ok well, i have a boyfriend of 8 months and i love him i really do but recently all i can think about is my ex-boyfriend who i havent talked to in like a year and i was his first hookup and his last and i think if we tried again it would really work out..but i still love my current bf to death. but its bad how much i have been missing him and really thinking about him...ahh i dont noo what to do!!!!!!!!! age 15 boyfriend is 17 ex is 16
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? KellyHappy answered Tuesday November 4 2008, 7:24 pm: Well, you haven't spoken to this ex in a year.
Is there a reason you haven't spoken to him? Ever consider that maybe you broke up for a legit reason too?
I think you're thinking of your ex because you want your current boyfriend to treat you more like your ex, maybe, I can't be completely sure.
Or maybe someone has walked into your life who reminds you of your ex, or something that you're learning in school is reminding you of him. There could be tons of reasons he's popping back into your head, they don't have to be that you still like him.
But if you do seriously still have feelings for your ex, it's not fair to keep dating a guy that you don't like as much as someone else.
So if you're sure that you like your ex more, break up with your current boyfriend. And if you and your ex don't work out, maybe you're meant to be single for a bit. [ KellyHappy's advice column | Ask KellyHappy A Question ]
loveyou915 answered Monday November 3 2008, 11:54 pm: maybe you just miss being with him and the way things used to be, and not just physically him.
and i think you might love your boyfriend now, but not be in love with him.
try and not think about your exboyfriend, and just focus on your boyfriend now. but if it deosnt feel the same anymore and there isnt that bond with him. then maybe it isnt meant to be, and you really are suppose to be with your ex. [ loveyou915's advice column | Ask loveyou915 A Question ]
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