A year ago i met this girl in 4th period. We instinly became really good friends. After a few weeks we started flirting a little bit. Over the summer i didnt see her but i thought to myself if i liked her. I still liked this one girl so i knew that i didnt. in the beginning of this school year i decicded to ask her out. She said no. A few days later this one girl asked me out. i said okay so i could find out if i would grow into liking her. She ended up breaking up with me for my friend then breaking up with him for my best friend. This made me pissed. Anyway, i started liking the girl i met a year ago. so, 2 weeks later i asked her out and she said yes :-). unfortunatly she broke up with him because she still had feelings for the person she likes. Everyone said she didn't however. Now i dont know if i like her or not. We're closer then ever and flirt all the time. I keep telling myself and everyone i dont like her (which im sure that i dont like her) but everyone says i do. I tried talking to her about this but she sounded like she didnt believe me. Even though i don't like her all i want is a second chance with her. My mind says another thing.
I have 2 questions:
1) how can i get her to make the move to ask me out or something like that
2) how can i get everyone (including her) to stop thinking i like her.
I think you do like her, obviously everyone else is seeing something that you aren't, so just go for it.
Also, usually guys make the first move, so instead of waiting for her to ask you out, why don't you just ask her out? [ KellyHappy's advice column | Ask KellyHappy A Question ]
Cassiopea answered Sunday February 24 2008, 3:23 pm: Then stop acting like you do. People are seeing something that you don't. I am pretty sure you like her if you are that confused. Just give in. Really think about it. If you want to date her that means you like her. i know it is confusing but once you stop trying to shove your feelings down things will clear up. [ Cassiopea's advice column | Ask Cassiopea A Question ]
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