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parents are demanding
omg i hate my parents not really they're making me do stuff i don't wanna do though like they're trying to get me to break up with my boyfriend and i don't want to do it i mean i think i might love him but i'm not sure. i mean i really care for this guy and they don't even care
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You think you love him but you're not sure? In that case, the answer is no. If you loved him, you would know it and not question it.
Next, talk to your parents - ask them why they don't like your bf, they might know something that you don't - they might see something that you don't.
Don't forget, they were young once - they know what you're going through and they prolly did it with their parents.
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Your parents probably have a good reason why they want to break you two up. Try talking to them first before you go off and say you hate them. Hate is just a strong would and can not be taken back. And I'm no one to really say much, but stop and think before you say you love him. It's a strong word too and shouldn't be used unless you really mean it. Sit down with your parents talk to them. Hear them out and explain to them how you feel
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parents usually have good reasons to why they want you to do some thing, even though now you may not understand what they are trying to do, just talk to them about how you truly feel about this guy & try to refresh their memory on what it felt like to be in love & how much you would hate to be without this guy. try to convince them to get to know this guy better before telling you to break up with him.
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i am 16 years old and i can tell you this, parents are always right even when you dont think so. i have tons of past experiences. they do care and they are telling you to break up with him for a reason. maybe they see youre not in good hands, and that something is not right with him. 80% of all people who are in an abusive relationship dont even know it. you can make your own choice, stay with him, maybe marry him then find out he is a wife beater, or you can listen to your parents and meet and even better guy out there! your choices are few but i hope you will make a right one.
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Tell them to fudge off
And I agree with the answer below mine :D
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When they say things like how they want you to split up with your boyfriend how do you react? Do you scream and shout at them and tell them you hate them? If so, perhaps you need to think about talking to them gently about how you feel. Sit them down and explain that this is not what you want and your reasons behind this. This way they see you as a responsible mature individual who is control of their actions and they will take what you say far more seriously. At the same time, this needs to be a two way process. Why are they saying these things and do they have a point in some ways? Perhaps he's not the best choice in a boyfriend for whatever reason or perhaps they're just being unreasonable parents!! Think about it and good luck!
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