tomorrow night is this carazzyyy dance. everyone goes crazy when they are there you are supposed to get way crazy and have the time of your life. i really like this one kid(joe) alot. this other kid(dan). well dan is going to the dance tm. he really wants to hook up with me but the only reason why i would is cause i like to hook up with people and i would just do it for fun. i have NO feelings for dan though and i really don't want joe to find out. should i hook up with him or with other guys? or not at all?
andalixsays answered Friday April 20 2007, 11:40 pm: You shouldnt really worry about getting labeled or anything, everyones gonna be like that
but would joe like, care? if he understood that there was nothing more than a hookup, would it affect him? or is he the kind of guy who understands that? cause if he'd understand, then go for it. and dont hook up with other guys and not dan.. if thats what you meant in your last sentence. if youre gonna hook up then go all out. [ andalixsays's advice column | Ask andalixsays A Question ]
LoveSucks answered Friday April 20 2007, 11:26 pm: Personally I wouldn't do it. It's gonna be really fun, but you're gonna regret it if you like Joe so much.
And youll get labeled and all that jazz and your life will be living drama.
Not cool.
But if you don't mind that, and you can't stay commited anyway, then go ahead. I have a friend who parties and drinks and makes out with 7 guys in one night. but it's just fun for her, because she isn't looking for a serious relationship.
So if you want a commited relationship with thsi Joe kid, don't do it. But if you're just in it for the fun, then go for it.
Unless of course you mean, Hook-up in reference to sex. If that's the case, then no. If you have to ask whether or not to have sex with these random guys, then you clearly aren't ready. So please do not do it if you are speaking of sex.
"Hooking up" can mean two things; sex or making out.
If it's making out, follow the first advice.
It it's sex, Follow the later advice.
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