about

"Now pull the knife from my ever bleeding heart.
Tell me now your words never meant me harm."

I'm Allison.
I don't really care too much about ratings. Either you want my advice or you don't.

I've pretty much been through it all. From internet relationships to broken hearts to divorces to bad friends.

Ask me questions in my inbox, and please leave me feedback :] Numbers can only help me so much.

Here's a little about me non-advice related;
-I'm from Texas. Where the heat never ends.
-I love music from the indie/emo/alternative rock genre.
-Reading and swimming are two of my passions.
-Music is number one
I guess you could say I'm a very artistic person.

advice

okay. so i am a 19 yr old girl and i've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. my ex, was my first boyfriend that i have been on and off with since i was 15. well the problem is he is really prideful.. i don't know another way to put it. he's the type of guy that never says sorry, or calls first, or buys you anything. well when we were about to get back together, i started talking to my (now) boyfriend because he had been hanging out with this other girl he claims is just a friend. so when my boyfriend asked me out i said yes. (with mixed feelings). well.. i've cheated on him with my ex twice and i know it's wrong but everytime i try to forget about him i can't. and i don't want to hurt my boyfriend, he says he loves me and i know it's the truth. whats worse is they (my ex and my boyfriend) used to be friends and my ex feels bad about the whole thing. my boyfriend doesn't know anything though, and anytime i think i should leave him for my ex, i feel really bad..i don't know what to do or who to ask for advice! who should i be with? can u really love two people at once? please help!

Drop the Ex-Boyfriend. He's a douche.
And stop cheating on your boyfriend.

You can love two people, but Honey, you're only 19 and you have your whole life ahead of you. Tell your boyfriend now what's been going on. He'll probably break up with you, but honestly he'd probably have more respect for you because you were honest with him.

The Ex is bad news. He's the guy that messes up everything because you were infatuated with him at a young age. Just drop him. And I mean quick. I know guys like that and they will never want commitment and they won't be nice. And your guilt insinuates that you don't actually like this guy, and that you care about your current boyfriend more. I'm telling you, all the Ex is gonna be is trouble.

If your boyfriend loves you like he says he does,you have a much better chance for him to forgive you. But you also have that risk of losing him.

Don't stress about it too much. Men come and go.
-LoveSucks

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I'll warn you-i used a lot of detail in this semi-lengthy story...if you could let me know what you think...it would be great, thanks.


I'm an 18 year old girl...turning 19 in 3 days. I was at a party with one of my good guy friends and I met a wonderful guy...he is 30. We had a bit of an innocent makeout-fest and he gave me his number and told me to call/text him anytime. We texted off an on for the next week...then I went home for the weekend (i'm currently in college and am living 3 hours away.) he got ahold of me friday night and asked if i wanted to hang out. I ended up over at his place at about 1:30 am..because he asked if i could pick him up from the bar. We talked for quite a while-and in this time frame i ended up being really into this guy-we'll call him Shawn. There was no pressure to do anything more than simply talk-er hang out like normal friends do. I initiated a kiss...this simple kiss propelled things to be taken into his bedroom..and you all know what happened next. After we were done-he laid there with me..I was wrapped up super tight in his arms...it felt so right. I had to be home before day break-so I left not too long after. Before I left-we kissed...and I said "I really don't hope I have to regret this..." Shawn said- "you definitely don't." He also told me he was into me. And He stated the fact that he doesn't care what others think of hte age difference.

Ok...fast forward to saturday night.

Shawn sent me a text relatively early that asked what I was up to...we had a bit of a short conversation via text message (i know, its an effective form of communication...((note:sarcasm.))...) and he invited me over for movie night. During the first movie, he sat in a chair next to the couch that I sat on...he got up to change DVD's and nonchalantly came over and laid on my couch-his head on my lap. We watched the movie cuddled up on his couch... To me this seemed rather reassuring to me because it felt so right...so couple-esque.

Right?

I figured that rather than seeming like the needy-immature-never-really-hooked-up-one-night-stand kind of girl...that i would talk to him on monday.

I sent him a message monday evening...and he said he'd get ahold of me later that evening.
He called me monday night. He explained that he couldn't be on the phone for long because he left his charger at home (he works out of town) and that he needs his phone for work. He also said he would get ahold of me...

And thats where my story ends.
I don't quite know what to think...because... A) I could be being over-analytical and stupid because maybe he really is into me or B) I could be analyzing correctly:the fact that it simply was a one night stand.



Thanks again for taking the time to read this-because the whole situation is driving me insane and this feedback will help me deal.

