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Clues...
I want to know if this guy likes me or not. I want to find out, but without going right out and asking him.
To the guys: Are there any hints that you throw girls to let them know you like them?
Guys only please, it probably wouldn't help as much if a girl answered.
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From there:
First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because my ex-girlfriend was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded. I haven't had a girlfriend since then [last December, I believe].
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
*EDIT*
Hey- sorry I just copied an answer from before.. so maybe I'll try to address the last question you had:
Yes there are definitely hints. I am always smiling at the girls I like. I'm always laughing when I'm around them. I make stupid and silly jokes. I find any excuse to touch her [not like sexually, mind you]. I do whatever it takes to get her to smile. Seeing a girl that I like smile totally makes my day ;].
Hopefully you see this edit =]
--Jack
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