Q: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months. After about 2 months of going out he lost his job and couldnt afford to pay his rent so had to move out and it was very short notice. He didnt have anywhere to go so my friend let him stay with him for a couple of days and then he ended up moving in with me, my parents and my brother. Unfortunately he has not had any luck getting a new job so has lived with me for 7 months. In the same room and everything. But now he says when he gets a job he's going to move out and that i can go and stay with him and he can stay with me. I knew him staying with me was never meant to be permenant but I am having a hard time dealing with him moving and me not going with him after we've been living as a couple for so long. He wont see me as much and i think it will affect our relationship. I'm scared I will lose him and dont really know what to do to deal with it. Any advice?

Q: ok well, i have a boyfriend of 8 months and i love him i really do but recently all i can think about is my ex-boyfriend who i havent talked to in like a year and i was his first hookup and his last and i think if we tried again it would really work out..but i still love my current bf to death. but its bad how much i have been missing him and really thinking about him...ahh i dont noo what to do!!!!!!!!! age 15 boyfriend is 17 ex is 16

Q: ok well i got a new boy frined we talked for like 2 weeks and i blame my self for not getting to know him completely but i didnt think things would change like they have when we were talking he was the sweetest guy to me he made me realy happy and special he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yes we have been together 3 weeks and well im not as happy any more he doesnt do any thing now it seems like he doesnt care he wont call or text unless i do it first he doesnt treat me like his girl friend i dont know what to do i want him to care about me show it and mean it like he said he would i have talked to him about this and he said i am to sensitve and i get mad to easly but im not even mad im just confused and kinda sad on why things have changed i dont like it what should i do i mean i have guy friends that show me they care about me more than my own boy friend does :( i want our realtionship to work i like him alot what should i do???

Q: I am 15 years old and i am a female and i currently like this guy named torrey.
he is sucha sweetheart and he really knows how to treat a girl proper!
The other day we were playing a game of 20 questions and he asked me if i had ever liked him and i said yes and so i asked him the same question back and he said yes, and then i asked him if he still liked me and he said yes and i told him that i still liked him, but he said he wanted to take things slow, so im not sure if were a couple or not. He keeps saying how badly he wants to kiss me and i told him i want to kiss him really badly too. I really hope he is planning on asking me out becuase i like him ALOT!
Anyways im supposed to be going to his house this week to watch scary movies(his choice) and i don't know if i should ask him to make us official or if i should wait?
SO please Help!

Q: okay, so theres this guy name Jacob. we're pretty good friends[although im like totaly in love with him! and he sure knows it]. we usualy talk to eachother 24/7 in all the classes we got together.
and well i've recently been avoiding him, try to make short conversations, and not to talk to him or even look at him.
but i've been laughing and hanging around with his friends[my friends] quite well and alot too. right in front of him, i dont mean to haha. its a coincidence..
i dunno if hes' jealous or just feels left out, but now hes trying to make me laugh again[been going to the emo side lately] & talk to me. you can tell if you were me. felt awkward.
i just act like i dont care cause im quite mad at him. =\
also.. in the halls, wen we pass eachother alot he usualy smiles realy huge at me. which makes me laugh to but i mean cmon, im mad at him, im not suppose to laugh >_<
also, me best friend has a class with him and she sits in front of him and she tells me that he also throughs paper balls at her[ i got reasons to believe that hes flirting with her. but you no how naive a girl can be..xD] but anywayz. it makes me wonder if he's really jealous.

&& i got a huge test[state test whatever mines the FCAT and i dont wanna be stressing out and fail it bkuz it determines if i going to high skool or not and i dont wanna be worrying about what hes thinking]

so i wanna no if hes jealous or feels left out?

14/f and in 8th grade

Q: Hey. a little bit ago you just gave me advice on liking an older guy. you said to write on his facebook wall because communication like that is the easiest. Do you think it would be weird though because we dont talk that much so i dont want him to think i'm like a little freshman that's obsessed with him. Cause a lot of freshman are like that to him. So do you think i should wait until we are a little better friends, or just say hey on his wall now.

thanks!!

