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Does he have the right to be mad?
Yesterday when I was talking to my BF, I asked him if he got mad at me the night before and he said yea. Me and a bunch of our friends were sitting around a table in my friends backyard. There werent enough chairs so I sat on my BF's lap and one of my guy friends sat on my friend thats a girl's lap. There is an inside joke we have that she's a banana and I wanted to "squiish" her so I sat on the guys lap who was sitting on her. It wasnt even in a way at all that even seemed more thn friendly and my BF knows that and he knows I wouldn nver cheat on him in any way. I would never touch a guy I felt was in more than a friendly way. He got mad at me and I knew it right away cause he got really quiet. He also told me to never do it again when I feel I didnt even do anything wrong. I wasnt like rubbing up against the kid or making it seem at all more than just sitting on him. But the thing is, he's actually slept over a girl friend of his's house before I met her and all I knew was she was his ex. I did not get mad or jealous. He also went wasnt home for two days and idnt call me either one to tell me where he was or anything. I had to ask his sister. I didnt get mad at him for that either. I don't think I could trust him anymore than I do right now but it just makes me so angry he got madd over that.
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i think its more of a jealousy than a being mad.
boys are too machoistic to admit that theyre jealous, so they act like their mad and try to guilt theyre way into getting what they want.
thats usually how guys are anyway.
so, dont do it again, but dont worry about it, because its probably not a big deal.
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well this shows that he really cares about you and you forgive his mistakes so i would advise that you talk to him that you forgive a lot of his mistakes and you would like him to do the same for you.
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Maybe he was just hurt that you were sitting on another guys lap, or maybe even jealous. Talk to him about it, how would you feel if another girl was sitting on his lap? I know I would hate it if a different girl was sitting on my boyfriends lap. It doesn't matter if you weren't doing anything overtly sexual. Like I said, he's probably more upset than actually angry, so try not to be to hard on him.
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