Well it looks to me like it's not a one night stand.
Because A, he called you after you slept together and ya'll hung out.
And B, he's 30 so he's probably not looking for that right now, probably more a serious thing.

I wouldn't over analyze it too much. As girls, we always tend to do that haha. He sounds like he's into you, so accept it. And if not, just be upfront about it.
"Look. I'm not really into this whole one-night stand thing, and I really wanna know if that's what this is or are we gonna move forward."
Trust me. It'll make your life so much easier and less crazy to know what he's thinking straight up.

-LoveSucks

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i met this girl on runescape about a year ago and we gave each gave each other a our email accounts so we could talk on msn but we only just started actually talkin at the start of the year and im beginin to like her a bit more than a friend
we talk each hav a myspace account so we can look at each others pictures.
she is a really nice person and the other day she said she knows it may sound weird but she sorta likes me and then she just logged off
she always says stuff like if you dont mind me asking or i know this may sound weird and stuff like that but i dont know how to tell her i like her more than a friend
and a few days after that i want to ask her out but the problem is she hardly goes on her computer but wen she does she usually has to do it secretly because her parents wont let her go on msn or she might get in trouble

btw/we are the same age: 13
but dot go tellin me its to dangerous to be doin stuff like that cause im to young and she might be one of those internet sexual predators but she not and im not either we have seen pictures of each other and i know she is my age and she knows that im her age.
btw(again) we live nowhere near each other we live in different states and thats all we know about each other

ps sorry if its to long

Oh, the internet romances. I gotcha covered. First hand experience here.

She's probably feeling just as awkward about it as you are. That would explain her logging off. And did you happen to swap phone numbers so y'all could text/call? That helps with the whole "OMFG INTERNET PREDATORS" thing.

Next time you talk to her, just bring it up casually. Like "Hey we've been friends for awhile, and I know you said that you liked me, well I like you too."
It's gonna be awkward, but what isn't? It'll be okay.

But you're still young, and honestly not to burst your bubble, unless y'all can visit each other or you're very good at maintain a long-term relationship, it's probably not going to work out. I know this because, you never know what the other person is doing when you aren't talking to them. But everything is possible :]

Good luck with this and hope I helped.
-LoveSucks

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well there this place that all the teenager in my city go to called well 400 and well I remeber seeing this one guy and I thought he was really cute but he was all gangster...well that was like 5 months ago and recently this guy added me on myspace and I think its him from what he tells me and from what my friends tell me who know him...well we started talking and he said he added me because he though I was pretty and from his pic I think he is really cute well we have talked dirty but just playing around and crap and I have this huge myspace crush on him like when he messages me I get all happy
well anyway I might see him this friday and I dont know how to hold myself he said to come up and give him a big hug but I think thats weird
what should I do when I see him
how do a aproach him if he dosent aproach me I dont know what to do
can you give some tips please thanks a bunch
ps Im 15 and he is 17

Of course this will be awkward. It always is [;
Just walk up to him, maybe from behind, tap his shoulder and say "Hi :]" or "Hey".

Odds are if he wants a hug he might give you a hug when he recognizes you. So I wouldn't worry too much about it.

Oh and, if he isn't as cute as you think, still give him a chance since you liked him for his personality. (It's happened to me before, haha.)

I wouldn't sweat it too much. Just act like it's a normal day and you're gonna go see a friend you see allllll the time. :]

Good luck!
-LoveSucks

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This guy and I have been talking on aim for forever. We were really tight, and he liked me... i also liked him. I know him because of my friend Jen. Well, Friday, I was with Ron and he didnt hold my hand or anything. When he left, I was telling Jen how it went. She kept asking me questions witch was making it seem that I he didnt like me, and it made it seem that i was obsessed with him. So i said he didnt have a 6 pack at all. Jen told him I said that... and he is really pissed off. I can't stop crying. Jen is TRULY sorry, I belive her. I want things to be the same between Ron and I. He liked me all until this happened. What should I do?

Wow. If this guy gets pissed off because you said he didn't have a six pack..then that's bad.

It shows that he's really self centered, and that he probably gets mad at the little-est of things.

But if you still wanna fix things with him, just talk to him and apologize about what you said. And if he doesn't listen then it's his fault. It was a silly thing to get mad over.

And as for your friend Jen, she probably likes him too. That would explain why she told him that. But friends are more important than guys, so keep her close, no matter what she did.

So all and all, just talk to him. Apologize about what you said and explain why you said it.