Q: hey so i really liek this guy and he is two grades above me and very well liked so it is pretty much impossible that i could ever get with him but does anyone have any advice whatsoever. i'm a freshman while he is a junior in high school. I know this is pretty much impossible but does anyone have anything i can do or say around him to make him think of me in a different way? we arent good friends at all but we have talked before and he knows me. i dont want to like write on his facebook wall or do anything like that cause i dont know him well enough.. anything else?

ah thanks!

Q: 13/m

A year ago i met this girl in 4th period. We instinly became really good friends. After a few weeks we started flirting a little bit. Over the summer i didnt see her but i thought to myself if i liked her. I still liked this one girl so i knew that i didnt. in the beginning of this school year i decicded to ask her out. She said no. A few days later this one girl asked me out. i said okay so i could find out if i would grow into liking her. She ended up breaking up with me for my friend then breaking up with him for my best friend. This made me pissed. Anyway, i started liking the girl i met a year ago. so, 2 weeks later i asked her out and she said yes :-). unfortunatly she broke up with him because she still had feelings for the person she likes. Everyone said she didn't however. Now i dont know if i like her or not. We're closer then ever and flirt all the time. I keep telling myself and everyone i dont like her (which im sure that i dont like her) but everyone says i do. I tried talking to her about this but she sounded like she didnt believe me. Even though i don't like her all i want is a second chance with her. My mind says another thing.
I have 2 questions:
1) how can i get her to make the move to ask me out or something like that
2) how can i get everyone (including her) to stop thinking i like her.

thanks in advanced

Q: so there's always arguements over what guys like about girls. we all think it's straight blond hair and big butt and all that stuff, what do guys really like in a girl though?

i know it depends on the guy, but do they like smart chicks, or ones that are happy all the time? what do guys in general like about any girl?

sorry for a lot of questions...
and thanks for answering. :)

Q: I need help. To start of there are two guys that i really like and they like me also and one guy is always tryin to get to know me better but at the same time he keeps trying to get in my jeans and i'm not sure if he totally respects my wishes and at the same time he cares about me so much and he like calls me every day and things like that and he's more like a boyfriend than just a dude that i like. and well the other guy is not as caring and nurchring as he should be but he respects my wishes and he likes me alot too but he hardly ever calls me. and well ima put it this way he's a great kisser.

WHO WOULD I BE BETTER OFF WITH?

Q: There is this girl at my school and she is amazing. She is always happy, extremely nice...and i swear she is friends with everyone! I'm really falling head over heels for this girl. I've noticed she acts a bit different around me now a days...and I was wondering...did i do something wrong? She always looks at the floor and has trouble keeping eye contact with me. Plus, she giggles a lot? Is she laughing at me..something I do? Anyway, it would help if I knew what these meant. A few weeks ago i started a secert admirer thingy. I've sent her flowers and wrote her short little love letter/poem things. Any chance she found out or something. Should I stop with the whole 'secert admirer'...do girls think that's lame? Well, anyways, I'm planning on asking her out, but I'm really nervous and I'm not too sure how to ask. I really like this girl, i want to impress her, put a smile on her face.
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance! =)

Q: i think, but i just dont know, but i think im in love...see this guy i just dont really know a whole lot about him, but he is everywhere i look...i told him i liked him like two months ago and i think i scared him off,,im in the process for asking for a truce and getting to know each other...but i have tried to get over him and just when i think i do, he pops up again...i dont know why...but all of these quizzes saying are you in love they wont tell you,,they are mostly about when you know the guy really well...but i dont hardly talk to him like maybe once a week...if i am in love i dont know what it feels like..i just know that i have never felt like this about anyone ever before...he is with me everywhere at everytime...but i see more to him than when others just see a pretty face..i see that he is a good person and has a lot of poteintial in his life..i see that he cares and is a gentlemen...i see him not the cute guy that plays soccer,,you know..i just dont know what to do...so can you help???

