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i think, but i just dont know, but i think im in love...see this guy i just dont really know a whole lot about him, but he is everywhere i look...i told him i liked him like two months ago and i think i scared him off,,im in the process for asking for a truce and getting to know each other...but i have tried to get over him and just when i think i do, he pops up again...i dont know why...but all of these quizzes saying are you in love they wont tell you,,they are mostly about when you know the guy really well...but i dont hardly talk to him like maybe once a week...if i am in love i dont know what it feels like..i just know that i have never felt like this about anyone ever before...he is with me everywhere at everytime...but i see more to him than when others just see a pretty face..i see that he is a good person and has a lot of poteintial in his life..i see that he cares and is a gentlemen...i see him not the cute guy that plays soccer,,you know..i just dont know what to do...so can you help???
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There is always the chance that you really do love him. But most likely, you're just infatuated with him. If you're not dating or you don't hang out with each other, then you can't possibly know the real him. You do care about him for more than his looks, but that is still a form of infatuation. There is always that 1 in a million time when you have love at first sight, but do you really think its that? Try to hang out with him, if you really did scare him off then work at getting him back, but don't act obsessive. Try to work up some small talk with him and build on that. Ask him to go out to eat or something, try to hang out with him. He has to feel something back for you for you to really know that this 'love' is worth pursuing.
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The way you put it was a little unclear, but let me try and make some sense of it. You see him everywhere? That makes it seem like you run into him a lot, but then when you say you see the good person he is, it makes me think that you two are just friends. I'll answer for both situations just to be sure.
If you see him a lot, but you aren't very close with him, I would say you aren't in love. You could have a very serious crush on this guy, but it's not love.
If he's a friend, it's completely plausible that you have fallen in love. If you told him how you felt before and he ran off, then maybe he's scared, not ready for a relationship, or unfortunately doesn't have the same feelings for you that you have for him.
Either way, try to express your feelings for him. Talk to him, tease him, flirt with him. I know when a girl touches me, even grabbing my arm or something, my immediate reaction is to reciprocate the flirting (if I'm interested), or to get out (if I'm not). Kicking off a relationship between two people is the easiest part of the relationship if the two people are interested in each other. This is the easiest way to know how.
Now, if you want to know if you're in love. The way I feel about my girlfriend is that she's the person I waited for my entire life. That she filled some kind of emptiness inside me. I don't think she's perfect, but I accept her imperfections as part of the beautiful person she is. It's the feeling that nothing can go wrong as long as someone is at your side, and the constant fear of what will happen the day their not. That, I believe, is love. If that's how you feel, then good luck, but I see way too many people that confuse love with a huge crush.
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well, im not quite sure i understand what the question is here.
but, i understand how you feel when you think your over someone and then they just come back into your head.
ive been through it before, and it will eventually go away, i can promise you that.
im also pretty sure your not in love with the kid, cause youre probably too young to know, and now a days in america, people use the term love very lightly, you probably just have strong feelings for him.
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Of course. =)
I had thought that I loved a guy before, but I think I had only felt that way because he was the first guy to actually like me. So, before you devote yourself to him, just remember that at this point it's a crush, and it's too early to truly tell if you love this guy.
And about scaring him off? I doubt it! Guys have that huge ego so he was probably just shocked a bit. But it's good that you're in the process for getting to know him better. I'm sure he'll be willing to be friends, and if he isn't, it's his loss! Don't forget that, okay?
It's a rarity for someone to see more than just a cute face, so congrats for being a good person, haha. I hope he sees that you're an awesome person, too, and good luck with the friendship (and hopefully soon relationship!)
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