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just curious...
f/15
1.) so i'm told all the time that certain guys like me, but how can i really tell if they do? how do guys act if they like a girl?
2.) and i told this guy i liked him and he was listening completely when i was talking to him. but do guys even like it when the girls tell them they like them? is it a good sign? do guys like them more?
it'd be nice to have a guy point of view too.
thanks in advance.
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1. Well there are different types of guys out there. There are the immature ones that always flirt uncontrollably and unecessarily. They seem cute but those types of guys don't usually seem to take the relationship seriously. There are the romance kind that may leave secret notes and aren't so blunt and out there when they flirt. Those kind usually make good relationships and tend to fall in love. Then lastly we have the shady kind that just don't do anything. But usually make good relationships. Just watch out for those things. The more a guy is attracted to you, the less subtle at flirting they become.
2. Yeah guys like it when you tell them they like you even if they don't like you back. It depends on the looks and status. If your pretty and able to get a guy and are fairly known and liked by their kind of crowd then yes they would like it. If your some kind of air-headed annoying girl then I doubt it. Or if your considered the wierd girl. Its all very stereotypical and shallow but thems the brakes sweetie. If your decent enough then yes they will like you. This usually reffers to the pretty boys, jocks, and popular boy crowd.
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First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because my ex-girlfriend was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded. I haven't had a girlfriend since then [last December, I believe].
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
2. Guys definitely like it when girls like them. I know it makes me feel really good- because it kind of makes me feel like I'm doing something right- you know? It is definitely a good sign and subconsciously the guy likes the girl more ;]
--Jack
(16/MALE)
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