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Ex boyfriends....
15. female... My ex and i have had some rough times..In june we broke up and then got back together and then again and one more time..In septemeber i finally broke it off for good. Hes been trying to get back in my life and he wont leave me alone, and im one of those people who is nice to everyone...Again, recently he was trying to get in my life..i just cant take him back, on top of everything hes done to me, he lives 60 miles away. What should i do?
please help thanks in advance =/
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He can still be in your life and you not be dating. You could try being friends for example. My exboyfriend of 3 years and I just recently broke up a few months ago, he kept trying to get back into my life. Finally I broke down and had a talk with him, I let him know that I was no longer romantically interested in him, but that we could try being friends as long as he didn't interfere with my current boyfriend and I. He agreed and things gave gone great. It is awesome to have someone that you can talk to and that knows you that well, but it can also be a burden on your current relationship, so be wary.
This may not be the best suggestion for you though. If you feel as though there is just no way that you can have him in your life at all then you are probably just going to have to let him know that. Sometimes being nice to everyone just doesn't work out, no matter how bad you want it too.
Hope I Helped.
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Tell him the distance is too much for you and that you haven't had time to heal b/c he is always on ur case...My ex was like that and I told him that I wasn't ready to trust him again...He moved about a month later.
Hope I helped!=)
(oh tell him you need breathing room if he continues to bug you)
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