she makes that chef's dinner she's been wanting to make for a year!
it's not that good for you. Just in forming you of course...b/c its not like gonna kill you either.
-Abra

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let me start off by saying thanks for reading :]

alright so here's the problem
since last thursday i havnt been on my right eating pace like i cant eat or something i'm really really hungrey but nothing is good, not like befor anyway i use to just love eating now
i don't want to but i get supper hungrey and i get so hungrey my belly hurt's and by that point i don't want to eat at all and i have to make my self eat! and i hate this i just want things to be back to the way thay were befor.

whasts wrong with me it makes me sick just thinking about it thank you for reading and helping.

Often alot of girls change their eating habits due to horomones and stuff like that. Now, I know I have that problem right now, but it's b/c I don't eat but once a day and by the time I do eat I'm really not that hungry or I get full really quick. If you're having that type of issue try drinking more liquids...i'd suggest gatorade and water, lots and lots of water, so that way your body has time to break down the fatty acids in your body and you'll eventually not have enough fats in your body that you will regain that hunger and have to eat. Trick your body. Oh and if you are like me and tend to starve your-self a bit too much, to the point where you get full really fast, try eating little things all day long. Graze. You will eventually gain your normal appetite again.
Hope I helped!
-Abra

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my friend works at a Novotel Hotel in North York, Toronto and he has said that there are cameras in every single hotel room that the front desk clerk has access to. But I have also heard that due to invasion of privacy, they are not allowed to have cameras installed in every hotel room. Which is true?

I don't know how it is in Toronto, but here in the U.S. it is true that there are privacy laws that restrict installation of video recording cameras in private rooms, whether it be just an office or washroom and, yes, even hotel rooms. So I'd think that they'd have those same privacy laws in Toronto, too. But i'm not sure. Things may be different there.
Hope I made things clearer.
-Abra

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I Want to loose weight around my thighs and Butt.
I wouldn't say I'm extrememly fat around there. But I want to loose wait there. I'm at a healthy wait for my age so I'm not overweight.

I need some easy ones to do. I have a Tredmill. But I want some exercises that will work.

Like Sit-ups and that stuff.

Oh, And how many a day will I have to do to loose 1 pound a week.

Thanks in advance and don't be mean.

All answers are excepted.

In my own experience, I've found lunges to be really great! that and running really helps to boost the metabolic acid production in your body...You can't technically loose weight in one area specifically but you can tone an area. If loosing weight is what you're aiming for than your going to end up loosing weight all over your body...Breast area is the most fatty area on a woman. that's why the female atheletes have almost no 'boobage'. So If the thighs & your butt is all that you are worried about try to run more often and do some lunges. Tone that butt!
Yours truly,
-Abra

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when are the cheapest times to buy victoria's secret goods? (exact dates) especially bras?

semi-annual sale? when is that?

any other times?

SPRING, SPRING, SPRING!!! Almost every store is having a sale this week b/c the spring breakers are back wasting money! At least that's how it is in Indiana right now...Go now while supplies last!lol
-Abra

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what is the best product for a spray tan? i want to try a spray tan professionally for prom and stuff but i also want to do w=one myself because they are expensive and i dont have a job. soo whats the best brand for a spray tan and any tips are much appreciated! thanks ;]

spray tan in a can is nasty nasty stuff...It rubs off and not to mention it kinda smells funny...oh and its really not that tan as much as it is orange... You know what it looks like if you put on the wrong foundation colour...well times that by ten...yeah really Bad. I'd say its worse than fake baking too b/c you are putting harmful, synthetic pigmentation onto your skin...AKA CHEMICALS!!! at least a UV light doesn't involve putting carotene on your skin. If you want a nice tan sit in the sun or go fake bake...And if it is seriously needed, go to the pros to get the canned tan.
Looking out for you,
-Abra

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my boyfriend wants to become a nanny starting this summer...he is from california so things are little bit more high payed there...he doesnt know how much to charge...he found a family with a 2 year old and 4 year old and both are enrolled at a daycare. he would work 10 hour days, mon-fri and the kids would be at school mon, wed, and fridays till 12:30... how much should he charge every two weeks as a set salary? please only answer if you have experience with this type of thing :) thanks!

Okay in my experience I charged about $4 a kid and earned about $80 a day... now I babysat 4 kids ranging from 8 Months to 13 yrs/old...I guess you could aim for Half of that which is $200 weekly...Ummm $400 almost seems a bit too much for two weeks, but that adds up right...so I'd say in my own personal opinion, up to $400 every two weeks. See that's $100 a week for two kids so yeah they'd actually be getting off cheap! So yeah, $400 is good to start with.
Hope I didn't confuse you too much!=P

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you know how you said "try maxxfactor" to one girl with short eyelashes...which 1? I went into my store and there were like lots of different types lol. so cofused
thanx

Max Factor has a wide variety of volumizing to stretch and even seperating formulas...the one that works best for me is the 'Volume Couture Mascara'. It defines each lash and makes them look twice as long! Oh and don't forget to buy the one with the brush; Combs suckkk!!!
-Abra
If you need more help try to go to their website:
http://www.maxfactor.com
Good luck!

