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is he jealous or just feels left out?


Question Posted Saturday March 8 2008, 11:54 pm

okay, so theres this guy name Jacob. we're pretty good friends[although im like totaly in love with him! and he sure knows it]. we usualy talk to eachother 24/7 in all the classes we got together.
and well i've recently been avoiding him, try to make short conversations, and not to talk to him or even look at him.
but i've been laughing and hanging around with his friends[my friends] quite well and alot too. right in front of him, i dont mean to haha. its a coincidence..
i dunno if hes' jealous or just feels left out, but now hes trying to make me laugh again[been going to the emo side lately] & talk to me. you can tell if you were me. felt awkward.
i just act like i dont care cause im quite mad at him. =\
also.. in the halls, wen we pass eachother alot he usualy smiles realy huge at me. which makes me laugh to but i mean cmon, im mad at him, im not suppose to laugh >_<
also, me best friend has a class with him and she sits in front of him and she tells me that he also throughs paper balls at her[ i got reasons to believe that hes flirting with her. but you no how naive a girl can be..xD] but anywayz. it makes me wonder if he's really jealous.

&& i got a huge test[state test whatever mines the FCAT and i dont wanna be stressing out and fail it bkuz it determines if i going to high skool or not and i dont wanna be worrying about what hes thinking]

so i wanna no if hes jealous or feels left out?

14/f and in 8th grade


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KellyHappy answered Sunday March 9 2008, 2:34 pm:
I think that he just wants your attention back.
You aren't flirting with other guys around him or anything, so he doesn't exactly have a reason to be jealous.
Also, I'm sure his other friends are including him with stuff, so he probably doesn't feel left out.

He just wants to be your center of attention again because:
A) It made him feel special
B) He really likes you =)

And also, I'm in 9th grade, and also taking the FCAT this Tuesday.
Believe me, the 8th grade FCAT is by far the easiest one of all the years that I've taken it. Don't stress and just get a good night sleep there's really no reason to over think it.

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MaggieMaclean answered Sunday March 9 2008, 7:37 am:
Dear Jealous,
Well from my point of view I would guess that maybe he likes you, he didn't like you as much when you were around all the time but now that your not he started thinking about you more. The other possibility is that he is afraid to lose you as a friend. You didn't mention what you were angry about but if its not a big deal just forgive him. Odviously he wants your friendship, or more, pretty badly but whatever it is you should probably find out. Hope this helps.

Sincerely Maggie Maclean

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