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out of my league
hey so i really liek this guy and he is two grades above me and very well liked so it is pretty much impossible that i could ever get with him but does anyone have any advice whatsoever. i'm a freshman while he is a junior in high school. I know this is pretty much impossible but does anyone have anything i can do or say around him to make him think of me in a different way? we arent good friends at all but we have talked before and he knows me. i dont want to like write on his facebook wall or do anything like that cause i dont know him well enough.. anything else?
ah thanks!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I'll tell you this, it's no where near imposible.
I'm a freshman, and I'm dating a senior, so it can be done. =]
Anyways, talking on the internet is usually the easiest form of communication for people, so maybe you could make a witty picture comment, or just ask what's up. Basically, if you're friends with him on facebook, it won't be weird to talk to him on facebook.
As for conversations in person, i know its trite, but just be yourself. If he gets to know and like you, while you're pretending to be something you're not, the relationship, whether it be friendship or more than that, will fail. You really need to just be more outgoing, guys like it when you be yourself, and show interest in them.
Hope i helped =]
If you need anything else, or have a specific question, feel free to access my inbox.
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Okay well, if you like the guy enough, then you should try. I mean if you keep saying he is out of your league, then you will pretty much bomb your self confidence. And we dont want that! :) All you really need to do is just be yourself. And some guys think that a girl should change herself (i know i have one as a best friend and i get on to him about it all the time) but those guys arent worth it. I cant tell you how many times i have pretty much slapped jt upside the head for him talking about a girl like that. I have him trained a little bit, but not completely. But ANYWAYS! ha ha just be yourself and if the guy dont like you for who you are then you should just forget about him. I know its cliche' but its true. Nothing is out of reach if you want it bad enough.
-hayley
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