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guy A and guy B? help please!
alright so theres these two guys lets just say guy A and guy B, well guy A is my boyfriend right now and i love him, the only problem is he flirts a lot and it drives me crazy he commented my own cousin saying she has an amazing body i dont know if its just me? but i dont think he should be doing that stuff and, guy B is guy A's "old" friend now there not friends because guy B came to my house yesterday but just to hang out and tell me some stuff about my boyfriend and how he always flirts with girls when im not with him and guy B even thought we were broken up because thats how
much he flirts and guy B also stated yesterday that he likes me a lot and, i hate keeping secrets from my boyfriend so i told him that guy B came to my house and he flipped out like really bad and was saying all this stuff how i mine as weel just go off and be with guy B and everything and that he doesnt see anything wrong with what he said to my cousin and he just went way out of control i mean its not like me and guy B did anything there was even another girl here as a witness, and so now my boyfriend wants to like kick the shit out of guy B for comming to my house and trying to get me to brake up with him...
so my question is what should i do? i mean i like guy a alot, i love him but his flirting is like to bad and guy B works a lot as a producer so im not sure what i should do? i keep thinking if i brake up with guy A for guy B i will regrett braking up with him but im not sure. and guy B is really sweet and good looking and has a lot of money ;) but that part doesnt mater to me. im just lost on what i should do and if i stay with guy A he told me that he never wants me to talk to guy B ever again.. and i told him that he couldnt talk to my cousin then but he was like well.. we never did anything and were just really good friends so its diffrent, but its really not because thats how me and guy B are..
so what should i do??
im so confused and i need help
thanks in advance.
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Well if he freaked like that he must really like you. Even if they flirt all day the guy later on in the day think about the real person he loves. And him telling you cousin 'she has a nice body' is like us girls saying 'damnnn that guy has fine abs.' it like means nothing and so yeah. But just follow your heart and just tell guy A how you feel and he'll listen.
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Your relationship is leading to a break up. Cut it off now so guy A doesn't beat the hell out of guy B.
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I was in a relationship like this once. The guy was always flirting, and it drove me insane. He was also very posessive and got jealous very easy.
I also "loved" him.
But in the end, eh was only hurting me all the time, and I wound up with a broken heart.
Your guy sounds a lottt like my guy. He sounds controlling and short tempered. If he doesn't trust you to talk with this other guy, how can you trust him when he refuses to not talk to your cousin?
From how you described "Guy B" I would say you have hidden feelings for him. I agree with Jasmine below me. You really should end it with your current boyfriend and give Guy B a chance. By him coming to you and coming clean about his feelings towards you, and telling you the truth about your boyfriend now, shows he's sincere and honest.
You're probably gonna be much much happoer that way. And from the looks/sounds of it. You're not gonna regret it very much.
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Next time just make up names. That single letter crap drives me crazy.
Anyway... It's not just you, if my boyfriend flirted with a lot of different girls like that it would upset me, and you have a right to be upset. So talk to your boyfriend, don't just bring it up in a conversation. Sit him down and talk to him about it. Tell him how his flirting with girls makes you feel, if he really cares about then he'll make an effort to stop. If he doesn't stop then maybe it is time to go out with someone else. It sounds like what he does causes problems in your relationship.
It sounds like this other guy is really sweet, and if your boyfriend doesn't stop then you should really give him a chance. You might miss your boyfriend a little, but that's normal. Your boyfriend sounds really controlling and it doesn't sound like he respects you or trusts you at all. That is not a healthy relationship. I honestly think if you were to stay with him you would regret it. I think you should break up with your boyfriend and give this other guy a chance. He seems like a really good guy, and I think you would be a lot happier with him.
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