-LoveSucks♥

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theres this boy at my school and i really really like him and im pretty sure he knows that.well i asked him to the dance and he said sure. i slow danced with him a grinded on him a lil but he seemed to be okay with it! when we were watchn a dance contast he even came up behind me and put his hands on waist and stuff! well at the end of the dance i asked him "so do we go out"? and he said he'd think about it!im scared because he said he'd have to think about it!does this meen probably not?im jus freackn out right now because i really really like him and i really wanna go with him!!

Aww don't worry. From the body language you described, he seems to like you.

And guys never make sense. But just 'cause he said "He'll think about it", doensn't mean no :P
He probably wants to think about the way he feels about you. And put his feelings in the right place, before doing anything.

And don't be scared, even if he does say no, then he missed out. There's gonna be plenty of chances for you to find someone. Don't sweat it too much

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i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday, i posted a long story yesterday about the situation and a lot of people told me i would be better off without him and so did a lot of my friends..
but i love this guy a lot, i even lost my virginity to him and i miss him like crazy and i think i made a huge mistake i never should have broken up with him, even though he asked my cousin to have sex with him while we were going out.. i can like get over that because i know he wouldnt really do it, and i love this guy more than anything and he is always there for me... how can i get him back? i just like broke his heart and mine.. what should i do? should i try and move on? or i dont know :/

I read and answered your story yesterday. It's normal to feel this way. The answer below mine explains it really well.

And him asking your cousin to have sex with him. is NOT cool. You say you could get over it, but what if he did actually cheat on you with her? You wouldn't be able to get over it.

Youll probably feel a little down for a while. But thats where your loyal and loving friends come in. :] Friends are so much better than boyfriends. They stick with you. And if they were also telling you that you were better off, then you really are. Cause they most likely know you better than most people do.

Personally, if I actually knew the guy, I could give a more thourough answer, but I don't. The whole cousin thing is really bothering me. If you loved someone whie you were in a relationship with them, you wouldn't even consider asking someonelse to have sex with you! That's just hiddeous. I think you made the right decision, this guy sounds, well, flaky to me.

I'm basically just restating my last answer with more detail. Give another guy a chance. It doesn't nesesscarily have to be Guy B. I believe anyone would be better than your Now-Ex.

Get to feelin' better Darling. Boys are stupid and love sucks.

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alright so theres these two guys lets just say guy A and guy B, well guy A is my boyfriend right now and i love him, the only problem is he flirts a lot and it drives me crazy he commented my own cousin saying she has an amazing body i dont know if its just me? but i dont think he should be doing that stuff and, guy B is guy A's "old" friend now there not friends because guy B came to my house yesterday but just to hang out and tell me some stuff about my boyfriend and how he always flirts with girls when im not with him and guy B even thought we were broken up because thats how


much he flirts and guy B also stated yesterday that he likes me a lot and, i hate keeping secrets from my boyfriend so i told him that guy B came to my house and he flipped out like really bad and was saying all this stuff how i mine as weel just go off and be with guy B and everything and that he doesnt see anything wrong with what he said to my cousin and he just went way out of control i mean its not like me and guy B did anything there was even another girl here as a witness, and so now my boyfriend wants to like kick the shit out of guy B for comming to my house and trying to get me to brake up with him...

so my question is what should i do? i mean i like guy a alot, i love him but his flirting is like to bad and guy B works a lot as a producer so im not sure what i should do? i keep thinking if i brake up with guy A for guy B i will regrett braking up with him but im not sure. and guy B is really sweet and good looking and has a lot of money ;) but that part doesnt mater to me. im just lost on what i should do and if i stay with guy A he told me that he never wants me to talk to guy B ever again.. and i told him that he couldnt talk to my cousin then but he was like well.. we never did anything and were just really good friends so its diffrent, but its really not because thats how me and guy B are..



so what should i do??
im so confused and i need help


thanks in advance.

I was in a relationship like this once. The guy was always flirting, and it drove me insane. He was also very posessive and got jealous very easy.

I also "loved" him.
But in the end, eh was only hurting me all the time, and I wound up with a broken heart.

Your guy sounds a lottt like my guy. He sounds controlling and short tempered. If he doesn't trust you to talk with this other guy, how can you trust him when he refuses to not talk to your cousin?

From how you described "Guy B" I would say you have hidden feelings for him. I agree with Jasmine below me. You really should end it with your current boyfriend and give Guy B a chance. By him coming to you and coming clean about his feelings towards you, and telling you the truth about your boyfriend now, shows he's sincere and honest.

