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FREIND/B.F/ BETWEEN
im 15.f. i have this friend thatt is not close friend but we do trust each other alot...but were not like realli long time known friend we met this year..and became reali good friends.. she has a b.f and and his name is (D) so then this guy named (D) was talkign to me andhe goe simgoing to break up with my g.f tomorrow..and when i found out that (D) is the same guy my friend is dating i was in shock ..i called right away after talking to him and told her everything she stared crying and said shell call me back and i was liek ok...
but now they broke up ad me and him are talking and he keeps asking me to goona date and like what ever and it old him shes my realli good friend and that i cant do tat to her and he goes wil wait an dimlike will wait a long time...and he oes like not long long but enough time..and now i dont no what to do....and please dont say tell her abot it and ask heror something like that because that not the possibilitu i have right now..yea i do liek him and ye ai like my friend to but it wwasnt beacuse of me they broke up ....
so please i dont no what to do......help!!!
i will rate u thanx =)
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I agree with ModernDay...You don't want to date someone like that. I was in the same exact situation as you. (which I'll just explain to you because I think it'll help you come to a decision)
My friend who I met freshman year and became really good friends began dating one of my guy friends who I cared about a lot at the time. The truth is though he broke up with her, and then wanted to date me.
Me and her started talking and shes like he asked you out didn't he? (I didn't want to tell her because I didn't want to hurt her)... but I said yes... and shes like I figured he would... but me and her talked and she said she wanted us to date. I was confused but she kept insisting that we date...
so eventually me and him dated.
and he broke up with me for her about 3 times.
and he cheated on me with other girls too..
it took me awhile to actually break up with him for good because I thought I "loved" him and whatever...and we broke up for good and now I don't talk to him anymore.
But my point is he was one of my best friends... and I lost him forever because he betrayed me. I also lost my friend from freshman year... because instead of talking to me about it first she went behind my back with him...
So what I'm asking you is... is this really worth losing your friend over? If she cared about him a lot than the odds are she won't take it very well.
He also won't treat you right, trust me... if he gets bored of girls that easily what makes you think you'll be any different. IF he did it before, he'll do it again to you. So why would you want to be with someone like that?
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well, I guess it just depends on what kind of personality your friend has and how serious their relationship was. Is she easygoing and not possessive? That could tell you how she may react without coming out and asking her. However, if she is your good friend, I would hold off until time goes by and you can actually ask her how she feels about it. She might feel weird about the whole thing and think maybe you had something to do with them breaking up. Would you feel strange if you were in opposite positions? I guess it really depends on what kind of relationship you have with your friend, and if she would mind consider if you like this guy enough to put your friendship in jeopardy. good luck
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in my opinion, he seems like a player.
do you really want to date a guy that tells other girls that he is going to dump his girlfriend before even doing it and then immediately starts trying to get with someone else? i doubt it.
plus if you like this girl, i don't think its right to date her ex.
especially not RIGHT after. she'll probably end up thinking you lied about all of it and that you were talking to him this whole time behind her back. i think things will just get ugly if you date him.
but it is your choice, so go with whatever you think is best.
good luck :D
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It depends on how good of friends you are with her. Like do you guys hang out outside school? talk? tell eachother everything? Try talking to her and tell her what happened....I will tell you right now though that most people this happens to if you go with the guy you will most likely lose your friend...you friend may be different though so try talking to her and see what she says. But if you really think it's worth it with the guy go for it but just remember that you need to be careful that he's not going to just use you and then dump you...
Friends will be there forever...but boyfriends you for out with for a while and then don't talk to them again...
think about that
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Stop talking to him.
Look at it this way: It is going to be a VERY long time before you feel comfortable even thinking about dating him right? He has made it clear he isn't all that keen on waiting or respecting his exes bounderies, or yours.
If you keep talking to him, something will happen. Without meaning to be you'll end up in a 'relationship' that you don't even want to have happen. Worse, your friend might find out from someone other then yourself.
Why take the risk?
Right now, you don't want to date him, and it's almost impossible to be his friend if what you both really want to do it date.
Take a breather from talking to him in order to make up your mind without him hounding you about it. If you want to go foward with him, that is fine, just be honest with your friend. If you don't want to date him, be honest about it. Don't say 'Not now.' say 'No.'
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