okay so im a senior in highschool, and i lost my virginity the summer after 8th grade. so i pretty much have been known as a slut, and i hate it b/c the guy pressured me into doing it. my parents know about me having sex and since then i have had sex about 15 times. My friends ex-boyfriend is a freshman in college and i went down to his college one weekend b/c i was going to see what it was like b/c i wanted to go there. so of course he let me stay with him in his dorm. well i got pressured into having sex with him to. at first i said no b/c he was my friends ex boyfriend and i couldnt do that to her. but he kept asking me.and i got a little tipsy and said yeah. now i dont no what to do b/c im scared she will find out and kill me. she fights really good and if she finds out,she will want to fight me and i cant fight and she will just hate me! HELP ME!
And just because you lose your virginity in the 8th grade does not make you a slut.
And why should she care if he's an ex? They're over and done with. Just try to talk to her, and unless she keeps contact with her ex's then I doubt she's going to find out.
But if she does, try not to fight with her. Just talk to her, and if she wants to fight, just be the bigger person and refuse to. And if she calls you a chicken or whatever, tell her she's immature to solve her issues by fighting.
Like I said, if she is a real friend, she'll understand.
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