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Am I in love?!
13/F Okay well I am with this AMAZING guy named "Stuart". He is sooo sweet and before we got together, we were best friends for about 9 months. Pretty much since I met him, we have had an instant connection like no other. I am closer to him than any other guy I have ever been with. He is just different, he makes me feel great. When I think about him or when im with him, I get goosebumps and butterflies and like this heartache runs from my neck all the way down to my feet. We can talk about ANYTHING and we are not afraid to be ourselves, we are practically best friends but just more flirty and stuff =P. Well that's enough talking about him. I am seriously always thinking about him, pretty much 24/7. Every time I think about him, I smile, everytime my phone goes off...I am wishing it's him. I am starting to think I am in love for the first time. But I have never been before so I am not sure what it feels like. Can any one try to explain what it feels like and if maybe I am?
And he already told me he is in love with me, I told him I might be too and kissed him (that was our first kiss together). What would be a cool way to tell him with out verbally saying it? Haha sorry, I have a probably with actually saying that kind of stuff =P
Thanks in advance!!
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Everyone did a good job at answering this. They are right. If you have to question if you are in love or not, then your probably NOT in love. Thats just the reality of the situation. When you are in love, you KNOW it. Haha.
It does sound like you have a good thing going here though. Im glad he makes you so happy. Just give it time. *Smiles*.
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if youre asking i your in love, that means your not. when youre in love with someone, you dont question it, you dont think twice.
its a natural feeling and cannot be forced and has to be recognized by oneself.
it could just be puppy love. you two sound really cute together, and you sound like you do love him, but you dont know if your in love with him.
the fact that you dont know, makes me think that you dont.
so, if you guys went out, maybe your love for him will blossom into something farther that just loving.
also, its perfectly natural to have little crushes on other people, as long as the feelings for them arent, and dont have to potential to be more than you have for "stuart" then theres nothing to worry about.
i think you should tell him that you love him, and you want to go out. plain and simple. dont say your in love. because your obviously not sure yet. but once your possitive, then you can tell him.
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The fact that you are even questioning whether or not you love him makes me think that you don't.
When you fall in love, you know. There is no questioning your feelings or forcing yourself into it, it just happens.
It's obvious that you have really strong feelings for this guy, no one but you can tell you whether or not it's love. Right now it sounds like things are really good between you so focus on that. Don't keep worrying about whether or not you love him, just enjoy being with him and maybe your feelings will grow and one day you will realise that you are in love with him.
It's normal to get crushes on other people. Crushes are temporary and are based more on lust than deep feelings. It's fine to find other guys attractive, actually having real feelings for them is another matter. Some people are natural flirts but I would tone it down now you have a boyfriend because it can cause all sorts of problems. Try to avoid deliberately flirting with people, especially if you find them attractive as it can lead to bigger things.
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