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does he still love me?


Question Posted Friday April 6 2007, 2:58 pm

ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we literally talk all day, unless like we leave to go somewhere, to eat, and stuff like that. he'll call me right when he wakes up, but i usually call him about an hour or 2 hours after i wake up. he went to his dads house and spent the night on wednesday and stayed there again last night. he probably goes there for like 2 nights every couple of months. there he has 3 step brothers. like 6, 11, and 17. i cant stand the 17 year old and i dont like the younger ones very much since i just dont like little kids. my boyfriend and i have been on the phone the longest at a time maybe an hour? when we are his brothers are talking to him and i cant stand being on the phone and listening to their conversation with somebody else. i count it has we havent really talked for 2 days since we really havent. yesterday i talked to him in the morning for like 30 min then he left for 5-6 hours =/ then he called and we were on the phone for 2 min and his little brothers were begging to jump on the trampoline and like 3 min later he was like can i call you after i eat? and i told him id just call him after i watch a movie. 2 hours later he calls and i was getting into bed. he was silent. 2 whole days u havent talked to me and your going to be silent when we have the chance? and he is never silent, lol he usually never shuts up. he'll wake up around like 8 and its 2 now, no call at all. i took a shower this morning and im all ready to go over to his house but he hasnt even called. we talked about seeing eachother today but it doesnt even seem like he wants to talk. i think he might just want to spend time with his brothers but literally, im like the first priority or whatever in his life. i always come first and he just doesnt seem like making an attempt to talk to me. does he still love me? sorry it was so long

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Additional info, added Friday April 6 2007, 3:03 pm:
oh, and i know he is NOT cheating on me or even thinking about it. if we arent going to see eachother today do you think i should stay at one of my friends houses tonight? im a big revenger when it comes to talking. like when he hasnt talked to me for a whillle ill make it so he cant talk to me for a while. its the only thing i like to get back at him for, i dont know why but yeah..

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inuyasha633 answered Monday April 9 2007, 3:04 pm:
are u stupid you r 14 yrs old. you are going to scare him off!!! YOU R 2 YOUNG!!!!!!!!!!!!!


-THINKER TINKS-

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ROCKER-CHICK answered Friday April 6 2007, 5:59 pm:
Well I see where your coming from but you have to accept that he wants to spend more time with his brothers because he never sees them long enough and now that hes getting the chance to see him since he havent in 2 months he trying to enjoy the days left of it..

He nots trying to hurt you by him ignoring you so he tells you too call him back he is not going to break up with u if he loves you that much

Let him enjoy his time with his brothers you have lots of chances to have time with him since you is his #1 prioity but hes got brothers to play with because 2 are little and they want to spend more time with their brother they never really see

so please give him a chance to do so

Becca
xoxoxoxo

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LoveSucks answered Friday April 6 2007, 5:30 pm:
Sorry, but you can't rule his life.
And just because y'all aren't talking for like 2 days, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.

And so what if he wants to hang out with his family?
He never gets to see them.

I think you should take a chillpill and relax.
His thoughts didn't change about you.

And I wouldn't suggest getting revenge, by not talking to him, it will only make you seem immature and it will make the situation worse.

Sorry for being so brutal, but you sound like you need to be slapped with reality.
Give him some time, and don't be so obsessive.

Y'all will be fine.
I doubt his views of you changed.

-LoveSucks♥

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XoTEnniSChicK5oX answered Friday April 6 2007, 5:04 pm:
I think the only thing you can do in this situation is talk to him about it. Ask him why he doesnt call you and if he loves you then he will have a good excuse.

Hope I helped!<3

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