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moving out


Question Posted Tuesday February 17 2009, 3:44 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months. After about 2 months of going out he lost his job and couldnt afford to pay his rent so had to move out and it was very short notice. He didnt have anywhere to go so my friend let him stay with him for a couple of days and then he ended up moving in with me, my parents and my brother. Unfortunately he has not had any luck getting a new job so has lived with me for 7 months. In the same room and everything. But now he says when he gets a job he's going to move out and that i can go and stay with him and he can stay with me. I knew him staying with me was never meant to be permenant but I am having a hard time dealing with him moving and me not going with him after we've been living as a couple for so long. He wont see me as much and i think it will affect our relationship. I'm scared I will lose him and dont really know what to do to deal with it. Any advice?

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KellyHappy answered Wednesday February 18 2009, 6:11 pm:
Tell him to get the job, but not move out cause you'll miss him.
It'll be easier because he won't have to pay rent and bills, and it will benefit your relationship. Tell him that when he gets a job, he can save up for a while, and then he can get a place for you to both move into.

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