You're probably gonna be much much happoer that way. And from the looks/sounds of it. You're not gonna regret it very much.

-LoveSucks♥

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Ok, I'm 17/f and I have a problem with this guy. Last summer I got introduced to him through mutual friends. We hung out ONCE for a few hours the day before I went to San Diego on vacation. We just went to the park and then to hang out at a fast food place where the guy works. Well, I went on vacation and long story short, he told me he was IN LOVE with me and asked me out. I wasn't attracted to this guy in the slightest and the "love" thing weirded me out. So, I NICELY turned him down.

I didn't talk to him again until the next school year (this year) and he barely spoke to me. I was fine with that because I didn't even know him. Well, I just recently started talking to him online and everything is fine. He compliments me a lot but whatever. My best friend was telling me that he told her how much he likes me again and how "not even God" could help him with this one.

He asked me to go to the park with him last night (for today) and he was at work so he told me to call him when I woke up. Well, I'm volunteering today so I can't go anywhere, but I'm really confused. I feel really bad for him to reject him twice, but I'm not going to date him out of pity.

I just need a way to turn him down without making everything weird. The thing is, no matter how much he likes me, he won't talk to me at school or even at the prom! I'm in one of his classes and he just doesn't say anything to me. And at prom he ignored me completely but later told my best friend that he really wanted to dance with me but he was too nervous. If you like someone, don't you at least TALK to them?

I just need something to say to him to not piss him off or hurt his feelings. I don't want to lie with something like "I'm not looking for a bf right now" or "my parents won't let me date"...I want a real statement but I want to give a reason this time so he doesn't do it again.

I may be 17 but I've never had guy trouble like this before. Help!

Just be like

"Hey, we need to talk."
Then;
"I know you like me, but I can't go out with you because we don't share those same feelings. It would never work out. For two people to be happy together they each have to feel the same way towards eachother. I'm sorry, but lets just talk and be friends."

That's the best I could come up with. You don't have to say exactly that, just something similar about how you dont exactly feel the same way.

But, good luck, hope I helped you Darling
-LoveSucks♥

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tomorrow night is this carazzyyy dance. everyone goes crazy when they are there you are supposed to get way crazy and have the time of your life. i really like this one kid(joe) alot. this other kid(dan). well dan is going to the dance tm. he really wants to hook up with me but the only reason why i would is cause i like to hook up with people and i would just do it for fun. i have NO feelings for dan though and i really don't want joe to find out. should i hook up with him or with other guys? or not at all?

Personally I wouldn't do it. It's gonna be really fun, but you're gonna regret it if you like Joe so much.

And youll get labeled and all that jazz and your life will be living drama.
Not cool.

But if you don't mind that, and you can't stay commited anyway, then go ahead. I have a friend who parties and drinks and makes out with 7 guys in one night. but it's just fun for her, because she isn't looking for a serious relationship.

So if you want a commited relationship with thsi Joe kid, don't do it. But if you're just in it for the fun, then go for it.

Unless of course you mean, Hook-up in reference to sex. If that's the case, then no. If you have to ask whether or not to have sex with these random guys, then you clearly aren't ready. So please do not do it if you are speaking of sex.

"Hooking up" can mean two things; sex or making out.

If it's making out, follow the first advice.
It it's sex, Follow the later advice.

-LoveSucks♥

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ive been in love with the same guy for 3 years, but i cant have him because he moved away. and about a month ago, i met this kid and we liked eachother. he told me yesterday that he liked me. and i kinda liked him too. he walked with me to all of my classes yesterday and was like all over me. people asked if we were going out thats how bad it was. i dont get free texting and me n him texted like 30 times yesterday. i jacked up my bill... he called me babe and we almost kissed twice. today, i knew he wasnt going to be there at the beginning of the day today. he showed up at the end and after school, i walked by him with my friend and he never said anything. so i went up to him and was expecting a hug like yesterday, and he was with a guy friend so he only gave me like a friendly hug. yesterday, he would wrap his arms around my waist and wouldnt let go for like a minute.

i sat by him today after school and he gave me a "friendly" hug and walked off with his friend. i decided to give him a chance since the guy that i love, i can never have, and in the end, its never going to work out and i shouldnt spend my whole life trying.

idk what to do. i really like this kid, but he treated me like shit today. he only texted me once. which was a shock. should i bitch to him about it tomorrow or just let it slide?

Don't stress over this guy thats moved. You're just gonna miss out on your current life right now.

And it sounds to me that this guy does like you, but maybe his friends are jerks, or he's a bit shy to let them know just yet.