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Is there any way you can find out who's added you as a favorite columnist?
If so, how?

Thank you!

Look under your 'Welcome, Mr. Smith' heading and click on favorite columnists...and under the space of people you've marked your faves there's another heading of who has marked you as their fave!
-Abra

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i have really small eyelashes...but i'm wondering if theres something you can do to make them grow...not any expensive products....or any special good working mascara, please help...ill take any advice.

Sadly, Eyebrows are like hair and take time to grow...They grow on their own and there's nothing you can really do about it...Now I know you said no speacial good Mascara, but that's really your only choice...Try MAXX FACTOR. It makes it seem as tho you have ALOT more lash than you really do...Trust me, it works.
Hope you get those Lash*ilicious lashes soon!
-Abra

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So theres this guy at my school, and me and him have been really good friends for about a year. so today after school he comes up and attacks me, gives me a hug, then kissed me on the forehead. i kinda like him but my sister hates him so i could never date him. or me and my sister wouyld like nevr talk again....what should i do???

Date him. Explain to your sister that he is the guy you've chose to date and tell her how much she means to you and how much you hope that she will trust you. You're sisters, and sister's should give support, even if they don't agree.
AKA play the sister card on her!
He obviously cares for you and since you've made that bond, you shouldn't keep him in the dark!
Hope I helped!
-Abra

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I dated this guy lets call him hoops. well hoops and i dated for about a week. i broke up with him becuase i thought he was moving way to fast. and well when we were dating we never talked to each other only by texting he wouldnt comeup to me at school or anything and well like during spring break he invited me to go to the island but my best friend wanted me to go with her to this carnival but to not offend any of them i didnt go with either. but i really like him still idkkk why? i really liek him still and i dont know what to do becuase he only talks to me over myspace or text messaging and well our parents are they same when it comes to dating which is STRICT! so yeah we hardly even talked over the phone. and well i dont kwno if he likes me or not how do i find out if he likes me and how do i start talking to him like to go out agian because i really liek him and i dont knwo what to do.

please help me........please i seriouly liek him still but i dont know what to do to get his attention any suggestions?

Okay, I've been there, done that. You could start flirting again...like eyeing him from across the room or biting your lip when he looks at you...But to be truthful, My ex went too fast, we broke up, got back together and he still pulled the same shit. He may still be the same so be prepared.
-Abra
Hope for the best!

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If you take one randomly, what does it do?

i mean like what do you feel like?

or is it just nothing?

and is it noticeable?

thankss!

Vicodin is kinda harsh.
It makes you super sleepy and not to mention the speech slurring. But it's just like Codine...Loosens your body AND mind. It's like getting shit-faced drunk minus the headache afterwards!
Hope I helped!=)

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15. female... My ex and i have had some rough times..In june we broke up and then got back together and then again and one more time..In septemeber i finally broke it off for good. Hes been trying to get back in my life and he wont leave me alone, and im one of those people who is nice to everyone...Again, recently he was trying to get in my life..i just cant take him back, on top of everything hes done to me, he lives 60 miles away. What should i do?
please help thanks in advance =/

Tell him the distance is too much for you and that you haven't had time to heal b/c he is always on ur case...My ex was like that and I told him that I wasn't ready to trust him again...He moved about a month later.
Hope I helped!=)
(oh tell him you need breathing room if he continues to bug you)

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For my english class, we have to do poem recitations. I really want to read song lyrics.

Do any of you know a song preferably alternative that would be good to recite?

just give the song name and artist

Thanks a million

The Dream
By Sevendust
It is really easy to memorize...
I recited it for my Monologue in Theatre class!
-Abra

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Anyone have any ideas on how to stop?
I can't do things I need to do, because I'm so busy cybering, and no matter how hard I try, I keep going back. Help!

Ehhh...Cybersex isn't bad. Being addicted to sex(any type) is normal in my eyes. You don't need to completely stop, just lessen the amount. It's like being addicted to eating cookies. There not bad, just not the best thing to eat constantly. You don't have to stop liking cookies, just lessen the intake! Oh and make sure that when you do have cybersex, It is legal and you're not paying some one or watching underage 'People'.
Hope I helped!=)

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I want to get a perm but i have naturally frizzy hair when i let it dry or blow dry it. I was wondering if getting a perm would eliminate the frizziness or make it worse.

Okay here's the DL:
Perms are a process in which they use chemicals to either Semi-permenently straighten or Semi-permenently curl your hair. Since your frizz is caused by the amount of humidity in the air, a perm will NOT help. Perms are bad for any type of hair and tend to make more frizz because they dry out your hair. I'd suggest you use Tea Tree oil (found in most drug and grocery stores) or try some John Frida frizz-ease. Tea Tree oil makes your hair not only more manageable and less frizzy, but shiny, too!=) And if you really want to do good for that frizzy-mess, try to stay away from using the blow-dryer. And if you seriously need to use it, buy some heat protectant so that it won't damage your hair.
Hope I helped!

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