Q: My story is too long, So im going to summarize it. I am so in love with this guy, There realy isnt any comparsion to how much we loved eachother. We were together for 2 years, And basicaly legends in our school. All because of how much we loved eachother. people would envy us so much and everyone said there is no way are we ever going to end up seperated.
Well we were going through alot of fights and problems lately, And i had decided to end it. He became furious and full of rage, And he said we shouldnt speak. Its been now 3 weeks and a half..He has tried to make small talk with me. We see eachother EVERYDAY in school which makes it harder to move on. Everyone see's it and as do i, He stares at me alot, Always glancing when my back is turned, He tries to have small talk with me, but always seems just angry during it, And he heard i was dating someone and actualy asked me about it. But though he does all that all his friends and his own brother said taht hes over me. My question is..How could a strong love relationship that was legend had him get over me so quickly? Is it possible that in 3 weeks and a half he could be over me soo soon? Even though he does all that.
I also want to add when he was trying to get over me he went out and did weed, Hung out with sluts ( but never did anything with them, I think it was just to get me jealous) He went out and smoked, and though he never played soccer at school everyday he plays soccer now, And before he had told me that soccer was a way of him keeping his mind off things.
I have no idea whats going on. Or what to do. I dono how to tell if a guy is completely over me or not. I dont know if he is. And its killing me so much to think he could be done. Usualy after every fight if i dumped him hed run after me but this time he was the one saying he didnt want to speak anymore. I just have no idea whats going on.
Help =[ I dont realy ever ask for advice..But im just so hurt, Thankyou in advance =]

Q: Yesterday when I was talking to my BF, I asked him if he got mad at me the night before and he said yea. Me and a bunch of our friends were sitting around a table in my friends backyard. There werent enough chairs so I sat on my BF's lap and one of my guy friends sat on my friend thats a girl's lap. There is an inside joke we have that she's a banana and I wanted to "squiish" her so I sat on the guys lap who was sitting on her. It wasnt even in a way at all that even seemed more thn friendly and my BF knows that and he knows I wouldn nver cheat on him in any way. I would never touch a guy I felt was in more than a friendly way. He got mad at me and I knew it right away cause he got really quiet. He also told me to never do it again when I feel I didnt even do anything wrong. I wasnt like rubbing up against the kid or making it seem at all more than just sitting on him. But the thing is, he's actually slept over a girl friend of his's house before I met her and all I knew was she was his ex. I did not get mad or jealous. He also went wasnt home for two days and idnt call me either one to tell me where he was or anything. I had to ask his sister. I didnt get mad at him for that either. I don't think I could trust him anymore than I do right now but it just makes me so angry he got madd over that.

Q: This is reallllly long, I'm sorry!!

To start off, my last relationship (also my first) was horrible. I don't know what I was thinking. I went to camp with him, we kind of sort of shyly talked and I liked him, he asked me out and I said yes. We hung out 3 times in a span of 2 months and he smoked in front of me (after I told him I hate it) and just used me... and cheated on me with at LEAST 4 girls. Those are just the ones I know about. I don't care about him at all anymore, I never think about him, we didn't talk before so we still don't now.

So my point is that that relationship kind of left a mark and now I have some of the same fears. I am now in a relationship with a boy who was one of my best friends. We both kind of admired each other from afar before we met, then when we did we liked each other's personalities too and realized we liked each other. And, lucky us, we had a mutual friend and eventually it was like our 2 groups of friends merged and now we are an inseparable pack. haha. So after a year or so of liking each other he finally asked me out (he was so shy. He had actually been in a relationship with one of my "friends" who no one really likes. And they didn't talk the WHOLE time. It was pointless. And my friend KNEW I liked him and still asked HIM out! And he was desperate I guess, and that mutual friend from before convinced him to do it.) Other than this though he was so shy and I didn't think he even liked girls yet, haha.

Everyone thought us going out would be awkward since he used to be so shy with girls. But after a few days of a nothing-changed-still-good-friends relationship, we started treating each other like more than friends. And we have been great ever since (It has been about 4 1/2 months).

Sorry for such a long prelude, but it does take a while to understand.


Anyway, he is so good to me. And having had that horrible relationship before, I feel like I am not being grateful enough for what he does for me because I am always a little skeptical.
I am a very jealous person, but I don't like anyone to know that, so I try to keep it hidden. He doesn't really talk to many other girls except my best friends which is fine. But there is one girl I always thought liked him and I thought he used to like her, and sometimes I still worry about it. He has dealt with me asking about her and worrying and annoying him about her multiple times and he is still okay with it. He says she is too difficult to talk to and doesn't have anything important to say so he could never like her anyway. He teases her, but most of the time it is her that initiates talking to him. I know that's how boys flirt so I asked him about it. He said that that isn't how he flirts. At first I didn't believe him, but then he told me how he just teases everyone else and when he was "flirting" with me he never did. And it's true, he never really did tease me. But does that make sense? Is he just the guy who flirts differently or is he saying that?