And I wouldn't bitch to him about it, `cause that just makes you seem like you need all the attention. It's a huge turn off for guys.

Just give it time. I'm a huge believer in fate and such. I think if y'all were meant to be together than you will be. :]

Just keep up the flirting :P

-LoveSucks♥

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Hey i'm 17f, and work at a small restrant. The bosses son is about 19/20 y.o. He always looks at me when im at work and comes and talks to me, gets stuff like drinks... (he dosn't do this for any one els).... I like him verry much, he's realy nice and realy good looking.
But i was wondering; would it be ok to go out with the bosses son?

all opinions accepted
thanx!

Hey, it may seem "unprofessional", but you can't control what you're feeling.

And since it's not your boss directly, I think it's okay. :]

If he asks you out, I wouldn't hesitate. And it's not like a huge company with a big reputation, so I dont think it should be a problem :P

Like I said,
No normal human being can control their feelings for another one.

-LoveSucks♥

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okay so im a senior in highschool, and i lost my virginity the summer after 8th grade. so i pretty much have been known as a slut, and i hate it b/c the guy pressured me into doing it. my parents know about me having sex and since then i have had sex about 15 times. My friends ex-boyfriend is a freshman in college and i went down to his college one weekend b/c i was going to see what it was like b/c i wanted to go there. so of course he let me stay with him in his dorm. well i got pressured into having sex with him to. at first i said no b/c he was my friends ex boyfriend and i couldnt do that to her. but he kept asking me.and i got a little tipsy and said yeah. now i dont no what to do b/c im scared she will find out and kill me. she fights really good and if she finds out,she will want to fight me and i cant fight and she will just hate me! HELP ME!

If she's your true friend, then she will understand.

And just because you lose your virginity in the 8th grade does not make you a slut.

And why should she care if he's an ex? They're over and done with. Just try to talk to her, and unless she keeps contact with her ex's then I doubt she's going to find out.

But if she does, try not to fight with her. Just talk to her, and if she wants to fight, just be the bigger person and refuse to. And if she calls you a chicken or whatever, tell her she's immature to solve her issues by fighting.

Like I said, if she is a real friend, she'll understand.

If you have any more questions IM me. :]
Good luck!
-LoveSucks♥

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ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we literally talk all day, unless like we leave to go somewhere, to eat, and stuff like that. he'll call me right when he wakes up, but i usually call him about an hour or 2 hours after i wake up. he went to his dads house and spent the night on wednesday and stayed there again last night. he probably goes there for like 2 nights every couple of months. there he has 3 step brothers. like 6, 11, and 17. i cant stand the 17 year old and i dont like the younger ones very much since i just dont like little kids. my boyfriend and i have been on the phone the longest at a time maybe an hour? when we are his brothers are talking to him and i cant stand being on the phone and listening to their conversation with somebody else. i count it has we havent really talked for 2 days since we really havent. yesterday i talked to him in the morning for like 30 min then he left for 5-6 hours =/ then he called and we were on the phone for 2 min and his little brothers were begging to jump on the trampoline and like 3 min later he was like can i call you after i eat? and i told him id just call him after i watch a movie. 2 hours later he calls and i was getting into bed. he was silent. 2 whole days u havent talked to me and your going to be silent when we have the chance? and he is never silent, lol he usually never shuts up. he'll wake up around like 8 and its 2 now, no call at all. i took a shower this morning and im all ready to go over to his house but he hasnt even called. we talked about seeing eachother today but it doesnt even seem like he wants to talk. i think he might just want to spend time with his brothers but literally, im like the first priority or whatever in his life. i always come first and he just doesnt seem like making an attempt to talk to me. does he still love me? sorry it was so long

Sorry, but you can't rule his life.
And just because y'all aren't talking for like 2 days, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

And so what if he wants to hang out with his family?
He never gets to see them.

I think you should take a chillpill and relax.
His thoughts didn't change about you.

And I wouldn't suggest getting revenge, by not talking to him, it will only make you seem immature and it will make the situation worse.

Sorry for being so brutal, but you sound like you need to be slapped with reality.
Give him some time, and don't be so obsessive.

Y'all will be fine.
I doubt his views of you changed.

-LoveSucks♥

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15/M What am I supposed to get for my girlfriend's birthday? I know that you're not supposed to give money or gift cards because to them it says that you don't care. Any ideas?

Oh I love these questions :D

Yea, I wouldn't buy anything, it is SO much better if you make it. It makes us melt inside.

