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i wonder what guys think...
so there's always arguements over what guys like about girls. we all think it's straight blond hair and big butt and all that stuff, what do guys really like in a girl though?
i know it depends on the guy, but do they like smart chicks, or ones that are happy all the time? what do guys in general like about any girl?
sorry for a lot of questions...
and thanks for answering. :)
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Most boys like a girl that is on their own intellectual level, so that they can have actual conversations with them, and neither shows each other up all the time.
As for looks, seriously, every guy is different. Around their friends they act like they like the "perfect girl" with the blonde hair and the big boobs, but in real life they don't.
I've met guys who like heavier girls, girls with no boobs, girls with giant boobs, girls with red hair, or brown hair, no butt, a huge butt, it really just depends on the boy.
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First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because my ex-girlfriend was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded. I haven't had a girlfriend since then [last December, I believe].
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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