Anyway, a while ago my friends who were going out broke up. My boyfriend said something like "well I can see where James (the guy who broke up with the girl) is coming from. I mean we are sophomores in high school. We can't expect to last forever. Like right now I see no reason for us to break up at all, but I don't think it will last forever"
Well, it hurt but I knew I shouldn't be naive and expect us to be together forever since we are so young.
After a while we were talking and I told him that I made 11:11 wishes that he would always love me. And he said he would love me forever. I want to believe him because it is such a sense of security knowing that he won't be gone tomorrow, but what he said before holds me back.

He says I make him happy and that before I was with him he was just okay, never actually happy. The way he describes it, like I compliment him and he has fun hanging out with me, sounds half like maybe I am just an ego boost. I don't know.

Also, he told me the other day that he doesn't think of me as a girlfriend. "We treat each other like boyfriend and girlfriend, but I just always think of you as more like my best friend. I guess it just never hit me. I know you are my girlfriend but it takes me a while to realize it sometimes." He's not stupid, don't worry. I just wonder if that is a good thing?

I feel like I am forgetting something I wanted to ask. But I just feel like I need someone's input on this. I have no problems with him but these things just stay in the back of my mind and I think about them too much.

Q: Okay, so there are some girls at my school who send naked pictures of themselves to guys. And they hang all over guys (even guys who are taken) and talk dirty and stuff. So I've always been told that guys don't really like girls like that. But I've heard guys saying that these girls are hot. And one of my guy friends wants me to set him up with one of those girls. So I'm confused. Do guys like girls like that, or not? (I guess girls can answer, but I'd really like to hear from some guys too).

Q: My name is Angela, im 20 years old. I have a 10 month old son. Im in an emotional bind. I have no idea what to do. Im engaged to an amazing man. I love him so much. The problem, im emotionally attached to someone else. This is the second time this has happened. Ive known my fiance for 6 months. Ive known the other guy for 4 years. I dont know what to do. Should I leave my current fiance for the other guy?

Q: 13/F Okay well I am with this AMAZING guy named "Stuart". He is sooo sweet and before we got together, we were best friends for about 9 months. Pretty much since I met him, we have had an instant connection like no other. I am closer to him than any other guy I have ever been with. He is just different, he makes me feel great. When I think about him or when im with him, I get goosebumps and butterflies and like this heartache runs from my neck all the way down to my feet. We can talk about ANYTHING and we are not afraid to be ourselves, we are practically best friends but just more flirty and stuff =P. Well that's enough talking about him. I am seriously always thinking about him, pretty much 24/7. Every time I think about him, I smile, everytime my phone goes off...I am wishing it's him. I am starting to think I am in love for the first time. But I have never been before so I am not sure what it feels like. Can any one try to explain what it feels like and if maybe I am?

And he already told me he is in love with me, I told him I might be too and kissed him (that was our first kiss together). What would be a cool way to tell him with out verbally saying it? Haha sorry, I have a probably with actually saying that kind of stuff =P

Thanks in advance!!
:D

Q: I'm so sad to say that my boyfriend of six months and I are probably coming to an end. We fight so often now and things are just getting tough with us. But I have a big problem, he's a huge part of my life. He spends almost everyday with me, my mom is the one who takes him shopping when he needs new clothes, we even buy foods that only he likes to keep in our pantry for him. We're so close, I could never imagine having another relationship with a guy like the relationship him and I have.

I don't know how I could ever let go when the time comes. How should I deal with it?

Q: Okay so my 2 friends *girls* told me that theyve kissed before.. and then one of them was like trying to get me to kiss her.. but without me noticing.. and a while ago i asked the other one about it and she said yah she like wanted to kiss you.. Its been 4 months since they told me and im really curious what itd be like to kiss a girl.. I like really want to all of a suddon..:S

please help me:)
Thank you

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