Make her card? Make a bracelet/necklace[jewelry].
I know I would absolutely love it if I got little coupons that were made, like "One free kiss." or "Good for a foot massage and a movie."

Chocolate?Uh, yea ;D How about you make cookies?

Or you make her dinner, then spend the evenining with her :]

I like the scrapbook idea below mine, and the shirt.

Or maybe, have her blindfolded, then suprise her with whatever gift you choose :}

I think the most romantic thing is a ring :3

Make a little ring out of like string; one for each; and make some corny line up and say it ;D

I hope she loves whatever you do for her :]]]

Yours Dearly,
LoveSucks[[♥]]

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omg i hate my parents not really they're making me do stuff i don't wanna do though like they're trying to get me to break up with my boyfriend and i don't want to do it i mean i think i might love him but i'm not sure. i mean i really care for this guy and they don't even care

Tell them to fudge off

And I agree with the answer below mine :D

LoveSucks[[♥]]

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On saturday, this boy Chris asked me out. I liked him a lot, so of course I said yes. We only got to talk online, but he said he wanted to hug me after school, kiss me, and he invited me to his hockey game. I fell for him as soon as he said he wanted to hug/kiss me. I felt like this was the right guy for me. And then on tuesday morning, he randomly broke up with my online. I was really sad that he didn't do it in person and I thought it was low of him to tell me he'd NEVER break up with me but then 2 days later, break his promise. I asked him why he broke up with me, and he goes " I dunno I just think we should be friends." I was really sad. I never even got to hug him or even talk to him in person while we were going out! He broke up with me in the next 2 days. And I couldn't believe it because I spent hours talking to him on the phone and flirting with him, I thought we would last forever. For the past 2 days I've been crying and telling him I still like him, but he said "I'm really sorry but I only like you as a friend." As soon as he broke up with me, he asked out my best friend who was his ex-girlfriend. She said no because she knows I still like him and he's mad at her for saying no. I still love him SOO much. And when I fall in love, it takes a long time for me to fall out. Do you think he's a player? And should I waste my time liking him? I need your advice, and what I should do.

I rate high.

And if this helps, when he was going out with his last girlfriend, he told me that he liked this other girl and he was going to break up with his girlfriend to go out with her, while they were going out.

Definate player.

Hun, boys don't deserve to treat girls like that. He is one serious jerk-off. Trust me, it would be much better to move on.

Any guy that would make you cry, isn't worth your time. He is usually either A.Shallow B.Cocky C. Just a plain old ass.[Pardon my language]

There are so many guys out there, and you have so much time. Don't waste it on this guy. The right guy will come around. Trust me :]

Yours Dearly,
\\♥LoveSucks♥//

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Me and this guy Alex dated before, then he dumped me and said that hes too frigid for me and that im always depressed, when i was only depressed for 2 days because my friend killed herself...Then 1 day ago he said "I shouldnt have dumped you" and stuff and im like "Well lets see if we can go back" and he goes "Huh i cant just 'go back out' with you again..." and im just like "Wow you really cant think" because i thought that he would get the hint of asking me out again... But i think hes too shy or something...i know that he likes me and he knows that i like him, but can someone please help me see that he can ask me out again? Thanks!!!

This guy is a total jerk.
If he can't see that you were upset about your friend commiting suicide, then all he cares about is himself.
I suggest finding a new guy
But if you really wanted to go back out with him, ask him yourself. There is no rule against it.
Or you can just build up the relationship again.
But as I see it, when he came back and said he souldn't have dumped you, he felt a small remorse(sp?). Then I saw how you replied and the way he answered it makes me think that he really doesn't care all about your feelings.
Anyone deserves better than that.

\\♥LoveSucks♥//

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so i really like this guy. me, my best friend, him and his friend are all going to watch car races on sunday. the thing is im really shy around guys i like and i dont want to be that way around him. my friend and his friend know i like him but im not sure if he knows or not. so what should i do to not be so shy around him and to give him little hints that i like him?

I'm pretty sure that if his friend knows, then he knows.

Just try not to act to shy.
Maybe when your watching the race, subconsciously(Sp?) scoot over next to him.
Ask him who do you think will win, then make compliments on him. Like his clothes or his hair.
Don't follow him though. That would be creepy. Just try to be around him a lot.
Maybe ask him about himself, like his music taste, favorite color, just strike up a conversation you two can go on.

It's really not that bad, once you get in to it!
Just go with the flow!
I know you'll do great :]

Tell me how it goes :]

\\♥LoveSucks♥//

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