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The bosses son?
Hey i'm 17f, and work at a small restrant. The bosses son is about 19/20 y.o. He always looks at me when im at work and comes and talks to me, gets stuff like drinks... (he dosn't do this for any one els).... I like him verry much, he's realy nice and realy good looking.
But i was wondering; would it be ok to go out with the bosses son?
all opinions accepted
thanx!
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This is a situtation where it would not be a good idea to mix buisness with pleasure. While the relationship might work out well there's always the chance it won't end up nicely.
If you should break up your boss will always stick by his son and may make work difficult and uncomfortable or find some kind of loophole to fire you without repercussions on them.
I would stick to being a close friend of this person and if or when you leave his father's restaurant for college etc try going after his son then. Right now it's not a good situation especially if you need that job and the money.
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It comes down to this: can you afford to lose your job?
I'm not saying that would be the inevitable outcome; it's just that if the relationship goes bad, you're going to find it extremely uncomfortable working there any longer. There's also the strong possibility that your co-workers may come to feel that you are receiving preferential treatment. You'll need to make sure you can keep your personal life and your working life separate - that means you can't do things like kiss him while you're at work, or discuss what you'll do later or the fun date you had last night. In other words, he may (eventually) be your boyfriend after hours, but at work he's the boss' son.
But hey, this is one of the ways people meet people. If you can deal with the additional pressure, go for it!
(One thing, though - he should ask his dad first if it's all right. Not because your boss "owns" you or anything like that, but it would be courteous and will help to ensure that your boss will be OK with it.)
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Hey, it may seem "unprofessional", but you can't control what you're feeling.
And since it's not your boss directly, I think it's okay. :]
If he asks you out, I wouldn't hesitate. And it's not like a huge company with a big reputation, so I dont think it should be a problem :P
Like I said,
No normal human being can control their feelings for another one.
-LoveSucks♥
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