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I wish he didnt hate meee


Question Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 2:13 pm

Last summer i dated this boy. his name was franklin. i know sounds funny but. i really liked him. i met him at my bestfriends house. we went down to this pond by her house and we seen them and just started talking. then after we got to know eachother he asked me out. i obviously said yes. because he was sooo cute and sweet. then when i left my bestfriends house. for about a month me and franklin were talking alot. then out of no where my bestfriend left a message on my cell phone telling me he said it was over. i had no idea why. then i went on his myspace and seen this girl first on his top and her name was."i love franklin" so i added her being all nosey. we were good friends. until she told him i was talking to her. he called me up telling me to stop blah blah blah. and now he hates my guts. i still really really like him. and i see him everyother weekend when i goto my bestfriends house and he smiles at me and talks to me and stuff. but online hes a total asshole to me. and he tells my friends were friends. but idk what to do. i really want him to like me again. even though i really like him way more then a friend. what should i do?

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M0DERNDAYBARBiE answered Friday March 21 2008, 2:22 pm:
i would not talk to that girl anymore, and i would stay out of that part of his life. but whenever you go to your bestfriend's house, talk to him and ask him if you are friends or not because he is sending you mixed signals. make sure he knows you arn't just joking around and that you want a serious answer. or if you're scared of asking in person, do it on myspace. but i seriously think you should talk to him about it. and if the conversation is going well, you might even want to tell him you have more feelings for him than just friend wise, but that is all up to how you feel on the situation at hand. if the conversation doesn't go well and he is a complete ass about the situation, i would just forget about him. and don't feel stupid for asking if you're friends because it isn't stupid, he's the one being stupid by sending you weird signals. just do what you feel is right.

good luck :D

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laynemayhem answered Friday March 21 2008, 1:23 am:
obviously he likes this girl. as much as it may hurt, you're going to have to stay out of their relationship. its none of your business what they do, when, and why. its his relationship. there is no problem in staying friends with him. or the girl. ask him the next time you see him why hes such an ass and ask him why its so bad to stay friends with her and him. honestly, there's nothing wrong with it. but you were doing it for the wrong reasons. just explain to him that he really hurt you and you dont want it to be over totally.

you never know. things may change. ;)

anyways, i hope it all works out for you.

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